Ouchness
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Topic: Ouchness
Posted By: Linus
Subject: Ouchness
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:14am
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I know ILP will have a field day with this thread, but whatever...
As many of you know I was looking forward to the movies tonight... one word, Taylor. Well, that all changed around 6:30. I had called her at 1 to see if she still wanted to go to the movies.. no answer. She calls back around 5:30, I didn' answer becasue I was talking to my manager... But, at 6:30 when I was done with work I call and she answers. The usual "What up, how you doing" ensued. Well, I asked if she still wanted to hang out tonight. She said, and I quote "I'd like to but I can't, parents are making me go to this bonfire thing, and I already went the the movies today" I reply "That's cool" I get the L on cool out and she goes "Ya... my boyfriend took me" Wow... shot down. And this whole week she was giving me clear signals "Wanna hang out?" "I'd love to, how about saturday?" Ho hum... ------------- 
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Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:16am
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Sorry bro.
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:16am
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Lay the foundation. Build the walls! YOU'VE BEEN HOUSE'd!!!! All <Edited - You guys have been warned about language! - Hway> asside, did she have the same feelings for you you did for her? or was it one sided hopefulness? ------------- 
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:20am
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Well, That I really don't know.
I mean, she did flirt with me a lot.. and she did say she wanted to go to the movies with me. But hey wouldn't be the first time I've read signals wrong... and she IS a little out of my leage... Talked to one of my other (girl)friends about it and she said "That means umm, you were kinda her back up, cause she really wanted to go out with the bf, but if she couldn't she'd be excited to go out anyway. She was excited to hang out with you but you are second best to some other ass. But if you're high enough on the friends list, you could quite possibly be next on the "to (have sex with) list" -------------
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Posted By: MagicMikebb
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:20am
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Why must you always mention me? <if you keep with the flaming/insulting, we'll see just what sucks> ------------- 
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:22am
this is why...
Bright side of the matter is, my best friend got hooked up with a girl and she will bring one of her friends so there is a double date... -------------
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MagicMikebb wrote:Posted By: VisionIMP
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:24am
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that sucks, just forget about her and move on. Plenty of other girls out there. ------------- 
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Posted By: MagicMikebb
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:24am
I doubt you'll have a double date once she gets a look at you.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:26am
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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:27am
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(insert cliche owned picture here) ------------- 
Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos. |
Posted By: Kpoofs
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:28am
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You are stupid.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:29am
Who kpoofs? -------------
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:30am
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Hmm...Buggs owned picture, the guy has a red hat. Coincedence....I THINK NOT! -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:32am
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LMAO I noticed that too.. I'm like "Uh oh... red hat..."
I just typed "Owned" into yahoo and chose the first one that was forum apporpiate... But makes sense too.. basically kicked in the nuts  -------------
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Posted By: MagicMikebb
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:34am
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Did you expect your night to be any different....?
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:37am
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Not really owned...you were suppose to go to the movies with a girl who
had a boyfriend. Did you actually expect something to happen? And so
what if she flirts, alot of girls i know flirt with everyone, not
because they are sluts or anything, but because they like to flirt. You are reading to far into this. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:38am
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Yea, I probably am plenti.. but she coudla atleast told me about the BF... a little bit less awkward..
And expect anything? I expected a date.. fun... nothing more, nothing less. -------------
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Posted By: MagicMikebb
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:39am
You can't talk/go out of a date with a person that doesn't exist Bugg.... -------------
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:44am
Shut up ILP. Atleast the guy tries. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:45am
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Thanks plenti..
I'm just trying to ignore ILP... got baited too many times.. That said.. I have had girlfriends before... so I'm used to the "drama" -------------
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:48am
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It sucks, I am a pretty big loser. A girl started flirting with me a while back. Me not being some mega-hunk guy mistook the first girl flirting with me as a sign she liked me. Well I got all worked up over a girl who turns out, flirts with "everyone". I got a mad crush on her, while she moved on to her next person to flirt with. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:52am
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Hitman..all of us have gone through that.
I have dry spells where I can go without a date... which is what I must be in now
I just hate when I'm put in the friends zone before I even know I have a chance... -------------
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Posted By: MagicMikebb
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 1:54am
Ignore me? Thats the same bullcrap excuse you've always used. If you're trying to ignore me, why are you sending me immature pms? Tried and failed is what Plenteh means. -------------
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:04am
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No.. plenti said what he meant, don't put words in his mouth. -------------
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:05am
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**nvmd. I'm an idiot. -------------  irc.esper.net #paintball |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:06am
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:07am
------------- irc.esper.net #paintball |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:09am
Ha, it's 3:07 here too... long day (read post  ) ya.. I got church in the mornign which will complicate my girl problems...
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Posted By: mysteriousone
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 7:23am
 -------------  "Where is your beer tonight? I hope its a heineken."
Jesus is my savior |
Posted By: cdacda13
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 10:36am
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Well, thats the ALWAYS first thing you ask, "do you have a boyfriend" How do you know shes not lying. Maybe she just doesn't like you at all.(Not trying to be mad, just an idea) |
Posted By: Puma45
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 10:43am
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Maybe she was trying to make her boyfriend jealous. Or possibly they
were broken up and got back together at the last minute. Honestly, it's no big deal, move on. There are too many better girls out there to worry about just one. Don't sell yoourself short, no girl is out of your league. I've seen lots of great looking girls with some average or less than average guys. It's all about presentation. You have to think you're something special, because if you don't why should anybody else. Heck, you're probably out of her league. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 12:29pm
Pum...  
Thanks, you had the most advice... you win a prize. A bag of Cheetos is being sent to you door.  -------------
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 12:31pm
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Remeber the titans.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 12:32pm
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That made no sense to me....
But I do love the Tenessee Titans.. so  -------------
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Posted By: triggerhappy1
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 12:41pm
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Mother do you think she's good enough, to me? Build the wall. ------------- 
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Posted By: Dune
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 2:17pm
| This is why I'm happy to not be single and to not sleep in bed alone anymore. |
Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 2:42pm
Hush now baby, baby, don't you cry. Mama's going to check out all your girlfriends for you, Mama won't let anyone dirty get through, Mama's gonna wait up until you get in. Mama will always find out where you've been, Mama's gonna keep baby healthy and clean. Oooh babe, Oooh babe, Oooh babe, You'll always be baby to me. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: tippmann89c
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:21pm
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Mother, did it need to be so high? |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:31pm
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I am SO lost right now... -------------
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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:32pm
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She sucks. Dont worry yourself over her. ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/DBibeau855/?chartstyle=myspacecolors"> 
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Posted By: TruePaintballer
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 3:51pm
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My encounter with the opposite sex... Me "You want to go to a movie sometime..." ------------- http://www.freewebs.com/outlawspaintball/index.htm - Outlaws *Sponsors* http://www.abrika.ca - Abrika |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 4:22pm
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haha, that happens to all of us True...
Your story =  -------------
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 26 June 2005 at 10:58pm
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ANyone else have any bad stories? -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 12:35am
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Let me be the first one to say, I just got a girlfriend last night I'm just kidding, I just broke up with my last girlfriend around a week ago, and I'll tell ya, it's always seems worse than it really is. I'm not trying to brag, but girls have always been attainable for me. Once again, you may think I'm lying, after my breakup with Lindsey, I could have dated another girl in spite one day later, although I'm glad I didn't. In my race to show Lindsey how quickly I was over her, I knew alot of girls who liked me, and I was planning and attending dates left and right, and making sure she heard about everyone. Well, on my fourth date, I was dating this one girl (I'm a senior, shes a junior), and I normally never date younger girls, but I just noticed how attractive she was, and had many of the qualities that I love in girlfriends. So now I'm dating this girl, and I must say, its been going great. In my words, dont think about girls, all my girlfriends come unexpectedly, which is how its always been for me. All my friends who complain about never getting girls are always the ones who get really excited over the first one and are always looking for the next girl. Once again, I've found that most girls are at least more into you than you think. Once I broke up with Lindsey, I had 6 girls that sad they would be willing to do something with me, and I honestly didn't like any of them. Damn, I'm shallow, but don't worry about it as much, if they think you don't care, they'll come... ------------- |
Posted By: tippmann89c
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 1:51am
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now here is an interesting concept and now that i think about it, i find it to be true in a lot of cases. hmm.. thanx |
Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 1:55am
------------- irc.esper.net #paintball |
Posted By: A-5 Command
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:16am
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God made them that way, just to screw with us life sux i no, i had a similar situation yesterday, made me want to shoot my friend...... be thankfull u have the forumers to comfort u... ------------- A-5 Flatline E-Grip Tapco T-6 stock JCS Duel Trigger JCS Universal BiPod Core Remote 88ci/4500psi Crossfire R-5 Hopper Apex Barrel Hot Shot red dot Lapco offset Spec Ops A5-A2 grip |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 9:40am
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Forumers to comfort me.. now that's a scary thought
Anyway, good job, I guess, to Here's to You
good advice -------------
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Posted By: BlackDeath7
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:03am
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I offer my condolences, good effort though.
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Brett Favre gets sacked again. |
Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:42am
This has yet to work for me. Well, this year pretty much sucked - girls wise. Most of the year I was with my friends constantly, then I got busted so then I had no life which means no girls. I understand about the mixed signals thing. One time in 10th grade this girl would kind of flirt with me. She seriouly was out of my league (hot and stuck on herself), so I got shot down badly. Then this year, my prom date gave me baddd mixed signals. 1) She seemed excited to go with me, and even told me she was glad I asked her. 2) Someone at prom asked if we went out and where as I was expecting her to say no immediatly, she kinda shugged her sholders and something along the lines of "I don't know" and looked at me. 3) She just generally gave me the impression that she was diggin me. The ride home in the limo proved otherwise. Although, I could have had a few girls over the last couple of years, but wasn't too intrested. The funniest one was 2 years ago, this girl liked me. She looked alright, but I was hearing from some people that she was a slut, and wanted to find out the truth before I moved on. Well, three weeks went by and she was getting impatient. Finally, I just said screw it and told her good friend "If I wanted something used, I'd go to the car dealership". Walking through the halls after that period she didn't even look at me. I think she got the point. |
Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:48am
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I have one "horror" story, I was going out with a girl who cheated on me with some random guy and did some stuff that is not apporiateon the forum to him
But right now I got a great girlfriend that I have been going out with sine November 20th, 2003. |
Posted By: Reb Cpl
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:49am
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NEVER trust signals. According to my girlfriend, guy's don't take subtle hints very well. We don't take not-so-subtle hints very well. We don't take ANY hints well at all. that's what I want her to think. This way, when she wants something, she needs to be blatantly obvious. It helps me aviod mixups and FUBARS like this... I CAN take a hint, I just want her to think that she's gotta beat me over the head with an idea so I can get it. She'll be blunt, thorough, and use small words because she thinks thats what it takes to get an idea through to me. Try it. It works wonders in any situation, and this'll never happen again. ------------- ? |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:50am
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LMAO, that's harsh Hysteria...
Wow... This year wasn't bad for girls, only the last 2 quaters... I usually hit it off well with girls, but after the first semester, I had very little amount of girls that were good looking, that were single, that I thought had some interest in me... Taylor was one of them. Guess I was wrong. I'm over it though.. I'm gonna text her right now just to say whats up... HAH, good to know reb, thanks... -------------
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:54am
Well, I didn't mean for her to find out, but I honestly didn't care either way. |
Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 12:01pm
HAHA. I always thought it said "Mother didn't have to be so high". Wow, I suck at hearing stuff. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 12:04pm
Ya.. I'm still lost on that one...  -------------
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 12:05pm
| Pink Floyd - Mother. |
Posted By: Impulse.
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 12:09pm
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Sucks man, sorry to hear it. ------------- [IMG]http://www.word-detective.com/berry.gif"> |
Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 1:47pm
I don't even do that, I'm too shallow, and I'll admit it. If a girl wants to break up with me, let her, she knows I'll find another. In the first semester, I dated a girl for 4 months (my longest relationship ever), so I broke up with her, dated another for a month, broke up with her, and then I dated Lindsey (all the forum knows the name). Well, the one girl I really care about ends up dumping me, so I start dating this new girl, which is where I'm at now. My freshman year I didn't get hardly any girls. But I'll tell you two things that will help, first off PLAY SPORTS. I know it sounds stupid, but when you tell girls to come to your games, they feel special, like you want them there. Secondly, no matter how much you like a girl, turn her down at least once, say you have plans, and then call her the next day for a makeup date. And one more, my good friend Zack helped me on this one. ALWAYS have a back up girl, it sounds stupid, but if you have another girl to date right after a breakup, you don't look played, and image is everything. Zacks an even bigger player than me, I'm sure he would love this thread... ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 1:55pm
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I already know about the sports thing.. but with my "build" all school sports are out of the question.
