My Kid
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Topic: My Kid
Posted By: Lawless
Subject: My Kid
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:07pm
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Hey!
Since some of you probably saw in Tolgak's thread, my girlfriend is pregnant with my kid.
She's about 5 weeks along and is getting an abortion.
I just want to ask that you don't give me *stuff* about the whole abortion thing because trust me, I'm not real thrilled with the fact of knowing that my kid is soon to be dead.
I told her that I thought an abortion would be the way to go seeing that she needs to finish high school and I need to go through college and get a decent job.
Plus neither of us can afford a kid right now and it'd rip our families apart.
But I also told her that the ultimate decision was up to her and that I'd support her with whatever her decision may be.
And if that decision was to keep it, that I'd love the thing so much that he'd hate me for it and would continue loving her more and more.
But she has made her decision and we are going to abort the prenancy.
It's not easy, I'll tell you right now that it's a lot easier to say getting an abortion isn't a big deal until you actual have to deal with one.
This sucks to say the least.
I hope none of you have to deal with this in your lives.
FWI, I'm getting a tattoo in memory of him, I don't know exactly what it will be of yet but it will incorporate his name, Jackson Michael, and his DOD.
And BTW, I'm just referring to "him" even though the gender is unknown.
And once again...don't patronize me about the abortion.
If you want to do that, pull your head out of your ass first.
Thanks.
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Posted By: themovielife
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:11pm
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I respect your decision and find you no less of a man.
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:16pm
For you, and her, and him, from me:
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:17pm
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Thank guys!
Nice touch Choop.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:20pm
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That is probably the best decision right now. My cousin went through something similar recently.
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Posted By: the_blade
Date Posted: 09 April 2005 at 11:35pm
I support you decisiong 100%. Shes to young to be tied down with a kid.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:00am
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Why would you do that? I mean cmon... Jackson Micheal? That is just wrong.
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:27am
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Hysteria wrote:
Why would you do that? I mean cmon... Jackson Micheal? That is just wrong. |
Bears no relation to Michael Jackson.
And please don't knock on the name of my soon to be dead kid.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:36am
Lawless wrote:
Hysteria wrote:
Why would you do that? I mean cmon... Jackson Micheal? That is just wrong. |
Bears no relation to Michael Jackson.
And please don't knock on the name of my soon to be dead kid. |
Oh, ok. I thought it did. I appoligize as I was not trying to 'knock' on his name.
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Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 7:20am
Do any of your parents know about the pregancy? I agree with you, people don't know what a person feels about the abortion till they have to deal with one.
Lawless wrote:
It's not easy, I'll tell you right now that it's a lot easier to say getting an abortion isn't a big deal until you actual have to deal with one.
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I never got an abortion, but I knew people that had and it is a rough time for them .
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Posted By: Frozen Balls
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 7:33am
Good luck.
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Posted By: ekeboo
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 7:45am
wont hold anyhting agaisnt you. you realize it is actually a kid inside her son thats a good thing.
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Posted By: P!NK panther
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 8:11am
Well, that is the right thing to do. But you should be more responsible.
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 8:27am
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I support you all the way, and i hope you get through it.
I just think a tatoo with the name Jackson Michael on you will raise questions for the rest of your life.
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 8:46am
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Well Flame away but i gona venture to say i DONT think your doing the right thing.
Now I not gona bash ya and i admittendly dont have to deal with it BUT. I just cant understand how Killing a Living Being in ANYWAY can be the right thing to do sorry I CANT feel sorry for you and i dont give a RATS bottome what ya think of this post i SIMPLY stating my belife witch is the use of a Forum at witch You decided to post this information in.
Now things happen and people get themselfs in tight and bad situations BUT Killing a Living being is NEVER a good answer. There are other routs to take. Now i also know my post here is too have NO Impact on yours and your girlfriend choice BUT i would not feel right myself if i DID not express my opinions.
I do know MANY that delt with the same situation as you and your girl friend most notably is my MOTHER. So please take this into consideration. Thanx.
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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:51am
BearClaw wrote:
Well Flame away but i gona venture to say i DONT think your doing the right thing.
