my friend got knocked up
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Topic: my friend got knocked up
Posted By: TippmannA5User
Subject: my friend got knocked up
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:51pm
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This girl who has been a friend for a few years (lets call her Jane) got knocked up prior to graduation, and 4 months later moved out and has living with the father for a month. Jane is 19, he is 17 (Rape!), and yes, the father is living with his parents. She is in her 5th month. I didn't know about this untill about a week ago, my mom is friends with Jane's mom and when she called, she told my mom the whole story. The mom of Jane is screaming for her to get an abortion, and I, Jane, and her friends, and the father are all totaly against it, we want her to give it up for adoption. Now for about Jane herself, the wierd part. She is a quiet person, not the best looking, and I never knew she even had a boyfriend, let alone having sex yet. The bad part is she had a 4.3 GPA in highschool and got a full ride to OSU, and now that idea is history. I know nothing about the father, except I'v heard he is a total jackass, poor, non working, and a idiot. I have been told this, again, so I am not sure. Now for the things about me. What do I do? Jane dosn't know that I know she has gone through this, and I havn't seen her in about a month. Do I call her and offer to help her or just let her and her closer frinds, relitives, and boyfriend work through this? ------------- Just shoot yourself and save me the trouble. click the pic! http://mypaintballpics.mypicgallery.com/mpg/Route.asp"> 
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Posted By: thecorpseman
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:53pm
Ummmmmmmmmmmmm.  ------------- FAPM- Forumers against PopeMobile. |
Posted By: The American
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:54pm
I would call her just for support she could really use that i bet, actually i know, who wouldnt need it ------------- 
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Posted By: NotDaveEllis
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:54pm
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I'd just distance myself from the problem.
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Posted By: TippmannA5User
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:57pm
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I'm thinking just to plead ignorance, stay away from the problem till she brings it up. Ignorance is bliss. ------------- Just shoot yourself and save me the trouble. click the pic! http://mypaintballpics.mypicgallery.com/mpg/Route.asp">
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 07 August 2004 at 11:58pm
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Wow, thats pretty heavy. I don't know what I do. I say you call her and ask if she needs a friend. ------------- 
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: TippmannA5User
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:01am
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Like I said, she isn't the closest friend, and I haven't seen her in a month, and she is in her 5th month, so I may be too late. She may have everything worked out without me knowing. Also, I wouldn't mind getting my hands on the father. He just proved his stupidity, hasn't he heard of a rubber? I'd beat his brains in if I got the chance, she was to nice of a girl to get her life All in all, I might call her if I hear any more about this or if I have a real bad feeling about something, but I won't now. ------------- Just shoot yourself and save me the trouble. click the pic! http://mypaintballpics.mypicgallery.com/mpg/Route.asp">
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ed up like this. She never even did drugs or drink just to get hammered.Posted By: Slasher
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:24am
No wiser words spoken. Slasher |
NotDaveEllis wrote:Posted By: impulse
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 1:49am
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Push her down some stairs? ------------- 6,600 posts. I need a lifE |
Posted By: The Ho
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:07am
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I knew this girl in seventh grade that had sex with a freshmen. it is true, she was 13. she thought that she might be pregnatnt too. but she wasnt. that was pretty young to start. ------------- I LIKE BIKES! |
Posted By: 636andy636
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:21am
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Posted By: newport
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:23am
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Heh...