Anyway, all the kids at my school know I play paintball becasue I started a paintball league at it... -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:02pm
That could work, I always invite girls to paintball with me. When you include them in a sport, and say cheesy stuff like you'll protect them, that will work just as good. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:04pm
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I went to Laura'a open house the other week and she's like "Bring me paintballing osmetime, I wanna go! But you hvae to protect me!"
But, like reb said.. don't take hints couse I know I would never get together with Laura.. we are just good friends... -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:11pm
I'm to superficial to say I have to good a friend to date, if shes hott, I'll date her. I've got guy friends I'll have no matter what, any girl is dateable, in my book. Every once in a while you'll find one that you want to keep, and she'll end up dumping you, it's the way the whole game works. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:16pm
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No, it's not that I dont' WANT to date her.. it's just she has now graduated and is going to Missouri for college.... -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:25pm
You can talk to more than one girl at a time, I do anyway... ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:28pm
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I do talk to more then one.. but too often I focus 90% of my attention on one.. maybe thats what is screwing me up... -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:29pm
I'm dating this one girl, but I'm still talking to this girl who lives about an hour away. It's high school, no time for commitment. PS-Benji, IM when you get on, I want to show you this girls pics. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:33pm
pst.. why not show me 
Ya.. I'm not good at multitasking. I start forgetting things when I try and multi-task. That's why I'm great in paintball, i have to focus on ONE THING, and I'm fine... I beter start learning though... -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 2:34pm
IM me, HBY18202 ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 3:47pm
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Says you're offline (Maybe couse you are! ) -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 5:40pm
I was on earlier, but I'm on now ------------- |
Posted By: Gatyr
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 6:55pm
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HTY, you kind of remind me of me(its not hard for me to get and keep
the attention of a female)....except I dont "commit" to one female at a
time...meaning I dont date. I do everything with a girl that two people
on a date might do, but next time I go out(which sadly isnt often
enough because of paintball), there is a different female. Good thing is it doesnt seem to bother them. ------------- 
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 7:02pm
Yea, I do date too often, but for me, it's not to much of a threat because I know I could easily date another one. My whole idea of a relationship is get what you can, and have another girl so you don't stupid during the break up, thats about it. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 9:33pm
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I would like to stick with one girl.. that's just how I am.
I think guys that cheat are despeciable(sp) and don't deserve one, let alone 2, girls. -------------
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 9:44pm
It's high school, I'm not looking to settle down, I'm just trying to have fun. ------------- |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 27 June 2005 at 11:26pm
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Ehh, difference between you and me. I'm not looking for someone for the rest of my life, or even through college, I just want one for the next 2 years of high school. -------------
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Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 28 June 2005 at 1:31am
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I used to date 4 girls at once. Until, one girls father died, the other got some kinda thing where she was all mad and whatnot. The other one, blah blah, then the 4rth one dumped then 3 days latter wanted to get back together, this was all in the course of 6 months or so. And it was then i remember that I BLOODY HATE STRESS! So now i stick with one girl at a time. Basicaly, a girl is a lot like a headache, or a sprained ankle, you only need one at a time. Its good and all, but sometimes, they are a hastle. Thats why i have a "Heterosexual life-mate" ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/DBibeau855/?chartstyle=myspacecolors">
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 28 June 2005 at 1:51am
| Girls are for pansys. |
Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 28 June 2005 at 2:04am
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heh....The only thing that seems to be going right for me now is my "love life". I can't believe how awesome things are going. -------------
sporx wrote: well...ya i prolly will be a virgin till i'm at least 30. |
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 28 June 2005 at 8:15am
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Sure, rub it in plenti -------------
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