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Topic: Prom Situation....... UPDATED!!!!
Posted By: Heres To You
Subject: Prom Situation....... UPDATED!!!!
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:24pm
Well, me and my girlfriend(Me being a junior, her being a sopohmore) of four months just broke up.  While we were dating, I brought the situation of Prom up, and told her that If she wanted to go, all she had to do was let me know and we would, and she said "OK" and never said anything else about it which meant she didn't want to go I assumed.

So a few days after I broke up with her, I started dating this girl named Lindsey who is the greatest girl ever, she'll do anything for you and so on......  We'll we started dating four days before Prom, and she was bringing her male-friend to the prom.  Well, she couldn't just ditch a guy four days before prom, and I couldn't get a tux and everything four days before prom anyway(and her mom said she couldn't just quit prom because they spent $300 on a dress).  Well, of course I was was worried, but she's so nice and innocent(you would jsut have to know her) but I just said that she could go, but please don't even pop-kiss him or anyone else, and don't go to any after-parties which she agreed to.  Also, she said she would call me every chance she got.......

Well, her dinner reservations were at 7:30 and she told me she would call me after they got done eating and during the prom as well.  Well, 11:20 just rolled around and I havn't heard a word, and this isn't like her.

I just called my best friend and his cell phone was working fine, so I know cell-phone cervice isn't a problem. 

I have talked to numerous friends who told me they would keep an eye out and watch her to see if she did anything, and I still havn't heard from any of them.

So here I am just sitting, playing guitar, and feeling depressed.  It's amazing how close you can become to somebody in 4 days (even though we've been friends for a while).  But prom ends at 12:00, so I'm staying up to at least she if she'll call......

Any advice?


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Posted By: ItsJustMe2
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:30pm
You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.

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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:30pm
Take 4 shots of strong liqour, and drink heavily the rest of the night.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


But weve been friends and talking about it forever.

Most people who have had a relationship where they really like/love someone can tell you they knew so after a few days.

Words cant really explain how great a girl she is, it's the best relationship I've ever been in, which is why I'm worried....


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:34pm
Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:36pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:38pm
Watch a tv show or something and take your mind off it.

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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:43pm
Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.


Shes having fun at her prom, and thats what she is supposed to be doing. not worrying about keeping your paranoia level down.

How do you know what it feels like if you were dating her for 8 months? You have been going out for 4 days. Just chill out until prom is over.

And why couldnt she go to any after parties? You could go with her.


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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:43pm
Originally posted by Hitman Hitman wrote:

Watch a tv show or something and take your mind off it.


Thats what I threw in the guitar comment for.....

I tried playing Halo for a while, but it's not as fun when all your friends are at prom.

On a side note- Has anyone noticed how Halo isn't just for geeks anymore?  My best friend (who is our starting Quarterback) plays Halo with me and another good friend almost every night.  Oh well........


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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:45pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.


Shes having fun at her prom, and thats what she is supposed to be doing. not worrying about keeping your paranoia level down.

How do you know what it feels like if you were dating her for 8 months? You have been going out for 4 days. Just chill out until prom is over.

And why couldnt she go to any after parties? You could go with her.


True, but my parents aren't likely to let me leave the house at 12:00 when I havn't even gone to prom.

And I'm not saying you havnt, but when your with someone you really like it just feels like you've been with them for so long.

So, lets say I chill to prom's over.  That gives me a whole 15 minutes more chillin' till I gotta think of something to do.....


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:46pm
Go to bed. Sounds to me you could use some sleep. Girls are tiring.

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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:49pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Girls are tiring.


Probably the best statement I've seen on the forum in a long, long time.

But I'm so not going to bed, I'm definently waiting until proms over to see if she even calls.


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: ekeboo
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:50pm
hey just cool down shell be fine if she does anything than she probably isnt the girl you really want. Heck my girlfriend is going to prom with another guy and shes constantly on me and asking if its alright to go to prom with this guy. dont worry everything will probably be fine

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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:51pm
uhh...., just wait a while

She'll call if she cares

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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:53pm
Thanks Ekeboo and Bugg.

