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Topic: Serious Responses Only: I Need Advice
Posted By: -ProDigY-
Subject: Serious Responses Only: I Need Advice
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:26pm
I've been having some really intense
internal conflicts recently and it occurred to me to
bring this to the forum - A place where I'm afforded a
certain degree of anonymity.

First I'll have to start with some general background
information (so you can get a better idea of where I'm
coming from)... This will be a relatively long post, so
if you're the type to punch in some stupid, "that's too
long L0L!1" garbage, you can stop right here.

The truth is, I've always felt I was a little different.
Even when I was about six it seemed that I got my
kicks differently than the other boys in my school.
While they were playing football or arm wrestling it
seemed like I was always painting or practicing
violin.

I learned extremely quickly, however, that this was
"unacceptable" by the general standard. I quickly
developed was of veiling this glaring difference.
Most of you on the forum know me as goofy,
spontaneous, etc. etc. - One of my many facades to
avoid the obvious fact that I'm a homosexual.

There it is - first time I've told anybody. Probably the
first time I've ever truly admitted it to myself. I've been
having a really hard time coming to grips with this
fact alone, but it gets even more complicated
(unfortunately).

As some of you may know (or maybe not) I just
returned to a public school after attending private
school for five years. The people are a little less
open-minded, but there is also, I've found, a more
diverse student body - That is to say, more
homosexual guys my age. This is completely new to
me, and with it has come a problem... I'm attracted
to a boy in one of my classes, and am possibly
interested in dating him.

Not only is homosexuality an extremely dangerous
thing to persue in a highschool environment, but I
also haven't (and don't know how to) come out of the
closet. Please help me out on this one guys.

Any advice, personal experience, etc. would be much
aprecciated - as well as your utmost seriousness in
the matter.

-Prod

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Replies:
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:28pm
Wait till college. Everyone is out of the closet there.

It is okay to have the erection when you gym teacher walks by.

I am here for you....

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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:31pm
Wow, I never knew.

Well, I really have no experience in the matter but so long as you dont make a huge deal about it and do it gracefully, it should be ok.  Granted a few idiots wont make it easy, but you cant do anything about that.

Best of luck!

P.S - There are numerous clubs and groups about this, check them out.

P.P.S - As Cedric pointed out, you still have my respect


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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:31pm
Be yourself. You haven't changed in my eyes.

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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:33pm
Well, if you are joking. You have been funier, mearly because of the fact that if i laugh, and you arent joking i will feel like a horses behind.

But if you arent. There are some good people in highschool, but becareful who you tell and whatnot, high school kids can be very very mean and cruel to others that are different.

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Posted By: Monk
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:34pm

Well then...Congratulations.

Is the other guy **edited** too?

That would be a biggie if he wasnt. Like really Unconfortable conversation wise.

Im with Hades. Your what, a junior-senior. Just wait and watch if you fear being pounded.



Posted By: Ilovepaintball1
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:35pm
I am speechless.  I guess the sooner you come out the better.

Edit:(Like Ced)You still have my utmost respect.


(April fools is tomorrow./Me Looks around very suspiciously.)


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Posted By: WGP guy
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:36pm
Being that I have the utmost respect for you.  I shall say no more.


Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:37pm
:sniff: :sniff:

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:40pm
you've always been a little emo-wuss.

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Posted By: f@ll3n 5nip3r
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:40pm

wow just wow....you will still be prod to me and some of the other guys...i have not been on this forum for very long....so dont be like "fallen u dont even know wut ur talking about" well ur still the prod that has made some of the best threads ever such as four word post, yo and a few others

good luck

P.S. u still have my utmost respect also



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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:40pm
Yep, i was showering after wrestling, as i was getting ready to shower up and go home. I heard something, got my towel, and there was a kid ive known for years, really hurt, im not going to go into any specifics, but he was hurt pretty badly, because someone found out he was homosexual. Some kids beat him to a pulp and did some other things to him. He never said who it was.