Now I not gona bash ya and i admittendly dont have to deal
with it BUT. I just cant understand how Killing a Living Being in
ANYWAY can be the right thing to do sorry I CANT feel sorry for
you and i dont give a RATS bottome what ya think of this post i SIMPLY
stating my belife witch is the use of a Forum at witch You decided to
post this information in.
Now things happen and people get themselfs in tight and bad
situations BUT Killing a Living being is NEVER a good answer.
There are other routs to take. Now i also know my post here is
too have NO Impact on yours and your girlfriend choice BUT i would
not feel right myself if i DID not express my opinions.
I do know MANY that delt with the same situation as you and your
girl friend most notably is my MOTHER. So please take this
into consideration. Thanx. |
go DIE in a FIRE
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Posted By: Trogdor2
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:59am
I really respect you. You've been through a lot of tough crap in
the past few years. Most of the people I know would have killed
themselves a long time ago. I mean, you had that whole thing with
your parents not speaking with you and not being able to go to schools
and now a kid... Just keep going.
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Posted By: Dom
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:00am
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I support you all the way Lawless. My 16 friend just had her baby, and
her father isn't even out of highschool yet. Now it's going to be hard
for either of them to finish highschool, since they both already had
done poorly. Also, neither of their families are that
well off, it's going to be tough. After seeing what they have to go
through, I can understand completely why your girlfriend made that
decision.
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:02am
im strongly against ur girls decision but i wont give u any crap about it
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Posted By: BlackDeath7
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:37am
I must say that I am against your decision. I won't necessarily
flame you, but I will blame you. If you knew that having a child
was a possibility when you started "interacting" with your girlfriend,
why did you do it in the first place? I inferred from your post
that you are in college and she is in high school. That makes you
at least 18, I'm guessing more like 20. You are smart enough to
know that this was a possibility from the start. Personally I
believe you shouldn't be "interacting" until you are married, that way
a child isn't a burden at all, but a joy. I personally beg you to
reconsider your options. Please put the child up for adoption or
something like that. Give him a chance at life. Please
don't kill him.
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:49am
BlackDeath7 wrote:
I must say that I am against your decision. I won't necessarily
flame you, but I will blame you. If you knew that having a child
was a possibility when you started "interacting" with your girlfriend,
why did you do it in the first place? I inferred from your post
that you are in college and she is in high school. That makes you
at least 18, I'm guessing more like 20. You are smart enough to
know that this was a possibility from the start. Personally I
believe you shouldn't be "interacting" until you are married, that way
a child isn't a burden at all, but a joy. I personally beg you to
reconsider your options. Please put the child up for adoption or
something like that. Give him a chance at life. Please
don't kill him.
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He is somewhat correct.
I'll support you in everything you do, but supporting someone and supporting there decisions are two seperate things.
Forgive me if I sound shallow, but the tattoo is probably not the best
thing. First off, I know you feel quilty for what your doing, but
the way I see it, the tattoo is a way you feel you can lessen the guilt
for doing what you are.
Like I said, if you ever wanna talk to someone, I'll be the first one here to be your friend though.
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Posted By: MetallicaESPa5
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:57am
Please, use a condom.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:05am
MetallicaESPa5 wrote:
Please, use a condom.
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Bingo! Maybe my parents should have used one. 
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Posted By: Frozen Balls
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:07am
Hysteria wrote:
MetallicaESPa5 wrote:
Please, use a condom.
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Bingo! Maybe my parents should have used one. 
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The world would be better for it.
 
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:21am
Frozen Balls wrote:
Hysteria wrote:
MetallicaESPa5 wrote:
Please, use a condom.
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Bingo! Maybe my parents should have used one. 
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The world would be better for it.
 
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:25am
trojan maaaan
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:36am
bluemunky42 wrote:
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One of the select few things that you have ever said that have made me laugh.
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:38am
Let me know if there is anything I can do for you or your girlfriend.
The choice is between you and her alone. If both of you agree that it is that right thing to do, then it is. Good luck.
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 11:56am
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Erased my post as what needed too be said i said in the first post.
Now im off to Die in a fire as was suggested to me LOL
I have some clue what im talking about my MOTHER was considering haveing an abortion But did NOT when she had her first child AT 17 as a SINGLE mother. Things went ok for this family even if time were rouh once.