Well I'm pretty sure she'll call, but if she says she forgot or something, I don't know what I'm going to say.....

I don't know wether I'm more mad, or depressed.

It may be a nasty mix of the two......


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: ekeboo
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:56pm
just dont be to overpossesive girls dont like that at all if they want to be with some of their "girlfriends" let em and go have fun with some of the guys

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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:57pm
I know the feeling, but have yet ot have a g/f

drama is fun

well if she forgets, just play dumb "oh ok"

or go

"oh i think i'll forget yur b-day" in a playful tone of course

i may have not had a gf, but i know my way around girls

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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:57pm
Like I said.. drink plenty of alcohol.. time will go faster and you most likely wont even remember her not calling.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:58pm
if she doesnt, and says she sorry just tell her thats alright. If you freak out because she didnt call, you're a butthead.

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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 10:03pm
And I know what its like to have a g/f that you really like. Me and my g/f were best friends for a year before we decided to go out (of course we liked eachother the whole time.. just never said anything about it) and now we've been going out for 5 months and its awesome. But I know what its like to be in your position because she went to Homecoming with someone else because she had promised him she'd go with him a long time ago. I heard about how much fun she had and I was happy that she did, but I also heard that she was like obsessing over my freakin brother (she dont think hes even good looking now I guess.. she thinks hes a dork again.. it was a "one night thing") and I was TICKED. But it all worked out because I trusted her and held faith in her that she wouldnt do anything with anyone.. so it will be ok..

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 10:09pm
she's probably having a good time...i wouldn't worry about it too much

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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 11:27pm
In all of my faliures with girls there's one thing that I've learend. You have to just not care. The less you care the better things will work out for you as odd as it sounds. Girls don't want a guy that gets all trippy over the littelist things.

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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 23 April 2005 at 11:30pm
Sometimes that is hard though. If you like/love someone alot, you care and worry about them more.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 9:51am
C'mon!! Update us on what happened.. don't leave me hanging!

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 10:08am
Yeah I was about to ask if she has called you yet?

I wanted to know if the best guy ever ran off with the best guy ever....



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Posted By: Zesty
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 10:17am
Originally posted by mbro mbro wrote:

In all of my faliures with girls there's one thing that I've learend. You have to just not care. The less you care the better things will work out for you as odd as it sounds. Girls don't want a guy that gets all trippy over the littelist things.
Dude, I hope you read this, because with that post I officially end all hostilities towards you and your men!

You are an official "pimp-in-training".....kick game where it's willing to be soaked!


Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 10:33am
Sweet, one enemy down. Let's get these dominos falling.


Anyways that's all you need to know about women.

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Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos.


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 10:37am
Yea, I want to hear what happened too. 

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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 10:46am
Maybe he is laying in bed crying because she a) never called b) called and said that she got drunk and did stuff with a few other guys.. 3 at once.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Zesty
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:03am
MBRO is right...if you are all nice to a chick and treat her with the respect that she doesn't deserve, she will think she's got you "in the bag".

If you just act like you don't give a crap, then she'll wonder what's wrong with her and why you aren't all up on her jock, and she'll end up making it obvious that she wants something with you.




Posted By: You Wont See Me
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:06am
Yay Zesty is on our side

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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:12am
You kids play too many mind games.

Honesty is the best policy. Why waste each others time playing head games and mind trips.

There are too many women out there to have time to play games.

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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:24am
I like Devil2's ideas.

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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: witit48
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:31am
if u dont have 1 borrow a realy fast marker go to her dates house and pop him a few times.NOT REALLY

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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 11:49am
Originally posted by Devil2 Devil2 wrote:

b) called and said that she got drunk and did stuff with a few other guys.. 3 at once.
happen to you before devil

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Posted By: KoolKidsKlan
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 12:30pm

I know how you feel, and i got some advice. Because im like obsessed over this girl.. as you can tell in my signature.. and i have been for about a year or more. And weve gone out 3 times with her dumping me due to her liking other guys, and i cried.. but i coudnt help it, and then the next day shes doin stuff with that guy she likes and i got all pissed off and sad and depressed and i had a plan to unload a hopper on that FLucker. SHe still likes him now but also me to. and its sorta like a war but she didnt like me bfor cuz i was stressing and freaking out over that kid. so just forget it- if she calls, have a nice talk with her and apoligise u coudnt go. Our problems are pretty close here. And yeah dont act as if she cant hang with her friends cuz she'll think u dont trust her and no one likes a dude that doesnt trust the closest person in the world to them (AKA your g/f).



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Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 12:59pm
wow...that sucks...don't act like you don't give a crap though...thats not the way to handle it.  Just act normal...sure she'll know somethings up, but still...girls know all...they can tell if you're trying to make them feel bad, then start crying and make you feel like a **edited**...just play it cool and don't freak out.  It will all be good.

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Posted By: Sumo_Monkey22
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 2:43pm
Sweet talk is that best way..

Once you get a girl and you tak sweet to her and complent her al that time. You got to pull the: open doors, hold hands, kiss on the forehead, kiss in the rain, tell her shes gorgeuous, so affection in public and that that stuff. Once you start doing this she will fall for it. Girs love guys that knows how to treat them, i havent not had a girfriend for more then a couple weeks in the past 3 years almost 4. Once you get the girl so good about herself. No guy will matter to her she wont want anyone but you.

WARNING: Once you start talking like this and treating girs liek this... BUY CONDOMS. They will want to bang you.


Posted By: Clark Kent
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 2:45pm
Originally posted by Hades Hades wrote:

You kids play too many mind games.


Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 2:46pm
Originally posted by Bugg Bugg wrote:

Originally posted by Devil2 Devil2 wrote:

b) called and said that she got drunk and did stuff with a few other guys.. 3 at once.
happen to you before devil


Yes. I was one of the 3 guys and it was my friends drunken girlfriend.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: jaked588
Date Posted: 24 April 2005 at 4:22pm
blaze it up

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Posted By: whoknowswho
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 2:12pm

Originally posted by Hades Hades wrote:

You kids play too many mind games.

Ownage. 

Thinking about all of this "If I act like this, then this will happen, or if I do this" is pointless. Just act like yourself. 



Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 2:27pm
Anyone else wondering why we haven't heard from him since that Saturday night?

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Posted By: akaalwaysright
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 3:37pm
maybe he killed himself...

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Posted By: Zesty
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 3:39pm
Originally posted by Clark Kent Clark Kent wrote:

Originally posted by Hades Hades wrote:

You kids play too many mind games.


OMFG, of all people to say that!!!!!


Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 4:16pm
Originally posted by Hitman Hitman wrote:

Anyone else wondering why we haven't heard from him since that Saturday night?


I'm wondering that too. Maybe he took my advice, but instead of just drinking heavily the whole night, he's still drinking because she left him or something..

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Zesty
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 4:24pm
"No woman, no cry." - Bob Marley


Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 4:43pm
you should have agreed to meet her at an afterparty

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Posted By: Apu
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 4:56pm
Where is he!

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Posted By: jmac3
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 4:58pm
I wonder if he killed himself.....Where is he from we need to check the papers.

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Posted By: 98God
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 5:24pm
He might have fell down the stairs in his state of depression.


Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 5:29pm
Originally posted by 98God 98God wrote:

He might have fell down the stairs in his state of depression.


or dove down them, depends on the level of depression


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Posted By: Bango
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 5:59pm
I don't think he died. According to his profile his last visit was yesterday.

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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 6:55pm
He's just ignoring us and our rude and unhelpful comments. My job is done.

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 7:54pm
maybe everythign worked out nicely and he is getting laid as we speak.

yes, for like 3 days straight.


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sporx wrote:
well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30.


Posted By: Thor
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 8:16pm
Aww hell now even i'm interested in his life.

it's like a soap opera or something!

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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 25 April 2005 at 8:55pm
I find myself agreeing with Hades and Sumo... Which is very odd.



But I too want to see the conclusion of "as the forum turns"


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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 26 April 2005 at 2:11pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

maybe everythign worked out nicely and he is getting laid as we speak.

yes, for like 3 days straight.



I'm still votiing for "she found another guy and left him for the guy she just met".. but what do I know. He needs to tell us what happened..!

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 26 April 2005 at 2:13pm
i talk to him on aim a lot and he hasn't been on in the past couple days

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Posted By: NiQ-Toto
Date Posted: 26 April 2005 at 2:27pm
He went on vacation.

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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 26 April 2005 at 3:39pm
^Did he really?

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The Evil Thong Girl had something called "Motion Lotion"...it tasted pretty good, I ate the entire contents of the bottle thingy..-Hell's Oracle


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 8:59pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

maybe everythign worked out nicely and he is getting laid as we speak.

yes, for like 3 days straight.


Well, somewhat.....

Turns out she calls 5 mins after prom, and used the line I expected her to, "I forgot".  So I'm furious and tell her I need to go and get off.  So she call's back and tells me that shes going to some after party.  I immeadiately say, "If you do, were through" and she said fine.  So at this point were done.

So I'm to the point where I just needed someone to talk to so I called my good friend Jordan (who I used to date) and we talked for hours.  Near the end of our Convo, she says, "You know, if we ever dated I would never do this to you."  And I figured that since me and Lindsey were through, I figured why not?

So me and Jordan are at this girls party and just hanging out and talking, and guess who shows up.......... Lindsey.  She says we need to talk, and rather than leaving Jordan, I said after Jordan leaves I'll talk.  She eventually, Jordan leaves and I give her a goodnight kiss and go to talk to Lindsey.  Shes their crying in this girl's bedroom, and I ask her what's wrong.  She says that she missed me and was scared that she was going to lose me.

Turns out, she never went to the party, and couldn't get back in touch with me because I turned my phone off.  Well, after verifying her story through a few friends, and making sure she wasn't at the party, we started dating again.  She said that me caring that much and worrying about her made her like me more, and now were with each other all the time.

Now heres the part where I brag and some of you will hate me and call me arrogant, but no more than I'm on here, I could care less.  After a few days of us being together, we were joking around about it, and she says, "Don't worry, I'll make it up to you this weekend", and I'll leave the rest to the imagination........

Sorry for not posting, I had forgot all about the thread until Shocker talked to me on AIM.


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Posted By: 98God
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:04pm
Why would you flip out because she went to a party though i don't undertand. If you liked her so much you would trust her im assuming. So where is the the problem?


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:15pm
Originally posted by 98God 98God wrote:

Why would you flip out because she went to a party though i don't undertand. If you liked her so much you would trust her im assuming. So where is the the problem?


Think about it like this.

It's prom night, and your g/f is out with another guy.....

Need I say more?

Not to mention she promised she wouldn't go earlier.....


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"War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse."


Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:15pm

dude, you're way to emotional...even for a teenager.

 

 

 

...yes, says the teenager, so you know its bad when a teenager calls another teenager "too emotional."



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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:20pm
Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:

dude, you're way to emotional...even for a teenager.

 

 

 

...yes, says the teenager, so you know its bad when a teenager calls another teenager "too emotional."



Call me emotional....

Girls see emotional as caring.

Caring guys get laid.

Therefore, Me>You


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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:32pm
Way to be a complete asshole. YOU FORGOT TO CALL ME!!!! GAAH!!! She called you 5 minutes after prom, either he is really quick or they had sex during prom.

Then going on to another girl who happens to be a CLOSE FRIEND and going back to the one who apologized and is crying her heart out in hopes of getting some action.

Thats screwed up.

gg.


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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 9:47pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Way to be a complete asshole. YOU FORGOT TO CALL ME!!!! GAAH!!! She called you 5 minutes after prom, either he is really quick or they had sex during prom.

Then going on to another girl who happens to be a CLOSE FRIEND and going back to the one who apologized and is crying her heart out in hopes of getting some action.

Thats screwed up.

gg.


I never started dating her again for hopes of action.

I really care about her, but none the less, I did kinda blow off Jordan, but I can't do anything about it.


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Posted By: procarbinefreak
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 10:00pm
you suck at relationships.... but its ok... high school relationships are a joke.


Posted By: Pariel
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 10:01pm
Well, overall, I'd mostly just say that sucks. However, YOU got yourself in this situation, YOU messed it up, and YOU solved it. Overall, a pretty good way to go about things, and having been in a very similar situation with my girlfriend last year(after we'd been going out for 4 months). It's easy to Monday-morning-quarterback it and say you shouldn't have done what you did, but I would probably have done a similar thing in that situation. I wouldn't have asked another girl out, but that's just the difference between the friends we have. If that happened to me, I'd probably go play pool/hand out with my friend Alexis(MALE, he's French, and the "s" is silent). That, and probably begin plotting revenge.

Just as a note, that ex-girlfriend is going to Senior Prom this year(as a freshman). Yeah...she's a really nice girl, we just stopped being able to interact, because we were way different.

Originally posted by procarbinefreak procarbinefreak wrote:

you suck at relationships.... but its ok... high school relationships are a joke.


So true.


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 10:16pm
Originally posted by procarbinefreak procarbinefreak wrote:

you suck at relationships.... but its ok... high school relationships are a joke.


Then my parents are a joke......

Either way, I feel everything worked out.


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Posted By: Pariel
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 10:33pm
He's not saying relationships that STARTED in high school are a joke. He's saying that a relationship, while in high school, is a joke. You're not nearly as serious about it as anyone, much less you, think you are.


Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 29 April 2005 at 10:42pm
Originally posted by Pariel Pariel wrote:

He's not saying relationships that STARTED in high school are a joke. He's saying that a relationship, while in high school, is a joke. You're not nearly as serious about it as anyone, much less you, think you are.


True, but saying just because your young means you shouldn't have serious relationship's is another thing.

Im 17, my parents were 16 when the started dating and 19 when they married and they're still together and happy.  Granted, this isn't always the case, but it can happen.

I'm not even thinking of marraige, but I just wanted to say that IMHO High School relationships aren't completely pointless......


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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 12:12am
Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:


IMHO High School relationships aren't completely pointless......


BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA




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Posted By: Pariel
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 5:51am
Originally posted by Darur Darur wrote:


Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:


IMHO
High School relationships aren't completely pointless......


BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA




I'm in agreement. The difference is marginal. Mostly, I'm pretty sure they're around so you think you're getting some good tail...but you're not.


Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 5:54am
You're retarded. Did you not read my previous post? Way to be a girl and blow stuff out of proportion, being a whinny baby will get you nowhere with girls. Grow up before you even think about a relationship. Moron.

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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 8:55am
Originally posted by mbro mbro wrote:

You're retarded. Did you not read my previous post? Way to be a girl and blow stuff out of proportion, being a whinny baby will get you nowhere with girls. Grow up before you even think about a relationship. Moron.


Yet were together now, and she said it made her like me more when she found out I cared that much.

Maybe not every girl wants a hardcore "I don't care" guy.


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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 8:55am
Dear god. What the hell is wrong with you??

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Posted By: Pariel
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 9:00am
Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Dear god. What the hell is wrong with you??


There's something really wierd about this situation...maybe that it seems much too crazy. Are you sure her "male friend" didn't pump her on stims last night? Or anything else for that matter? I have never met a female who acts like this.


Posted By: 98God
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 9:02am
Originally posted by procarbinefreak procarbinefreak wrote:

you suck at relationships.... but its ok... high school relationships are a joke.


Amen to that.


Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 9:04am
All I see 'most' good looking women are just Gold diggers, new Car, New Quad, and stuff like that, thats all there after, not emotions, firmness or w/e, Flash that Green, and they do nything you want them to do.

And besides, Highschool relation ships are just popularity contests, and who ever gets dumped becomes the loser type thing.


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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 1:01pm
But Im not focusing on the point of you 2 are back together and happy. You screwed a close friend of yours. You called her to talk, and eventually got together. And you just dropped her like a sack of crap because the other girl cried.

Thats messed up.

<EDIT>

And Panda Man, that is the single dumbest thing i have ever read.


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Posted By: xteam02001
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 2:14pm

you pretty much did the exact opposite that most people told you to do.

all you have to say is "its ok, dont worry about it"

girls see weakness in people that say "god, why didnt you call me. I was waiting by the phone all night"



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Posted By: :ShockeR_ratm:
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by Panda Man Panda Man wrote:

All I see 'most' good looking women are just Gold diggers, new Car, New Quad, and stuff like that, thats all there after, not emotions, firmness or w/e, Flash that Green, and they do nything you want them to do.

And besides, Highschool relation ships are just popularity contests, and who ever gets dumped becomes the loser type thing.


that sounds like something an ugly person would say


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Posted By: phantom87
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 3:48pm

Originally posted by Pariel Pariel wrote:

Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Dear god. What the hell is wrong with you??


There's something really wierd about this situation...maybe that it seems much too crazy. Are you sure her "male friend" didn't pump her on stims last night? Or anything else for that matter? I have never met a female who acts like this.

Mmmm...its fun if you're both on stims....hahahah...wooo.



Posted By: cdacda13
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 4:03pm
Originally posted by Cedric Cedric wrote:

Dear god. What the hell is wrong with you??


Posted By: KoolKidsKlan
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 4:18pm

thats great its a happy ending. And guess what . It is for me too!

I started liking this other girl and she liked me too. So on friday i asked her out and she said yes, and were in love and im so happy.

If your wondering her name is Megan . I love her so much.

and shes no gold digger, shes the NICEST GIRL EVER. She doesnt want my money or anything. Shes so great i love her!!



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Posted By: Salem
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 4:46pm

Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:




Well, somewhat.....

Turns out she calls 5 mins after prom, and used the line I expected her to, "I forgot".  So I'm furious and tell her I need to go and get off.  So she call's back and tells me that shes going to some after party.  I immeadiately say, "If you do, were through" and she said fine.  So at this point were done.

wow, way to be freakishly over possesive. You coulda avoided the whole thing by just chilling out. OMG she didnt call after eating. Get over it.

So I'm to the point where I just needed someone to talk to so I called my good friend Jordan (who I used to date) and we talked for hours.  Near the end of our Convo, she says, "You know, if we ever dated I would never do this to you." 

But you apparently have no problem doing it to her. Other girls back, screw you, i was just using you. Very nice.



Now heres the part where I brag and some of you will hate me and call me arrogant, but no more than I'm on here, I could care less.  After a few days of us being together, we were joking around about it, and she says, "Don't worry, I'll make it up to you this weekend", and I'll leave the rest to the imagination........

Wow get over it. If I had exctied every time girl teased like that Id be in for alot of let downs. Not a big deal.

 Yeh Im given you alot of crap but I just cant belive youd freak out, then hurt a long time friend like that. And dont even try to tell me I dont know what your situations like. 2 months ago I started dating a girl and asked her to the prom. (our prom was a month from then) She said yes. But she had already told me she was going to prom at another school, like 2 weeks after ours. I said it was fine. So we had a good month and got alot closer during it. Had a good time at prom. Then in the weeks between proms she kept asking me if i was alright with her going to prom with that other guy. I constantly reassured her and said it was all good.

 2 weeks later she went to that prom. I told her to have a good time (but jokingly/half serious) told her to behave herself. Didnt talk to her till the next morning. Next morning we talked. She told me where all theyd been (the whole run down). I trusted her and weve been good ever since.

You shoulda just let the girl go for a night. If she wasnt trustworthy she wasnt worth your time.



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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 6:03pm
Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Way to be a complete asshole. YOU FORGOT TO CALL ME!!!! GAAH!!! She
called you 5 minutes after prom, either he is really quick or they had
sex during prom.



I agree, way to be a total weiner... "OMg, if you go, we're through, and I'll cry" Thats just babyish... I can understand being disapointed that she's out, but come on man, GO WITH HER to the after party.   I say you suck at girls, hardcore...


Posted By: jmac3
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 7:53pm
ahhahahahahahahahahahahahah....







ahahahahahahahhahahahahahahah.


Yeah that's all I need to add.


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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 10:15pm
Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:


Caring guys get laid.
ehh.. where have I been when this became a rule?

Ask any girl that is ral good friends with me and I'm "The nicest guy I know"

nice guys finish last... atelast in Michigan

girls are confusing

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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 10:28pm
Originally posted by Bugg Bugg wrote:

girls are confusing


That is something we all can agree on.


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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 10:34pm

He sounds alot like this nerd at my school. He has a huuuge lisp and he has a fat/ugly girlfriend. This just seems like someting he would do.

-me



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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 10:48pm
Originally posted by pb125 pb125 wrote:

He sounds alot like this nerd at my school. He has a huuuge lisp and he has a fat/ugly girlfriend. This just seems like someting he would do.


-me

you talking about me?


Originally posted by Hitman Hitman wrote:


Originally posted by Bugg Bugg wrote:

girls are confusing


That is something we all can agree on.
yes, the one thing we agree on himtan, we are one step closer to being nice to eachter.

Look at me and Dune, it only took a couple months

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Posted By: trimble
Date Posted: 30 April 2005 at 10:51pm
Originally posted by jmac3 jmac3 wrote:

ahhahahahahahahahahahahahah....







ahahahahahahahhahahahahahahah.


Yeah that's all I need to add.



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Posted By: rockerdoode
Date Posted: 01 May 2005 at 12:17am
Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:

dude, you're way to emotional...even for a teenager.

 

 

 

...yes, says the teenager, so you know its bad when a teenager calls another teenager "too emotional."



Call me emotional....

Girls see emotional as caring.

Caring guys get laid.

Therefore, Me>You

okay, i don't really need to do this, but im going to, just to make myself feel more important and better at everything that you.

I am friends with a lot of girls, i care about my friends, when a friend is having a crap time, im there for them and support them, im a caring person.  Im always nice to everyone, except you, because you're a whiney, overpossesive little girl, and you obviously aren't mature enough to be dating.  You know its sad when someone younger than you says you're too immature to be dating...oh yeah, i went there.  You sould of realized awhile ago that in a highschool relationship it's about drama, what you two are doing the comming weekend, and its also all about her.  Yeah, you may think this girl isn't like all the rest, but im going to tell you, just about EVERY highschool girl out there only cares about how they look, themselfs, and drama.  Yeah, it was really mean of me to say that, but its true, girls are immature at that age, and so are you.  Maybe you shouldn't date for awhile and focus on growing up a bit, maybe give your girl some space, cause you, me, and everyone here knows that most likely the only reason you two are dating right now is because you totally guilted her and she really liked you.

So guess what that means?

You = Little whiney girl

/end rant



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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 01 May 2005 at 1:05am
Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:

Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by rockerdoode rockerdoode wrote:


dude, you're way to emotional...even for a teenager.





...yes, says the teenager, so you know its bad when a teenager calls another teenager "too emotional."