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Posted By: Ihaveanitch
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:42pm
Yea i would wait for college too, people will be less judgemental and you'll be lot less stressed out cause won't have to deal wit all the stupid people in highschool. But u can still be friends wit the guy till then. But u should do wut u feel more comfortable wit


Posted By: -ProDigY-
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:43pm
Christ Gopher, for the first time in my life I
ask people to be serious and this is how you react?
Grow up.

It didn't even occur to me that tomorrow is April
fools...Incredibly crappy timing.

I guess those of you who choose not to believe me,
oh well; but I thank those of you who know me well
enough to take me seriously.

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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:45pm
Prod, if you want to date him. Date him, but if you can, do it descretely, i dont know where you live, but kids can be very cruel.

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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:45pm

Hey!

I too agree that you should hold off your homo-endeavors until after high school.

This is because most high school students are too immature to know how to deal with co-existing with a homosexual person.

So instead they go about it in the normal immature high school manner and ridicule you, discriminate against you, and essentially make your life hell.

Now if I didn't know you for as long as I have and was a complete jerk, I would have ripped you apart with this post instead of consult you.

That's because personally...I don't like **edited**s, never have.

But like I said, I know you, respect you, and have no real reason to do that.

Good Luck with everything!

Much repsect for "coming out of the closet"!

That takes balls!



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Posted By: Clark Kent
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:45pm

Bold first step - well done.   *applauds*

I am inclined to parrot Hades' advice - without knowing more about your school, I would agree that you unfortunately could be in some physical/psychological danger in high school.  College, particularly on either coast, will be much more open for you.

As unfair as this is, I would also encourage you to hold off on dating until you are in a safe environment.  Being publicly g.ay in high school is one thing - being publicly g.ay and dating is something else entirely.  Many high schoolers are open-minded about homosexuality until they see it in action.

So unless you are very confident that your school is "safe" (which does not sound to be the case), I would suggest waiting for some time.

And I am not touching the subject of when/how to tell your family.  Much more complicated.

More importantly, however, I would suggest visiting some g.ay website/forums, if you haven't already.  People there will have actual experiences to share, and you can remain anonymous while you learn.  If you do this, however, BEWARE!  Nothing attracts unsavory characters like "hi - I am innocent and need somebody to hold my hand while I come out."  Deploy all shields at full strength.

Which goes back to my earlier advice - postpone dating (my opinion - others may disagree).  Teenage dating is hazardous at best for anybody - homosexual teenagers have the double whammy.  Until you are more comfortable with yourself, I would suggest not getting involved with anyone - as frustrating as that can be.

If you are truly isolated and don't know about forums/organizations/whatever (and don't want to ask the locals) and need some contacts, drop me a PM - I have some resources.

Good luck.



Posted By: Frozen Balls
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:46pm
Wow. Well, I can say this much. Take stock of the school. I know around here(other side of the state, given), people in our town are relatively indifferent to stuff like this. It ranges from acceptance to an undercurrent of disgust. You should probably talk to a guidance counselor or someone who you trust a great deal. Good luck! You're still the same guy you were 20 minutes ago in my book!


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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:46pm
Even if you are kidding your journal and your slippers had me convinced along time ago.



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Posted By: 98God
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:47pm
Brave thing to do. 


Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:50pm
Dude, just appologizing,  missread your post and I thought you were saying it was a joke.  I am sorry Prod

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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:51pm
Originally posted by Darur Darur wrote:

Dude, just appologizing, missread your post and I thought you were saying it was a joke. I am sorry Prod


Jurry is still out with me.. I dont know where he is in the US. So theoreticly, depending on where he is, this could be an april fools..

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Posted By: Ph34r
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:52pm
Hey man, just because you're **edited** doesn't make you are any less of a person than the next guy. ...holes in highschool tend to be to biased and closed-minded to accept someone. My advice, like others, would be to keep quiet until college. You're still a human being and I respect you no matter what.

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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 9:52pm
Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

Originally posted by Darur Darur wrote:

Dude, just appologizing, missread your post and I thought you were saying it was a joke. I am sorry Prod


Jurry is still out with me.. I dont know where he is in the US. So theoreticly, depending on where he is, this could be an april fools..


