Please Help
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Topic: Please Help
Posted By: THE SQUID
Subject: Please Help
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:26pm
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I need some help pretty quikly. i am a freshmen at my high school and am pretty popular, especially with the ladys.i wanted to know that if you guys think that a freshmen is old enough to have sex. i know about safe sex but is this old enough. my girlfriend said she wants to but i wasnt sure. i want to but i need your advise. i would ask my dad but he died when i was 6. please help. ------------- HI |
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Posted By: NiQ-Toto
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:29pm
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Let me be the first to say it....
Shenanigans. ------------- ///AMG What? |
Posted By: xteam02001
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:30pm
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why do people ask this stuff on a paintball forum. To answer the question i think you should go AHEAD (if you know what i mean) ------------- 
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life. Open my eyes and blind me with your light and your lies. |
Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:31pm
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what does that mean? i just want a litlle bit of advise. ------------- HI |
Posted By: Funky
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:31pm
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Sigh.
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"Don't you hate pants?" |
Posted By: xteam02001
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:33pm
don't worry about it -------------
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life. Open my eyes and blind me with your light and your lies. |
THE SQUID wrote:Posted By: The Man
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:34pm
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Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:36pm
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if you want real advice, take your own. if you feel you are ready
than do it, if you want to take more time than take more time.
from experience, friends of mine (who are 13, 14) have had sex and it
ruins them. also someone i know, one of his friends was the first
to have sex out of their "group". you know what happened to him?
he is in jail now. just it is on how you feel about it, if you
feel your ready to take the responsibility and consequences tahn do
it. if your not, than dont.
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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:38pm
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cause you know having sex at a young age turns you into a criminal ------------- 
Nobody ever suspects the fun police! 
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Posted By: Frostbolt
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:40pm
Well since you play paintball remember that a barrel condom is only used for a paintball gun  the name can be mis leading
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Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:40pm
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i never said that. i stated what has happened to people i know
and friends of mine. also sex can ruin relationships.
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Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:42pm
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im almost 16. how would i be a criminal? ------------- HI |
Posted By: Solipsism
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:51pm
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:53pm
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I didn't bother to read the other responses, just came straight down here, so listen please:
If you have to ask someone else if you are ready, you aren't, ok? It is not an age thing, it is when you are comfortable enough with the situation, and can take a mature enough approach to it. It may be next week, it could be in another 5 years, you don't know. Just make sure that you are ready, because you think you are, not because someone else told you so. You don't want to live with regrets dude, so live it for you. As I said, I don't think you are ready if you had to ask one of us. Good luck, and don't rush things. |
Posted By: Semper Durus
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 4:56pm
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Posted By: emo_punk
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:07pm
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dude, you're 16 and a freshman...honestly most people don't have sex till they're a junior. but, if you fell like youre mature enough and won't get her pregnant or make everyone in her school think she's a slut and ruin her school carrer for the rest of her life, (cause that stuff really doe follow you) then go ahead...no pressure tho. ------------- I snuck up on the bunkered enemy wondering if i should ask him to surender...naw... |
Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:19pm
That's true, but only if you both aren't ready. If you rush it, then it can kill things. If you are both 100% sure, and mature about it, then no problem.
Emo, that isn't always the case. I had sex at 16, and I am fine, we both have no regrets at all, so it's fine. Sure, if you rush it, hook up at a party, do it on her parents car then never see each other again, then yes, reputations will get hurt. However, if you guys are serious about one another, and positivly sure you want to have sex, then go ahead, as long as you are sure you are ready. I would figure you would be smart about it and take all the right precautions and such. If someone does think you guys are dumb for having sex, calmly explain to them that you two were both ready, and mature enough that you felt it was time, and that it doesn't change things. Make them feel like the childish ones for thinking that you two were just messing around, show them that you are adult enough to handle adult matters. Questions? |
Posted By: Die-Trying
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:42pm
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going to get my broom..... ------------- Ion sanded and bondo'd body Orange painted body and frame Dead On Bullet Drop Evo II 68/4500 crossfire Evil pipe kit with ultra tip |
Posted By: 98ball
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:44pm
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how long have you two been together? Has she ever had sex before? I started screwing in 8th grade... but for some guys its like.....once you start the fun dont stop...litterally, and thats how you get in trouble. You get caught, the rubber breaks, std's....so if you do it then dont do it like every day. From my experience, use Lubricated.... ------------- 
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Posted By: matt06
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 5:50pm
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heh..its so obvious this kid was raised by his mom.