Call me emotional....Girls see emotional as caring. Caring guys get laid.Therefore, Me>You


okay, i don't really need to do this, but im going to, just to make myself feel more important and better at everything that you.


I am friends with a lot of girls, i care about my friends, when a friend is having a crap time, im there for them and support them, im a caring person. Im always nice to everyone, except you, because you're a whiney, overpossesive little girl, and you obviously aren't mature enough to be dating. You know its sad when someone younger than you says you're too immature to be dating...oh yeah, i went there. You sould of realized awhile ago that in a highschool relationship it's about drama, what you two are doing the comming weekend, and its also all about her. Yeah, you may think this girl isn't like all the rest, but im going to tell you, just about EVERY highschool girl out there only cares about how they look, themselfs, and drama. Yeah, it was really mean of me to say that, but its true, girls are immature at that age, and so are you. Maybe you shouldn't date for awhile and focus on growing up a bit, maybe give your girl some space, cause you, me, and everyone here knows that most likely the only reason you two are dating right now is because you totally guilted her and she really liked you.


So guess what that means?


You = Little whiney girl


/end rant




Posted By: borntopaint
Date Posted: 01 May 2005 at 6:36am
Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

maybe everythign worked out nicely and he is getting laid as we speak.

yes, for like 3 days straight.


Well, somewhat.....

Turns out she calls 5 mins after prom, and used the line I expected her to, "I forgot".  So I'm furious and tell her I need to go and get off.  So she call's back and tells me that shes going to some after party.  I immeadiately say, "If you do, were through" and she said fine.  So at this point were done.

So I'm to the point where I just needed someone to talk to so I called my good friend Jordan (who I used to date) and we talked for hours.  Near the end of our Convo, she says, "You know, if we ever dated I would never do this to you."  And I figured that since me and Lindsey were through, I figured why not?

So me and Jordan are at this girls party and just hanging out and talking, and guess who shows up.......... Lindsey.  She says we need to talk, and rather than leaving Jordan, I said after Jordan leaves I'll talk.  She eventually, Jordan leaves and I give her a goodnight kiss and go to talk to Lindsey.  Shes their crying in this girl's bedroom, and I ask her what's wrong.  She says that she missed me and was scared that she was going to lose me.

Turns out, she never went to the party, and couldn't get back in touch with me because I turned my phone off.  Well, after verifying her story through a few friends, and making sure she wasn't at the party, we started dating again.  She said that me caring that much and worrying about her made her like me more, and now were with each other all the time.

Now heres the part where I brag and some of you will hate me and call me arrogant, but no more than I'm on here, I could care less.  After a few days of us being together, we were joking around about it, and she says, "Don't worry, I'll make it up to you this weekend", and I'll leave the rest to the imagination........

Sorry for not posting, I had forgot all about the thread until Shocker talked to me on AIM.

Holy crap man you just dropped Jordan like that?  I mean true it was prolly just one date, but man.  She was there for you when you needed someone and you and her decide to go out and then you just drop it like its hot (heh sry) as soon as Lindsey comes back.  Maybe i dont understand but thats kinda sick.


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Posted By: Devil2
Date Posted: 01 May 2005 at 9:05am
C'mon.. lay off of him. I can understand criticizing him for his actions, but not for his emotions. People can't control what they feel/think.. its really low to pick on him for being afraid of losing her.. some guys are like that and I know of a few at my school. (And no, they arent the losers/nerds.. I know of a "popular" kid that is like that.. he's a total *butt*, but he is like that.)

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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 01 May 2005 at 9:23am
Originally posted by Bugg Bugg wrote:

Ask any girl that is ral good friends with me and I'm "The nicest guy I know"

nice guys finish last... atelast in Michigan

girls are confusing

Doesn't sound like you have a girlfriend. I remember in an earlier thread, you telling someone to get one. Hey buddy, don't talk crap if you can't even get a girlfriend.


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