No, it wasnt that.

I took him seriosuly the first time.  The second post I thought was him saying it was a joke.

Way to be an <rear> on my part



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Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:00pm
I honostly can't give advice.  I have never dealt with a situation like this.  All  I can say is like everyone else, it apperas homosexuals in highschool get bullied most of the time.  And as anoter said, if you do date another man, while I don't believe it should be this way, try to keep it in the dark. 

And last but not least, as everyone else, you are still the same guy.  No more, nor less.


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Posted By: nouseforaname
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:03pm
I applaud you ... seriously

but sadly I agree with the posts saying that college is venue better suited for you. As much as its painful to put something like this off, highschool students are rather immature.

But regardless of that nonsense I do admire the honesty and wish you the absolute best of luck!





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Posted By: xteam02001
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:18pm
/me starts the slow clap

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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:39pm
Yeah, wait until after highschool.  There is a homosexual in my school and he catches hell all the time.  But then again I do live down here with all the hicks in middle Georgia, so...  Yeah.

Honestly, I have mixed fealings concering homosexuals.  At my previous job, one of my bosses was g.ay, and he was pretty cool.  One of my favorite bosses.  But then at that same job, we had a customer come in sometimes and he would just flaunt his homosexuality.  I disliked him alot.  So I guess it boils down to how you carry yourself.  Good luck man, and as others have said, you still have my repect.


Posted By: PAINTBALL1
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:52pm
Well congrats on comming out and i guess the guys here on this forum should feel somewhat special because you chose to tell us first. There was a senior in my high school that graduated my sophmore year. He was extremely popular and one hell of a good dancer, but thats besides the point. HE was very open and wasnt made fun of and dated openly. I think depending on your situation at school with friends that would support you and what not, just do what you feel comfortable doing. Even though i dont agree with homosexuality your still a great guy nothings changed and i still have the same respect for you thats been growing for the past couple years... so good luck and i hope everything works out for you.

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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:54pm
I don't see it as dangerous in high school, I know a guy who was out in high school, and nothing really changed. If you come out to others, I would honestly hope nothing changes with them too. Glad to see that you're being honest with yourself too, and best of luck with everyhting in the future. I'm glad you thought the forum was an ok place to bring this up, I know a few members are more than glad to talk, or offer help. Have a good one,
chewp


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:55pm
Wow....I never really suspected you to be g.ay. But it does take cajones to come out of the closet, even on an internet forum.

I don't have a problem with homosexuality, as long as its not directed at me.

I'll see you the same either way.


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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:56pm
Originally posted by -ProDigY- -ProDigY- wrote:

Christ Gopher, for the first time in my life I
ask people to be serious and this is how you react?
Grow up.


forum on the internet. go cry and write poetry.





brighteyessucks


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Posted By: Belt #2
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 10:59pm

I haven't lost any respect for you. Nor do I look down on you/see you in any different light now.

My policy is "You do what you want, and I'll do what I want. So long as you don't stop me from doing what I want, I won't stop you from doing what you want, and we'll be perfectly fine. You leave me alone, I'll leave you alone, You treat me in a respectable matter, and are honest, and I'll do the same for you."

 



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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:01pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:



Originally posted by -ProDigY- -ProDigY- wrote:

Christ Gopher, for the first time in my life I
ask people to be serious and this is how you react?
Grow up.



forum on the internet. go cry and write poetry.







brighteyessucks


Prod. He doesnt speak for any of us. We all suport you.

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Posted By: Ilovepaintball1
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:03pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Originally posted by -ProDigY- -ProDigY- wrote:

Christ Gopher, for the first time in my life I
ask people to be serious and this is how you react?
Grow up.


forum on the internet. go cry and write poetry.





brighteyessucks


Gopher you suck.