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Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:03pm
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we have been together for like 2 years. she is a virgin. i was raised by my uncle but i cant really talk to him. ------------- HI |
Posted By: 98ball
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:30pm
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Screw away my friend, but only if you both want to do it thats the only way to make it great. -------------
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Posted By: paintballu
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:39pm
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im surprised this hasnt been locked yet......
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my xchat died...... no more irc :( |
Posted By: The Ho
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:49pm
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I say go for it. freshmen is old enough. you are almost 16. go on ahead. who agrees? ------------- I LIKE BIKES! |
Posted By: Solipsism
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 6:55pm
Im not because KRL bailed on the forum quite some time ago. ------------- http://solipsism.ath.cx - solipsism.ath.cx |
Posted By: Bauerp0weR 18
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:21pm
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http://www.tippmann.com/players/forum/wwf77a/forum_topics.asp?FID=5 - http://www.tippmann.com/players/forum/wwf77a/forum_topics.as p?FID=5 : For all your dating answers! ------------- Black Smart Parts Ion Halo B Check-It Unimount macroline 68/45 Pure Energy tank |
Posted By: Ejp414
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:22pm
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Wow. This is the Tippmann Forum, not the social advice forum. Non-paintball related stuff is great, but we're not guidance counsellors. This is not the place for questions about underage drinking, freshman sex, etc. ------------- __________________ __________________ |
Posted By: pimptastik
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:31pm
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thank u EJP! ------------- <no ginormous sigs please> |
Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:35pm
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Just touch yourself at night and leave the girl alone ------------- 
Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos. |
Posted By: tyranny
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:41pm
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ask your principal
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:45pm
Whatever dude, if you don't want to try to help someone out so they don't make a mistake, fine, but I will. |
Posted By: Ejp414
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:47pm
You're a saint. Next time I have anyone asking for guidance, I'll direct them to the paintball forums and tell them to ask for Choopie. ------------- __________________ __________________ |
Posted By: Ajreaper
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 7:53pm
| My Gawd! Your going to make what amounts to a huge step forward in your relationaship/life with your girlfriend and you turn to strangers on the internet? In a paintball forum no less? That alone says there is no way you are ready to take that step. If you cannot deal totally with all the possible consequences of your decision then do not choose to have sex. There's the possibility of pregnancy as well as mental and emotional issues for both of you- if you cannot raise a child right now don't do anything that can result in your being called Dad. And a condom is hardly 100% effective. |
Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 8:08pm
Condoms are effective approximatly 97% of the time, and with the pill, the risk decreases even more, being higher thatn 99% but 1% is still there. Anyway, as I/ you said, the fact you had to ask if you are ready shows that you aren't, end of story. And the way I saw it/ see it, when I was totally ready, it didn't feel like a big step, it felt like the next step. Follow? It shouldn't change things, if you are truely ready.
I am pretty sure that was sarcasm, but oh well. I figure, if I am doing ok, I can spend a little time to see if other people are allright as well. So what if I don't really know this guy, he asked for help, I'll give him what I can. |
Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 11:42pm
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thanks.im gonna go screw her tomorrow. im gonna use a condom and birth control so were are pretty safe. i cant wait. ------------- HI |
Posted By: jmac3
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 11:50pm
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You my friend, are a waste of life.
------------- Que pasa? 
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Posted By: phantom87
Date Posted: 08 August 2004 at 11:53pm
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The pill doesn't work instantly...she has to be on it for awhile for it to do its job...you could try taking it tho |
. Posted By: Woodzball
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:03am
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um.......wow. First of all......why would you come to this forum for advice on something like that? You don't know any of these people I'm guessing, since you have 11 posts, so how can you trust what they have to say (no offense intended to anyone). Second of all, I think you're ready when you think you're ready, not when other people say. No one here knows how mature you are or what kind of life you lead or anything, so it's hard for us to help with that, except just give advice on what we ourselves have done. Thirdly, you're 16 and a freshman? How does that work? ------------- If you really suck, dont even try |
Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:29am
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I was held back one year. screw the pill then. im goin tomorrow at 3:00 ------------- HI |
Posted By: Sammy
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:40am
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If you have to ask if your old enough to do it, your not. Simply said. Also if you dont listen to the advice, dont be silly protect your willy. Or before you hump her protect your thumper. ------------- 
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Posted By: THE SQUID
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:48am
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i am gonna wear a condom. ------------- HI |
Posted By: Thanatos
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 1:13am
Had to respond to this one! if i remeber right saying dude wouldnt be cool,(if it the same EJP) worrds like hubba, hubba come to mind. but anyways i will post again when i am done reading. Sigh! ------------- U.S. Air force PJ Apprentice Proud Member of Team.Tacticalmarkers.com ------------------------Being original is overated. Love, Peace, And Chicken Grease!!! |
Posted By: Ilovepaintball1
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 1:14am
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I am not touching this with a ten foot pole. |
Posted By: Ilovepaintball1
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 1:14am
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You dont want kids? |
Posted By: The Ho
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 1:15am
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this idiot is really gonna do it? i was just joking about what i said earlier. what a retard. i hope everything goes well. ------------- I LIKE BIKES! |
Posted By: Thanatos
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 1:18am
Where ENOS when you nead his expert phyc profiling. to me it sounds like you want some attention. but maybe not. in my OPINION your are not ready, dont do it. BUT THAT IS JUST MY OPINION ------------- U.S. Air force PJ Apprentice Proud Member of Team.Tacticalmarkers.com ------------------------Being original is overated. Love, Peace, And Chicken Grease!!! |
Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 2:24am
I dont think he is either, and to me, it seems like someone else typed those last few posts. He went from being not sure and whatnot to "IMA DO IT!!!" |
Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 2:32am
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Posted By: Ilovepaintball1
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 9:45am
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Posted By: matt06
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 9:55am
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he gona walk over to her house at exactly 3:00 burst through the door, pull out his jimmy hat, and be like ' I can screw you, the tippmann forum gave me the go ahead.'
then shes gonna laugh at him. |
Posted By: rednekk98
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 10:06am
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Just from his responces to this thread, he should really go with Mbro's advice.
Having to ask strangers on the net, then bragging about how your going to bang your gf at three, shows a lack of maturity. As for deciding to have sex in general, girls tend to regret their first times more often than guys do. An alarming amount of girls I've talked to who lost it that early regretted it, unless they still happen to be with the same guy. Guys only regretted it when the girl was a total slut, or became a total slut later it at all. If you knew she'd be regretting it two or three years from now, would you still do her anyways? How much do you care about her. There's no set age that's right for you to start having sex. If you just turn 15, 16, 17 whatever, you shouldn't say, alright, time to go get some. When you and your partner are rady AS A COUPLE to have sex, go for it. |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 10:16am
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Ten bucks says he doesnt have a girlfriend.
If he does, I feel sorry for her. Bread wrappers are more effective than condoms and are more roomy too. ------------- 
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 10:34am
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mmmm bread. ------------- 
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Posted By: sort
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 11:36am
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First timer.......I don't think he's gonna get far.....When push comes to shove (heh heh) King Dingaling is gonna turn into the Amazing Shrinking Willy.... Seriously, you wanna be a man, go chop some wood, or do laps around the house for a couple of hours or TAKE A COLD SHOWER!!!.....I don't think your part-time McBurger job would be enough to support Junior for the next 18 years. ------------- Revelations 6:8--It's not revenge, it's Punishment. |
Posted By: Ajreaper
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:04pm
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[QUOTE=choopie911] Condoms are effective approximatly 97% of the time, and with the pill, the risk decreases even more, being higher thatn 99% but 1% is still there. [QUOTE=Ejp414]
Choopie not to disagree but they are only/most effective when used correctlyand often teenagers fumbling about do not use them anywhere near correctly. Your talking a guy who thought you could take a birth control pill at 7am and be ready and safe for action at 3pm for gawd sake- think about that. Personally this guy has shown why most adults think teenagers are no smarter then a box of rocks- he's asking people, he does not know at all, on a paintball forum whether he should have sex and on top of that it's pretty clear he's absolutely clueless about birth control. Oh well stupid is as stupid does. |
Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 09 August 2004 at 12:50pm
I fully agree with you. He clearly knows nothing of birth control, other than what a condom might look like. If he is still checking this thread, for your sake, and hers too, don't do it dude. You and your attitude towards sex is just asking for trouble you don't want. As stated before me, the pill doesn't work the way you think it does. |