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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:05pm
The abortion will be very painful. She will bleed for a couple days. There is a chance she wont be able to have a kid ever again. My sister has had two or three. Ive seen the effects. But, you know your young and dont know nothin yet. Learn and take your knocks.
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Posted By: Clark Kent
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:06pm
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This type of thing is never easy...
Good luck to both of you.
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Posted By: Kevin Z
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:08pm
Ask you girlfriend, how she feels about the decision her Mother made.
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:11pm
This can't be easy for you. Good luck, do what you need to get by in this world.
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:12pm
Hysteria wrote:
bluemunky42 wrote:
trojan maaaan |
One of the select few things that you have ever said that have made me laugh.
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Posted By: NiQ-Toto
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:35pm
Lawless, you have no idea how much respect I have for you. You have been faced with adversity and a tough life and are always striving to keep it on track. So far I think youve done a damn fine job. As for the kid, I know it isnt going to be easy, but in all honesty an abortion is probably the best way to go. Putting it up for adoption could be worse then aborting it, as you will always know that somewhere out there a kid was yours, and you will probably want to find him/her eventually which will probably turn out badly for more then a few people. About the tattoo. I beg you reconsider this. You are most likely 18 and getting a tattoo now means having it forever. You do not need a tattoo to remind you of what is going on in your life, because these are the things you will not forget, ever. If you would like it removed, it will cost more money then you would think, and a lot more time too. Best bet is to stay away from tattoos.
Either way, best of luck buddy.
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Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 12:57pm
How old are you guys?
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Posted By: eaglesin05
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 1:12pm
Clark Kent wrote:
This type of thing is never easy...
Good luck to both of you. |
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 1:21pm
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You handled the situation the best way you could have.
I will keep both you and your girl in my thoughts and prayers.
Best of luck in the future.
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Posted By: -ProDigY-
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:04pm
BearClaw wrote:
Well Flame away but i gona venture to say i DONT
think your doing the right thing.
Now I not gona bash ya and i admittendly dont have to deal with it
BUT. I just cant understand how Killing a Living Being in ANYWAY can be
the right thing to do sorry I CANT feel sorry for you and i dont give a
RATS bottome what ya think of this post i SIMPLY stating my belife witch
is the use of a Forum at witch You decided to post this information in.
Now things happen and people get themselfs in tight and bad
situations BUT Killing a Living being is NEVER a good answer. There are
other routs to take. Now i also know my post here is too have NO
Impact on yours and your girlfriend choice BUT i would not feel right
myself if i DID not express my opinions.
I do know MANY that delt with the same situation as you and your girl
friend most notably is my MOTHER. So please take this into
consideration. Thanx. |
It's called tact you insensitive prick.
If you don't agree with what Lawless did than suck it up and overlook this
thread. Now's not the time to push your agenda on us.
That goes for all you other kiddies who took this thread as an opportunity
to preach about the sanctity of life.
Anywhoodles...
I think you made the right decision, Lawless, and I'm sorry you had to
make the decision at all. You definately approached it the right way and
handled it just the same.
I wish you the best of luck.
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:14pm
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Call me what ya want but im simply stating my thoughts. One must expect this when posting on a INTERNET FORUM.
I Cant just over look it BUDDY. SORRY if ya dont like it but WELCOME to the real world.
Life dont go as ya wish all the time and somtimes ya just gotta deal with it.
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Posted By: -ProDigY-
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:18pm
And could you just clarify why, exactly, you can't just
overlook it, "BUDDY"?
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:23pm
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Well i was being nice apose to returnint the Favor of calling you a PRICK .
And i cant read somthing like this and not respond im sorry it goes against my belifs NOT religouse belifes BUT PERSONAL belifes. As i stated befor My mother had that same desition to make over 20 some odd years ago when SHE was 17. Needless to say im glad she chose LIFE.
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Posted By: -ProDigY-
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:26pm
After decoding your post, I came up with this:
"I'm not able to put forth enough self-restraint to avoid making
somebody who's going through an already terrible
experience feel even worse."
Would you say that's relatively accurate?
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:32pm
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Not quiet more like
Im TRYING to help a persone going through a ROUGH time from makeing the WRONG desition. If i look like an A Hole doing so so be it. If he hate my guts So be it. BUT if i manage to get him and his girl Friend to even think twice then Its worth being the Bad guy.