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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:16pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Originally posted by -ProDigY- -ProDigY- wrote:

Christ Gopher, for the first time in my life I
ask people to be serious and this is how you react?
Grow up.


forum on the internet. go cry and write poetry.





brighteyessucks


I noticed a trend.  That trend was when people first come to this forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar, capitalization, life, ya know, the basics).  Then as they spend more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write properly, and stop sucking so much.  Well this theory held pretty true.  Until Renegade.  He just shattered my whole entire philosophy.  Thanks.


Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:18pm
Some people just suck.

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Posted By: bravecoward
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:23pm
Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Be yourself. You haven't changed in my eyes.
you're still the funniest person on this forum

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Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:24pm

Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Be yourself. You haven't changed in my eyes.

Hey man, don't worry about it, you are what you are and thats all that you are.  Go for it man, i guess it would be the same as going for a girl...but, going for a guy...i guess...just do it.  Don't worry about what other people think, like Ced said, be yourself.

P.S.  You haven't changed in my eyes either, you're still the same quirky, funny, incredibly random person that everyone knows.

Best of luck,

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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:31pm
Yeah i think your still Prodigy to everyone. We love you eitherway. Straight, homosexual, black, white, or polkadot.

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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:32pm
Originally posted by bravecoward bravecoward wrote:

Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Be yourself. You haven't changed in my eyes.
you're still the funniest person on this forum


I agree he is and always has been awesome, but to say that he is the funniest person on the forum is going a little bit too far.


Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:35pm
But he IS one of the funiest.

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:41pm
Quote I noticed a trend.  That trend was when people first come to this forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar, capitalization, life, ya know, the basics).  Then as they spend more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write properly, and stop sucking so much.  Well this theory held pretty true.  Until Renegade.  He just shattered my whole entire philosophy.  Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:46pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend.  That trend was when people first come to this forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar, capitalization, life, ya know, the basics).  Then as they spend more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write properly, and stop sucking so much.  Well this theory held pretty true.  Until Renegade.  He just shattered my whole entire philosophy.  Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



Yes, I am "an object, such as a saw, used to perform or facilitate manual or mechanical work." Simply because I like to appear like I have made it through the fourth grade... Riiigghhtttt.


Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:47pm
Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

But he IS one of the funiest.


Agreed.


Posted By: CHiKUN PiMP
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:47pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend. That trend was when people first come to this
forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar,
capitalization, life, ya know, the basics). Then as they spend
more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write
properly, and stop sucking so much. Well this theory held pretty
true. Until Renegade. He just shattered my whole entire
philosophy. Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.

Hahahah, dude, it's gonna be so funny when you get sent to prison for harrassing some g.ay and then you get raped in the ass by a dude! Quick! Kill yourself before it can happen! Go! Fast! You don't wanna get raped do you? Come on! Time is running out!

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:48pm
Originally posted by Hysteria Hysteria wrote:

Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend.  That trend was when people first come to this forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar, capitalization, life, ya know, the basics).  Then as they spend more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write properly, and stop sucking so much.  Well this theory held pretty true.  Until Renegade.  He just shattered my whole entire philosophy.  Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



Yes, I am "an object, such as a saw, used to perform or facilitate manual or mechanical work." Simply because I like to appear like I have made it through the fourth grade... Riiigghhtttt.

wow. you looked it up, what a textbook dolt

Edit: editing this one because quoting chickenboy takes effort.
yeah. you like hot boy-on-boy action? My place, 6oclock, i'll pick you up


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Posted By: themovielife
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:49pm
You can play the violin? That is pretty impressive.


Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:49pm
No, i bet he just pulled it off the top of his head.

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Posted By: CHiKUN PiMP
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:50pm
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:


Originally posted by Hysteria Hysteria wrote:


Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend. That trend was when people first come to this
forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar,
capitalization, life, ya know, the basics). Then as they spend
more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write
properly, and stop sucking so much. Well this theory held pretty
true. Until Renegade. He just shattered my whole entire
philosophy. Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



Yes, I am "an object, such as a saw, used to perform or facilitate
manual or mechanical work." Simply because I like to appear like I have
made it through the fourth grade... Riiigghhtttt.

wow. you looked it up, what a textbook dolt
wow. you're making fun of someone because of how they choose to live, what a worthless intolerant douche!

