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Topic: Problem.
Posted By: Heres To You
Subject: Problem.
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:31pm
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Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:33pm
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Buy her a box of chocolates, and then invite her to join in the game next time. ------------- Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo |
Posted By: You Wont See Me
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:33pm
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Tell her what happened. If you dont tell her and she finds out about it later on, it'll be much worse. |
Posted By: The American
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:35pm
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I would tell her, it would show that you don't hide things from her, and even though she would be mad that you did it, I think it would be good for the long run. Besides it would be even worse if she somehow found out about it. ------------- 
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:37pm
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The American wrote:Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:37pm
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:41pm
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And yes, the too sorry for apologies joke has already been played out without even being said yet.
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:43pm
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Don't tell her.
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:46pm
So far, I like your decision the best.... And to be as honest as possible, I'm not feeling quilty at all. Maybe I'm cold hearted, or maybe I don't care for her as much as a thought, but me and the friend mentioned above both have long-term girlfriends, and both made the same mistake, and neither one of us are very guilty. Maybe using the alcohol as an excuse is a conscience crutch I don't mind using... ------------- |
Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:48pm
For all you know she may have made that same mistake. ------------- |
Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:53pm
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I'm sure you could find some advice in the songs you listen to. Also, I bet god's pissed at you. ------------- 
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Posted By: Bunkered
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:54pm
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By hooking up, do you mean sex?
If it was just making out, I would tell her... Sex may be another story altogether. ------------- 
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:54pm
Nah, call it naive, but I guess you would just have to know her. She's probably the most trustworthy person I know, and she's still a virgin. So If she wants to blow her V card on a guy shes not even dating instead of her boyfriend of many months, then she will, but I don't think its very likely. And she doesn't party at all, So I don't have to worry about that. ------------- |
Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:56pm
Yes, it was sex. ------------- |
Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 2:56pm
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:11pm
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Oh, I thought you just meant kissed. Wow, you screwed up bad this time. Either way, she's going to find out somehow. Unless this girl loves you, unlike you, she might stick around your sorry ass and try to work things out. Personally, I hope she leaves you for the piece of crap you are. -------------
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Posted By: bluemunky
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:11pm
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If it was just making out, I would say tell her, she might get mad for
a week or so and then forget about and and your relationship is that
much stronger, but sex, keep it quiet. And don't tell any of your
friends, in case they let it slip in front of her.
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:13pm
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Wow, that was a pretty scummy thing to do. Way to be the stereo-typical teenage asshole. ------------- 
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Posted By: sneaky_sniper
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:18pm
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dont blame the alchohol when you tell her, girls dont like exscuses, tell her you had a little to much to drink and your friend convinced you to play, and that the girl pick you, you didnt pick her, and that you didnt want to but for some retarted reason you did, and then you finish the story... ------------- [IMG]http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c128/sneaky_sniper/Invader_Zim.jpg"> |
Posted By: PistolPete
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:44pm
Ummmm well I have to say you showed poor judgement and there is no easy way out. Now is the time for you to make a decision in your life to never make the same mistake again, or accept the fact your a whore.  ------------- PistolPete OMHW |
Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 3:58pm
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Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos. |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:15pm
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Hope you used a condom but since you were drunk, even if you did I doubt you used it properly...
Its a good thing everyone here is so smart to post their Myspace names so that someone can post a link to this in your girlfriend's comments on her page.... Now you dont have to tell her yourself, so yeah. That is like on the internet. Dont you just love inresponsible alcohol use? Did this chick you hooked up with look like a grandmother too? |
Posted By: NotDaveEllis
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:19pm
| You must play some really homo circle of death if one of the things is kissing. |
Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:29pm
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Emo only parties must be lame ------------- [IMG]http://i9.tinypic.com/8f3jo8l.jpg"> |
Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:31pm
Hm, Mehs and I want to believe you, but we could find no evidence. A link would be handy. ------------- 
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Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:31pm
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SANTA!
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Posted By: Boss_DJ
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:32pm
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:36pm
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Looks like another Jackson Michael is on its way! -------------
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Posted By: Lemon
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:39pm
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dont tell her
but break up with her before she finds out, for an unrelated reason and what ever you do, tell noone!! ------------- 
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:39pm
I didnt mean to imply that I was going to do it, just that it is very possible that someone will do it. Just Ask Stealth..... 
And gg on the Jackson Michael comments, I have been tempted numberous times to make references to that joke but have refrained each time. But I can still laugh when other use it. |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:42pm
I just love taking quotes out of their contexts. |
Posted By: sneaky_sniper
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:52pm
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lol, interesting way to put it, but since you had sex with her, id have to say ur screwed, ummm i recomend dont tell her, since u had sex with her ------------- [IMG]http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c128/sneaky_sniper/Invader_Zim.jpg"> |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 4:59pm
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Oh, one more thing, I also find it amusing that you came here looking for advice, asking about a topic that most members have no clue about.
It seems like your decision making skills are just as useful sober as when your drunk. |
Posted By: The American
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 5:03pm
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Well since you actually "hooked up" I wouldn't tell her, I thought maybe you just like made out or something...