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:35pm
BearClaw wrote:
Not quiet more like
Im TRYING to help a persone going through a ROUGH time from makeing the WRONG desition. If i look like an A Hole doing so so be it. If he hate my guts So be it. BUT if i manage to get him and his girl Friend to even think twice then Its worth being the Bad guy.
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BAHAHAHA
I can hardly read that, but from what i made out, i really disagree with you.
-me
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:36pm
BearClaw wrote:
Well i was being nice apose to returnint the Favor of calling you a PRICK .
And i cant read somthing like this and not respond im sorry it goes against my belifs NOT religouse belifes BUT PERSONAL belifes. As i stated befor My mother had that same desition to make over 20 some odd years ago when SHE was 17. Needless to say im glad she chose LIFE.
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I'm not.
-me
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Posted By: Bango
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:38pm
pb125 wrote:
BearClaw wrote:
Not quiet more like
Im TRYING to help a persone going through a ROUGH time from makeing the WRONG desition. If i look like an A Hole doing so so be it. If he hate my guts So be it. BUT if i manage to get him and his girl Friend to even think twice then Its worth being the Bad guy.
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BAHAHAHA
I can hardly read that, but from what i made out, i really disagree with you.
-me
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It's really not that hard to read what he said.
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:40pm
Bango wrote:
pb125 wrote:
BearClaw wrote:
Not quiet more like
Im TRYING to help a persone going through a ROUGH time from makeing the WRONG desition. If i look like an A Hole doing so so be it. If he hate my guts So be it. BUT if i manage to get him and his girl Friend to even think twice then Its worth being the Bad guy.
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BAHAHAHA
I can hardly read that, but from what i made out, i really disagree with you.
-me
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It's really not that hard to read what he said.
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I know, but when stupid people with bad grammar try to sound smart, i can't help myself.
O btw, i forgot to do this.
Hey prod, * HIGH FIVE*
-me
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Posted By: RenegadeGopher
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 4:41pm
pb125 wrote:
BearClaw wrote:
Well i was being nice apose to returnint the Favor of calling you a PRICK .
And i cant read somthing like this and not respond im sorry it goes
against my belifs NOT religouse belifes BUT PERSONAL belifes. As
i stated befor My mother had that same desition to make over 20 some
odd years ago when SHE was 17. Needless to say im glad she chose LIFE.
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I'm not.
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agreed, BEAR CLAW you SUCK jesus WHY do you caps LOCK random WORDS
I hope you die slowly
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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:00pm
Seriosuly guys, lay off Bearclaw, he has as much of a right to state
his opinion as anyone else. If you dont agree with it, follow
your own advice and "overlook" it.
Lawless, although I may not agree with your choice, I respect you for
it. You are handling this like an adult. You made a mistake
and now you are handling it. Many other guys would just run
away. Best of luck to you and your girlfriend.
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Posted By: 636andy636
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:13pm
use them
ok. some how i dont belive this. Jackson Michael? are you serious.
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:14pm
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636andy636 wrote:
ok. some how i dont belive this. michal jackson? are you serious. |
Yeah i caught the same vibe, this seems a little odd.
-me
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Posted By: Curlyman666
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:24pm
-ProDigY- wrote:
After decoding your post, I came up with this: "I'm not able to put forth enough self-restraint to avoid making somebody who's going through an already terrible experience feel even worse."
Would you say that's relatively accurate? |
yes.
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:43pm
BEARclaw y do u KEEP going like THIS with all YOUR posts?
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:47pm
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Im no longer going to post in this thread anymore as im tired of stating my point OVER AND OVER. If ya have a prob with me point this trhead out to a Mod and get them too boot me if i have done something Wrong.
Sorry many of you disagree with me but im glad you have your opinion and have no probs myself with you stating it.
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Posted By: lester98c
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 5:50pm
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im sorry for your upcoming loss
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 6:11pm
u havent done anything wrong besides be an idiot by randomly making words capitalized
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Posted By: paint'nu
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 6:40pm
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I don't understand abortion. Life is precious. I hope you and your girlfriend seek counseling to help you though the pain. I think if you don’t want a child then adoption is the only answer. There are many people in the world that cannot have children and would love to have the one that you are going to kill. I look at my 9 month old and cannot imagine having aborted her. Trust me, no tattoo is going to replace “him” saying dada for the first time.
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 6:43pm
What does anyones mother's decision have to do with Lawless' decision?
So what if your parents didnt chose to abort you, how much relevance does that have on Lawless's choice?
Lawless made a decision based on the situation, end of story.
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Posted By: -Pro DigY-
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 6:44pm
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Just follow your heart. It's all you can do it this twisted, meat-eating world.
God, I can't get a girlfriend...
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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 7:28pm
I cant really have much sympathy for him. Its his and her own fault. Sucks about the situation and all that.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 7:51pm
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Guys, he was capitalizing CERTAIN words to show emphasis on them, as it is relativly hard to do otherwise on an internet forum.
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 8:39pm
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Hey guys!
Thanks for the support...some of you.
To the others of you who chose to completely ingnore my polite request to not give me *stuff* about abortion...nevermind...if you like to be rude and inconsiderate...it's more your problem than mine.
None of you know how much thought I've put into this, I didn't tell my girlfriend to get one so I could "run away" from my problems, I told her that whatever she decided to do, I'd support her 100%!
And yes...I realize that what I did was irresponsible...but...I guess there's no real legitimate excuse.
I take full responsibility for my actions and always have.
I NEVER run!!!
That's how I live my life!
And like I said...it's not like I'm thrilled about the idea of killing my kid.
I never thought abortions were all that big of a deal until now...my eyes have really been opened to what people have to go through when considering something like this.
And about the name...before we even had this on our plates...we discussed what names we liked.
I said that for a girl, I liked the name Grace and for a boy, Jackson.
Then after me having said that, she added Michael to Jackson and the result was Jackson Michael.
Michael Jackson was never on either of our minds and had no hand in how we assembled the name.
But anyway...if I continue...I may never stop...so enough for now and more for later.
Thanks again...to some of you.
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:20pm
wait what if its a girl? will the abortion be before or after you find out? before, i assume, since shes only 5 weeks right and it takes about 5 months to tell
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:35pm
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Hey!
Hopefully...it will be done within the next week or two.
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Location: The Boonies, MI
Phone Number: (989)666-XXXX
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:37pm
Bear claw THINKS he is some SORT of WILLIAM Shatner.
Gasp. Shazbok!
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Posted By: NotDaveEllis
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:51pm
From the book of Adam Corolla
"How about this. No more kids eh sweetie?"
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Posted By: RoboCop
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:52pm
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I also think you should put it up for adoption. I know a person who her and her husband have been waiting for a baby to adopt for about 6-9 years(i can't remeber), but she finally got one last week.
It's a cute little baby too
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Posted By: Salem
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 9:56pm
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Ive got a few thoughts on the subject.
First off, anyone whos been hounding the guy about his situation because he didnt use protection or shouldnt have been doing what he did in the first place, well hind-sight is 20-20 aint it? Thats in no way useful to him now. Thats scolding him for something he cant fix, its stupid of you to tell him about it now.
But anyway, Im sorry for the situation now. I disagree with your plan of action but I respect you for it. For not turning a blind eye to it and you are recognizing what it is, which is much more than I could probably say for most folks. I wish you the best of luck.
-Kasey
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:07pm
salem change ur font to a darker color, thats hard to read against the light background. and all u who say put it up for adoption, im with u but i wont say it loudly because lawless has his mind set. in my opinion, nothing anyone can do will change his mind besides him and his girl, so leave them to it. i will say this last thing tho, and that is ive always been against abortion in general after seeing a video of it. they put a needle or sumthing of the sort in the babys head and it bleeds to death, hence the girls bleeding for a few days after cuz its sort of like a big period.
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Posted By: Salem
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:23pm
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^^^^^
Hey blue monkey. Just thought Id correct you here. What you were refering to is partial birth abortion. That isnt done this early in the pregnancy. And the bleeding isnt from the baby. Its, as you said, like a big period. Its the shedding of the capillary filled lining of the uterus. Its sheds after the body realizes it isnt going to need the extra blood flow to the uterus to nourish the baby.
-Kasey
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:25pm
Salem wrote:
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Hey blue monkey. Just thought Id correct you here. What you were refering to is partial birth abortion. That isnt done this early in the pregnancy. And the bleeding isnt from the baby. Its, as you said, like a big period. Its the shedding of the capillary filled lining of the uterus. Its sheds after the body realizes it isnt going to need the extra blood flow to the uterus to nourish the baby.
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Up top!
-me
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Posted By: bluemunky42
Date Posted: 10 April 2005 at 10:27pm
o didnt kno that. thnx for correcting me b4 i get flamed by useless idiots
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 3:01pm
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Hey!
Yes...they will dilate her cervix and essentially stick a vaccum hose up into her uterus and suck the fetus out.
They will give her a pill before hand that will kill the fetus before its extraction.
Once again...I thank all of you who have respectfully gave me support.
------------- Name: Paul R. Warman II
Location: The Boonies, MI
Phone Number: (989)666-XXXX
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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:00pm
-ProDigY- wrote:
BearClaw wrote:
Well Flame away but i gona venture to say i DONT
think your doing the right thing.
Now I not gona bash ya and i admittendly dont have to deal with it
BUT. I just cant understand how Killing a Living Being in ANYWAY can be
the right thing to do sorry I CANT feel sorry for you and i dont give a
RATS bottome what ya think of this post i SIMPLY stating my belife witch
is the use of a Forum at witch You decided to post this information in.
Now things happen and people get themselfs in tight and bad
situations BUT Killing a Living being is NEVER a good answer. There are
other routs to take. Now i also know my post here is too have NO
Impact on yours and your girlfriend choice BUT i would not feel right
myself if i DID not express my opinions.
I do know MANY that delt with the same situation as you and your girl
friend most notably is my MOTHER. So please take this into
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It's called tact you insensitive prick.
If you don't agree with what Lawless did than suck it up and overlook this
thread. Now's not the time to push your agenda on us.
That goes for all you other kiddies who took this thread as an opportunity
to preach about the sanctity of life.
Anywhoodles...
I think you made the right decision, Lawless, and I'm sorry you had to
make the decision at all. You definately approached it the right way and
handled it just the same.
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So what the hell is the point of this thread? Respect Lawless and say
how amazing he is by taking the easy way out and killing a human being?
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:16pm
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^Wow!^
There seems to be an abundance of arrogance as well as ignorance in the forums nowadays.
But oh yeah...I'm havin' a big ol' kegger the night my girl gets it done!
A bigass celebration because I'm going to be so god damn happy!!
You should come and be the pinata and I'll beat you with a baseball bat until your insides fall out!
Douchebag!
------------- Name: Paul R. Warman II
Location: The Boonies, MI
Phone Number: (989)666-XXXX
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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:17pm
Yea what you feel is guilt because you know what you're doing...
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Posted By: NiQ-Toto
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:19pm
Ryan, he explained it, it was his girls descision and he is supporting her. Stop the comments please.
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:19pm
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You're damn right I'm feelin' guilty!
It's not like I want to do this or am proud of myself!
But it's for the best!
Agree or not...makes no difference...it's going to be done.
------------- Name: Paul R. Warman II
Location: The Boonies, MI
Phone Number: (989)666-XXXX
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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:20pm
well good luck with that
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Posted By: Gewwy
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 4:41pm
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I respect you for the way you've handled this... and how its obvious that you've learned from this in what looks to be the hardest way possible. I think you should wait more than a month and a half though. You girl friend could just be scared and might regret this in the long run. After all, adoption wouldn't be a bad route. But enough of my Christian BS, good luck with the abortion and the after effects. Serious.
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Posted By: Lawless
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 6:57pm
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^Thanks!^
------------- Name: Paul R. Warman II
Location: The Boonies, MI
Phone Number: (989)666-XXXX
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 7:02pm
Life isn't easy.
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Posted By: AdmiralSenn
Date Posted: 13 April 2005 at 10:07pm
Sent the PM, forgot my box was full.
I will also throw in a vote for adoption if you have a chance, since it sounds like you wouldn't prefer an abortion if possible..
I just hope something good comes out of this, regardless of what happens.
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