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Posted By: Dayton
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:24am
| Dude if you think your a true friend help her out but i mean if ya dont want to get caught up in some other peoples stuff ide stay away. but thats sad man makes me wanna cry. ya THE HO i know kid in my grade having sex with like senours and im a freshman its pretty sad that senours have to resort it young girls to have sex. |
Posted By: Solipsism
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 3:48am
GG thats great. -------------  http://solipsism.ath.cx - solipsism.ath.cx |
Posted By: SatansEnemy
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:32am
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my question....why is OSU not an option anymore? and yeah i agree have the kid, and put him/her up for adoption... sad case, but you cant get ill just at the "father", she also knew he didnt have a rubber on... and if you see her mom, tell her to back off with the abortion crap, she isnt the one who would have to live her whole life knowing that she killed her own baby. and if you see her, just treat her just like you would before she got pregnant. just like the friend you were, dont treat her like she needs your sympathy...ask if she wants to talk about it, if not just be her friend....she thinks about alot as it is, she doesnt need anyone else shoving it back in her face. just try to have a good time with her as before. |
Posted By: TippmannA5User
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:45am
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uhhh.....no. Sick Bastard ------------- Just shoot yourself and save me the trouble. click the pic! http://mypaintballpics.mypicgallery.com/mpg/Route.asp">
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 11:47am
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Here is the solution:
Call the Maury Show. Get a DNA test to prove you are not the father. Cry about it Tell the girl that you will take care of the baby. She can defer her college entry one semster or a year. So that isnt a problem. As for keeping or putting the baby up for adoption, it is not your choice. So dont worry about it. Also look up your statutory rape laws before claiming someone did so to someone else. ------------- 
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Posted By: RfUiLreZ
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 11:59am
Now, seeing as you didn't talk to her about this, how do you know she doesn't want a baby? And how do you know they didn't plan it or whatever? Not likely, but it could happen seeing how she lives with him now and all. Also, it takes 2 to tango. It's not 100% his fault. |
Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:03pm
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And we`ll all float on ok... ------------- 
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Posted By: Bauerp0weR 18
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:06pm
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OMG! I'm still laughing As for wanting to kick the guy's butt, it's both of their faults. If the guy would suddenly break up with her, then I could see that as an understandable option, but she could have just said no. As for what you should do, I think just being the friend that you always were, and if she asks for your help, then you can, otherwise just lay off that subject. ------------- Black Smart Parts Ion Halo B Check-It Unimount macroline 68/45 Pure Energy tank |
Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:08pm
Its both their faults she is pregnant. As far as we can tell, she wasn't raped. The guy sounds like an ass though, and probably showuld get pwned by a 2x4. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Civilian Of
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:13pm
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Posted By: RfUiLreZ
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:15pm
He doesn't sound like an ass at all. He had her move in with him. How is that in any way shape or form being irresponsible? We don't know the whole story, so give the guy a chance. It's not like he knocked her up and left her. He's living with her, and will probably take care of the baby. |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:16pm
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Who wants to be my baby daddy? -------------
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Posted By: Civilian Of
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 12:23pm
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Posted By: [FI]
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 1:03pm
Shut up? It's not your business. If it was, you would have known about it from the source, not two links away. ------------- Don't believe everything you think I can resist anything but temptation |
Posted By: matt06
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 1:14pm
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how many 17 yr olds really arent poor?
exactly when your 17 you havent rreally had time to make a fortune. o, and as for the rubber thing..how do you know he didnt wear one? you werent their. they arent 100% efective. |
Posted By: [FI]
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 1:17pm
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I'm poor and I'm 17...so I agree! Rubber works most of the time about half as well as you'd like it too. ------------- Don't believe everything you think I can resist anything but temptation |
Posted By: 636andy636
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 1:23pm
i know. i seen this thread and i just needed to post a metal coat hanger.......
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Posted By: Ejp414
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:55pm
Thank you. Now this is the best advice yet. ------------- __________________ __________________ |
Posted By: The Ho
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 2:58pm
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I dont get the coat hanger thing. tell me! ------------- I LIKE BIKES! |
Posted By: xteam02001
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 3:00pm
Why dont you ask your mommy ------------- 
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life. Open my eyes and blind me with your light and your lies. |
Posted By: bigmike102
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 3:26pm
i thought 4.0 was the highest... ------------- . |
Posted By: Ejp414
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 3:49pm
At some schools if you take honors classes, you can get a 5.0 for that class with an A rather than a 4.0. Kind of pisses me off because I take honors at a school that doesn't do that, and just about every other high school in the area does do that... ------------- __________________ __________________ |
Posted By: Ajreaper
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:44pm
| 1) stop referring to her as "knocked up" and 2) if you have not spoken to her or seen her in over a month and she's 5 months along you are not a close friend- mind your own business, this does not concern you in the least. And while your at it keep your opinions of the situation, her boyfriend and what she should do to yourself. |
Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:26pm
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I still would like to know what the coat hanger means. ------------- HI |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:30pm
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Instrument used to get rid of the so=called problem.
Horray- I now gots me a daddy for my baby. Let go collect welfare. -------------
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:32pm
It is a rough form of abortion. I was going to quite the coathanger pic and say this, but this post is much better. "Not funny guys, grow up" |
Posted By: clownshooter
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:44pm
Take Ajreaper's advice. Good call AJ! |
Posted By: paroxysm
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:19pm
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Yeah dude. I don't think I could've said it better than AJjreaper. Don't
bother worrying about other peoples problems - deal with your own
shortcomings.
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Posted By: pimptastik
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:29pm
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i was funny when i saw it then it grew on me now i am kinda sad for her....hope everything works out...just remeber guys no glove no love! ------------- <no ginormous sigs please> |
Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 8:01pm
Oh, he IS living with her. Stupid dyslexia. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |