Need help on a serious subject
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Topic: Need help on a serious subject
Posted By: Alienbow13
Subject: Need help on a serious subject
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:29pm
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Ok one of my friends just recently told me that she never reallied planned for her future because she never thought she would have one. She told me she had considered suicide until very recently. Most of the problems are normal for teenagers. School & stuff like that but i need your help because there is one thing i cant help her with. Her x bf as she told me was one of the major reasons she considered it. He has hurt her several times & made her some what dependent on him. I have tried to get between them and make him leave her alone but it doesnt work. If any of u have advice i would like it plz. Thanks chad ------------- One step I leave an imprint, Two steps is commitment |
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:35pm
| buy her a goldfish. that would make me happy. |
Posted By: 98God
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:36pm
| that sucks...this stuffs always hard |
Posted By: Talon Master111
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:37pm
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Sorry to hear that your in a problem like this. What I would do is to try to do things with your friend, maybe paintball, movies, anything to get her mind off her X-BF. I would also stand up for her from her boyfriend. Other then that I don't really know, sorry I couldn't help much. ------------- Bunker, or be Bunker'ed |
Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:37pm
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Knowing me, if I was really good friends with her I'd beat the piss out
of her ex-boyfriend...but that's probably not the best way of going
aboot doing it ------------- 
Nobody ever suspects the fun police! 
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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:38pm
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One option (most rational) is to get her to get a restraining
order (If he wont stop harrasing her). it will kick him out of the school, and hopefully help
her. Speak to your counsoler and have her do the same. ------------- Real Men play Tuba [IMG]http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/1859/newsmall6xz.jpg"> PH33R TEH 1337 Dwarf! http://www.tippmann.com/forum/wwf77a/log_off_user.asp" rel="nofollow - DONT CLICK ME!!1 |
Posted By: Enos Shenk
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:38pm
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The plain fact of the matter is things wont change. Has she dumped the loser? Obviously not. Shes dependant.
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Posted By: Trogdor2
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:38pm
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I contemplated suicide for a little while. Then I found God and
life is better. Just take them to church and stuff. I swear
it works. Once you devote your life to him, nothing else seems
the same.
------------- Something unknown is doing we don't know what. That is what our knowledge amounts to. - Sir Arthur Eddington |
Posted By: Enos Shenk
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:42pm
I contemplated suicide and i didnt find god. Im not dead. -------------
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Trogdor2 wrote:Posted By: Frozen
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:44pm
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god...he never does write back... that's a real turn off for me |
Posted By: Alienbow13
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:46pm
yes she dumped him before then she took him back against me strong objections. ------------- One step I leave an imprint, Two steps is commitment |
Posted By: Frozen
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:47pm
So she is dependent. If he hits her and stuff, and she goes back, she needs outside help. Call the police or something. |
Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:47pm
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Heh. suicie is for the weak. I never considered suicide. Sure, life
sucks at times, but it has to get better, no matter how bad it gets.
just live through it and grow a pair.
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Posted By: Play Maker27
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:49pm
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Posted By: Trogdor2
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:55pm
How long did you wait? Once you get the message, it will be clear. ------------- Something unknown is doing we don't know what. That is what our knowledge amounts to. - Sir Arthur Eddington |
Posted By: Death~By~Paint
Date Posted: 29 August 2004 at 9:58pm
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this is a perfect oppertunity for you to make a bomb and send it to him thats what i would do... but i have done it before so its not so strange to me ------------- 
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Posted By: bigmike102
Date Posted: 30 August 2004 at 2:48pm
Like i said in earlyer posts , your kinda scary ------------- . |
Posted By: Random_Person
Date Posted: 30 August 2004 at 2:53pm
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talk to the school counselor, and if he/she doesn't do anything goto your parents or even the police, that is a sad situation, but what ever you do if, do something, the worst thing is to just ignore it, if you do, you might lose a friend. ------------- http://profile.xfire.com/kentuckyfriedgangsta"> 
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Posted By: merc
Date Posted: 30 August 2004 at 2:59pm
see you never considered it...its not an easy thing to deal with its alot harder than one thinks only reason im still here is because when i think about it i think about how it would effect the people around me and i cant go though with it... let her know you care about her and she can call you if she needs anything. then try and show her the bad things about the guy but dont push it too hard or she will get defencive. just hint gently and let her mind do the work. dont threaten him yet any agressive action towards him may get you in trubble with her. something will happen and just make sure your there to catch her. ------------- saving the world, one warship at a time. |
Posted By: welcome guest
Date Posted: 30 August 2004 at 3:00pm
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So true ------------- http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/17/107.shtml - http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/17/107.shtml. 
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Posted By: stick_boy_2002
Date Posted: 30 August 2004 at 3:06pm
yeah. ------------- 
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