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:54pm
Originally posted by CHiKUN PiMP CHiKUN PiMP wrote:

Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:


Originally posted by Hysteria Hysteria wrote:


Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend. That trend was when people first come to this
forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar,
capitalization, life, ya know, the basics). Then as they spend
more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write
properly, and stop sucking so much. Well this theory held pretty
true. Until Renegade. He just shattered my whole entire
philosophy. Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



Yes, I am "an object, such as a saw, used to perform or facilitate
manual or mechanical work." Simply because I like to appear like I have
made it through the fourth grade... Riiigghhtttt.

wow. you looked it up, what a textbook dolt
wow. you're making fun of someone because of how they choose to live, what a worthless intolerant douche!

wow. pot calling kettle black eh


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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 31 March 2005 at 11:57pm
Gopher you were out of line. Chikun called you on it, get over it and move on.

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:00am
Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

Gopher you were out of line. Chikun called you on it, get over it and move on.

...

out of line, called me out on it?

he posted' it'd be funny if you got raped', gee thats really setting someone straight


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Posted By: DracoPlasm
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:08am
Well i dont approve of being **edited** but it doesnt matter if i do or not my advice is kinda lame but be yourself if anyone doesnt like you cause of it or makes fun of you screw em dont let it bother you their just jealous they cant be themselves

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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:19am
Originally posted by Ilovepaintball1 Ilovepaintball1 wrote:



I am speechless. I guess the sooner you come out the better.

Edit:(Like Ced)You still have my utmost respect.


(April fools is tomorrow./Me Looks around very suspiciously.)


took the words out of my mouth. if u do decide to come out before college, i say work out alot before u do it so if sum asshole jock decides to jump u after school u'll be ready for it

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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:21am
Quote took the words out of my mouth. if u do decide to come out before college, i say work out alot before u do it so if sum asshole jock decides to jump u after school u'll be ready for it


Because we all know 'jocks' are the devil.


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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:25am
Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Originally posted by Hysteria Hysteria wrote:

Originally posted by RenegadeGopher RenegadeGopher wrote:

Quote I noticed a trend.  That trend was when people first come to this forum, they pretty much suck at everything (i.e. spelling, grammar, capitalization, life, ya know, the basics).  Then as they spend more and more time on here they gradually mature, learn to write properly, and stop sucking so much.  Well this theory held pretty true.  Until Renegade.  He just shattered my whole entire philosophy.  Thanks.


or the fact you feel like you belong to something by referencing to a shared idea and fitting a standard, you tool.



Yes, I am "an object, such as a saw, used to perform or facilitate manual or mechanical work." Simply because I like to appear like I have made it through the fourth grade... Riiigghhtttt.

wow. you looked it up, what a textbook dolt

Edit: editing this one because quoting chickenboy takes effort.
yeah. you like hot boy-on-boy action? My place, 6oclock, i'll pick you up


Aw man it took soooo much effort.  New tab > dictionary.com > search: tool > copy > paste.  I'm suprised I could pull it off.


Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:27am
Originally posted by Hysteria Hysteria wrote:


Aw man it took soooo much effort.  New tab > dictionary.com > search: tool > copy > paste.  I'm suprised I could pull it off.

Disregarding the fact of how simple FireFox has made your life, you still as an action, looked it up.

You looked it up in an action to get politically correct and use technicalities to get a point across, which is the center of all bull**edited** in the news today.


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Posted By: AdmiralSenn
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:56am
Well, I'm going to assume for kicks and giggles that Prod isn't BSing us.

I do applaud your courage (again assuming you're serious), and I'd like to point out here that I am not going to criticize you for your situation (this is to all the people who insist that all Christians are evil homophobes). Obviously as a Christian I'd rather you weren't homosexual, but that's me and it's your life.

Good luck on whatever, and I'm sure it will work out.

And if this is a joke thread, my comments stand. The mere fact that it's a 'serious' thread only makes it more suspicious, but that's because I'm tired.

Welcome or not, I'll be praying for you regardless of the joke-ness or lack thereof of this thread.

AND THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!

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Posted By: General_Sprats
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:16am
Yo ProDigy.  You seem like a cool guy, you'll be fine.

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Posted By: newport
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:38am
At my school we've got quite a few openly homosexual students; I can think of 5 off the top of my head, one of them being a very good friend of mine.

Nobody treats them differently, and if they do, it's always disregarded because we recognize/loathe ignorance. No physical harm has ever come to my friend because of his sexual orientation.

As for dating, it's been a bit of a problem; after making the rounds throughout the school **edited** community, pickins tend to get slim.

I'm completely up for talking about this later on if you want, I'll even pass his screen name on to you if you wanna talk to him about his experiences.

IM me: CovertArtist87


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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 9:21am
Be yourself.

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Posted By: Badonka
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 9:33am

I'm going to assume this is serious and not some shallow april fool's joke (I sincerely hope it isn't).

Moving on, the only thing you should live for is yourself. **edited** what other people say, or what other people think. If anybody puts you down because they don't "approve"... screw them.

Thats all I can really say, just live for yourself, and do whats right for you, and never ever live based on what other people think is "right".

 



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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 10:06am
Well I'm always a fan of saying be yourself. And I still believe it, although you don't have to go around telling everyone who you are. There are a lot of closed minded people, I say you go for the guy but try to keep it hidden just to make your lives a little easier.

Good luck.

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Posted By: WGP guy
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 10:24am
Originally posted by DracoPlasm DracoPlasm wrote:

Well i dont approve of being **edited** but it doesnt matter if i do or not my advice is kinda lame but be yourself if anyone doesnt like you cause of it or makes fun of you screw em dont let it bother you their just jealous they cant be themselves


And by screw them he doesn't mean..ah never mind


Posted By: BLand
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 10:37am
Be who you are, if there are certain people who don't accept you, they aren't people you should bother to worry about.

It's hard to tell if you're being serious or playing a prank. Good luck though.


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Posted By: Frozen Balls
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 10:41am
Originally posted by WGP guy WGP guy wrote:

Originally posted by DracoPlasm DracoPlasm wrote:

Well i dont approve of being **edited** but it doesnt matter if i do or not my advice is kinda lame but be yourself if anyone doesnt like you cause of it or makes fun of you screw em dont let it bother you their just jealous they cant be themselves


And by screw them he doesn't mean..ah never mind


Go play in some industrial equipment.


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Posted By: ShortyBP
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:25pm
Well ProDigy... I haven't glanced through the four pages of replies, although given the maturity level of many members maybe I should to delete all the responses from ignorant 13yr old waste-products of faulty birth-control... I know some of them must have posted.


Follow your own thoughts and feelings.
If you feel that your high school is not a safe environment to come out of the closet... maybe stay in that closet a while longer. Do what you feel is right for YOU. That includes keeping in mind your own safety and security.
I was unaware of any openly homosexual classmates back when I was in high school (although we had our suspicions of a few, who coincidently, came out years later). In college, same deal... had several friends where in the back of my mind, I had a feeling they were homosexual... and sure enough, after college... they came out.
The people I knew, obviously felt uncomfortable coming out while in the environments they were in. When they became comfortable, that's when they came out.
The only advice I can give, is for you to do the same.
Nothing wrong with who you are, or what you feel. And when you decide to come out depends on your own personal level of comfort.
Good luck!

Edit: the forum bleeps out g-a-y????   Cripes.


Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:38pm
Yeah Shorty, i think the majority of us support Prod no matter what. But there are some kids on here that like to laugh and point fingers at anything that is different. Its a shame too, you can learn a lot from a person like Prodigy. Ive seen him posting for what, 4 years or so. Always funny and whatnot, but then he comes out of the closet to us, and you see that, you can never tell if a person is homosexual or not, you can never tell, because it doesnt matter. Or it shouldnt matter.

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Posted By: TheUnknown.
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:06pm

Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

...because it doesnt matter. Or it shouldnt matter.

 

I'm mostly with you here but I think that he need help, I am a Christian and the Bible clearly says the a homosexual lifestyle is not good. I'm not being like every other dumb 13 year old and saying, "Prodigy u suck!!! Get alife u r dumbb and stupidd!!!1!!!11!". All i'm saying is that **edited** is not the way (Sorry if that sounds corny...) and you need help.



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Posted By: Badonka
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:12pm
Originally posted by TheUnknown. TheUnknown. wrote:

Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

...because it doesnt matter. Or it shouldnt matter.

 

 All i'm saying is that **edited** is not the way (Sorry if that sounds corny...) and you need help.

People like you really, really, really piss me off. Why do you care if he's **edited**? It's his goddamn life, not yours. Honestly, why would you ever care what his preferance is? Who in the HELL gives you the right to say that he needs help?

Its you that needs the help.



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Posted By: The Man
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:23pm
Wow, I never saw this coming. Good Luck! 

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Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:30pm

Originally posted by ShortyBP ShortyBP wrote:

Well ProDigy... I haven't glanced through the four pages of replies, although given the maturity level of many members maybe I should to delete all the responses from ignorant 13yr old waste-products of faulty birth-control... I know some of them must have posted.


Follow your own thoughts and feelings.
If you feel that your high school is not a safe environment to come out of the closet... maybe stay in that closet a while longer. Do what you feel is right for YOU. That includes keeping in mind your own safety and security.
I was unaware of any openly homosexual classmates back when I was in high school (although we had our suspicions of a few, who coincidently, came out years later). In college, same deal... had several friends where in the back of my mind, I had a feeling they were homosexual... and sure enough, after college... they came out.
The people I knew, obviously felt uncomfortable coming out while in the environments they were in. When they became comfortable, that's when they came out.
The only advice I can give, is for you to do the same.
Nothing wrong with who you are, or what you feel. And when you decide to come out depends on your own personal level of comfort.
Good luck!

Edit: the forum bleeps out g-a-y????   Cripes.

who, the **edited**, are you?

man, ProD, Im sorry people like Unknown and Gopher are being **edited**s...its just stupid...sorry about that.  Just know that everyone here (with at least half a brain) supports you.  You never know, you might meet someone in south america!



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Posted By: Badonka
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:31pm
Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:

Originally posted by ShortyBP ShortyBP wrote:

Well ProDigy... I haven't glanced through the four pages of replies, although given the maturity level of many members maybe I should to delete all the responses from ignorant 13yr old waste-products of faulty birth-control... I know some of them must have posted.


Follow your own thoughts and feelings.
If you feel that your high school is not a safe environment to come out of the closet... maybe stay in that closet a while longer. Do what you feel is right for YOU. That includes keeping in mind your own safety and security.
I was unaware of any openly homosexual classmates back when I was in high school (although we had our suspicions of a few, who coincidently, came out years later). In college, same deal... had several friends where in the back of my mind, I had a feeling they were homosexual... and sure enough, after college... they came out.
The people I knew, obviously felt uncomfortable coming out while in the environments they were in. When they became comfortable, that's when they came out.
The only advice I can give, is for you to do the same.
Nothing wrong with who you are, or what you feel. And when you decide to come out depends on your own personal level of comfort.
Good luck!

Edit: the forum bleeps out g-a-y????   Cripes.

who, the **edited**, are you?

man, ProD, Im sorry people like Unknown and Gopher are being **edited**s...its just stupid...sorry about that.  Just know that everyone here (with at least half a brain) supports you.  You never know, you might meet someone in south america!

Like, did you just ask who the edited shortybp is?

 

leave. i like you, but leave.



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Posted By: BLand
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:33pm





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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:03pm
Originally posted by TheUnknown. TheUnknown. wrote:

Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

...because it doesnt matter. Or it shouldnt matter.



I'm mostly with you here but I think that he need help, I am a Christian and the Bible clearly says the a homosexual lifestyle is not good. I'm not being like every other dumb 13 year old and saying, "Prodigy u suck!!! Get alife u r dumbb and stupidd!!!1!!!11!". All i'm saying is that **edited** is not the way (Sorry if that sounds corny...) and you need help.



You should actualy READ your bible before you start thumping it. If you are referring to the story of Sodom and Gamora, it can be aqualy argued that, instead of god punishing the two cities where man layed with man, he also punished the straight people. The mans wife was turned to salt, and he was drugged by his two daughters and had sex with them and fathered children by his daughters.

My feeling on a religious standpoint is, why pursecute someone because of the way god mad them. Everything that god made is beautiful in the eyes of the lord, and that includes homosexuals, and any other person our society deems to be "deviant" who am i to critisize gods creation. To do so is blasphemy.

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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:03pm
Come to Canada, we don't care what your sexual preferences are.

But seriously, you are a good guy, nobody should be hatin' because of how you feel. It's your life, not theirs.

I am no expert, so I won't give you any advice, but whatever you choose about coming out, do it when you feel ready.

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Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:06pm
Originally posted by Badonka Badonka wrote:

Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:

Originally posted by ShortyBP ShortyBP wrote:

Well ProDigy... I haven't glanced through the four pages of replies, although given the maturity level of many members maybe I should to delete all the responses from ignorant 13yr old waste-products of faulty birth-control... I know some of them must have posted.


Follow your own thoughts and feelings.
If you feel that your high school is not a safe environment to come out of the closet... maybe stay in that closet a while longer. Do what you feel is right for YOU. That includes keeping in mind your own safety and security.
I was unaware of any openly homosexual classmates back when I was in high school (although we had our suspicions of a few, who coincidently, came out years later). In college, same deal... had several friends where in the back of my mind, I had a feeling they were homosexual... and sure enough, after college... they came out.
The people I knew, obviously felt uncomfortable coming out while in the environments they were in. When they became comfortable, that's when they came out.
The only advice I can give, is for you to do the same.
Nothing wrong with who you are, or what you feel. And when you decide to come out depends on your own personal level of comfort.
Good luck!

Edit: the forum bleeps out g-a-y????   Cripes.

who, the **edited**, are you?

man, ProD, Im sorry people like Unknown and Gopher are being **edited**s...its just stupid...sorry about that.  Just know that everyone here (with at least half a brain) supports you.  You never know, you might meet someone in south america!

Like, did you just ask who the edited shortybp is?

 

leave. i like you, but leave.

it was a bad joke...i havent seen him on for like...ever so, yeah, sorry for the bad sence of humor...i like you too...



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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:08pm
Originally posted by TheUnknown. TheUnknown. wrote:

Originally posted by DBibeau855 DBibeau855 wrote:

...because it doesnt matter. Or it shouldnt matter.

 

I'm mostly with you here but I think that he need help, I am a Christian and the Bible clearly says the a homosexual lifestyle is not good. I'm not being like every other dumb 13 year old and saying, "Prodigy u suck!!! Get alife u r dumbb and stupidd!!!1!!!11!". All i'm saying is that **edited** is not the way (Sorry if that sounds corny...) and you need help.



The bible "clearly" states nothing. If you believe that a just and loving God would send someone to hell because of homosexuality, then thats screwed up. My God wouldn't do that.


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Posted By: ¤ RaVeN ¤
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:34pm

wow...cant belive i over looked this topic...X.x i think im slacking up...oh well...

anyway...prod...to be honest...i could care less if your homo...your still a cool dude...becides...mabye your just bi...give it time...things will work themselfs out, they always do...just hang in there...



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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 2:39pm
Prodigy, don't worry about it...I am 100% man and I'm not ashamed to say that I am a homosexual. I would love to make sweet love with you down by the fire.

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Posted By: ¤ RaVeN ¤
Date Posted: 01 April 2005 at 3:04pm

there was a cupple free periods at my school...and we were in the auditorium, there was like...two or three gf/gf's making out...well the VP's were just standing there and didnt bother them...then these two dudes started to kiss...the VP's tries to step in but like...20 people stood there and started arguing with the VP's about how they should be allowed to since alot of other people were...the VP's backed down rather quick...i was lmao for like 15 mins... (true story)



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