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 5:56pm
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Operation: Screwjob. Now operational. -------------
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Posted By: rednekk98
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 5:57pm
| From what you've said I'm going to go against the majority opinion and say that since you did have sex with this chick, you SHOULD tell your GF. Maybe you could not mention a little bit of fooling around, but since you screwed this chick after one night of hanging out and haven't managed to have sex with your girlfriend yet, you're more obligated to tell her. Let her make the decision of wether or not she wants to blow her v-card as you call it, on some guy who'll get loaded and stick his tubesteak into sluts if she doesn't put out. You can minimize your own scumbag factor here by telling her instead of deflowering her and then having her find out she lost it to a guy who cheats on her. |
Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 5:57pm
I doubt it, I honestly don't think I'm that bad though. I've never done it before, and don't intend on doing it again. And yes Hades, a condom was used, and properly. I wasn't messed up to the point where I couldn't walk, just to the point where my decisions weren't as clear as normal. ------------- |
Posted By: Sammy
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:26pm
Definitely don't tell her if it was sex. ------------- 
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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:26pm
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stop using being drunk as an excuse, you had the opportunity to cheat on your girl and you did it. Go write a song about it. -------------
Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos. |
Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:28pm
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I cant wait for the music video :)
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:39pm
Now complete. -------------
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Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:42pm
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:43pm
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Yes, we will wait. -------------
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Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 6:44pm
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Tell her. Dont blame the alcohal, if you do shes just gonna say thats a lie yada yada yada, tell her the truth and buy her chocolate. ------------- 
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 7:18pm
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Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 7:31pm
So you suspect her of cheating? ------------- [IMG]http://i9.tinypic.com/8f3jo8l.jpg"> |
Posted By: bluemunky
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:07pm
I also found this amusing  -------------
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Posted By: Sammy
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:12pm
Many people also have the ability to imagine what decisions they might make if they are put into one of those situations. -------------
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Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:23pm
You mean the ones that know they'd whip out their glocks from their daddy's room and blast those robbers right in the face if their house was ever broken into? ------------- [IMG]http://i9.tinypic.com/8f3jo8l.jpg"> |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:35pm
Right because if you asked Heres to You, 3 days ago what he would do if playing a drinking game and had the chance to cheat on his girlfriend, if he would. I am willing to beat he would have said no. But when faced with the actual scenerio, he made the complete opposite decision. Hence the reason why there is the saying, Experience Counts. Sure you do think you are a terrible person... since you dont think what you did was so terrible, Man up and tell your lady. I would like her opinion on how terrible you are. Just because you can still walk doesnt mean you still properly used the comdom. Glad to see your better than most sober men, in the sack while you are drunk. I am starting to not believe this story... I am getting my broom out of the closet. |
Posted By: HOInfantry
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:53pm
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Heyya
A wise man once told me that, "A drunk man's actions are a sober man's thoughts" so bear that in your thoughts. More than likely, at this point, your done from what I gather. Just my experiances and thoughts
Good Luck! ------------- "HO is right..." - Procarbinefreak |
Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 8:59pm
I actually prefer that, don't believe it. And Ced and PB, quit wasting your time. She doesn't believe you. ------------- |
Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:07pm
You should be more honest to your girl. I have that thread still open before you deleted it. ------------- [IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/1538fbc.jpg"> Squeeze Box ☣ |
Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:09pm
Razor blades at the door. ------------- 
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Posted By: Heres To You
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:11pm
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I'm sure you do Mehs, and she's seen them. PB and Ced did it before you. Never underestimate the power of lonely 14 year olds. She doesn't believe them, and shes not going to. ------------- |
Posted By: Funky
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:18pm
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Heh, wow, I feel sorry for you.. and her... geeze, poor girl.. poor naive girl.. ------------- 
"Don't you hate pants?" |
Posted By: Hoytshooter
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:28pm
Theres one thing worse than a theif, and thats a liar, I have absolutly NO more respect for u. so go shoot yourself or acctually tell her what u did, your lucky if she takes your sorry ass back. ------------- I shoot a Hoyt http://img414.imageshack.us/my.php?image=theusgovrnsucks6xn.png"> 
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Posted By: PaintballkidEPS
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:33pm
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i have discovered from a friend that if ur trying to apolagize (or however you spell it) and buy a girl chocolates they may ask you if u think they are fat or something along those lines |
Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:40pm
I'm less lonely than you! ------------- [IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/1538fbc.jpg"> Squeeze Box ☣ |
Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:43pm
| How old is old is his girlfriend and how old is he? |
Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:44pm
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She's not too bright either way.
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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:49pm
It's the truth... Take it from me 
Luckly, Broken was sweet enough to take me back. Face it like a man is my advice, tell her... if she leaves you she leaves you, if she does'nt then your that much stronger. Dont **edited** foot around like a coward. When a history issue came up with me and broken I called her and then drove to her house to talk... Honesty is the best policy. |
Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:53pm
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His girlfriend is 14, he is 18. -------------
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Posted By: Santa Chewp
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 9:58pm
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No wonder she's so smart!
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 10:01pm
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Why am I wasting my time with this? This just got really retarded......
Since when is it cool for Seniors to hang out at Jr high schools? I thought that was just a dave thing to do.... Just think 4 years ago she was 10... Hmmm. I can still taste the baby powder from her diaper changes. |
Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 04 December 2005 at 10:05pm
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That fact alone that he's a freaking pansy should be enough to drop him Hades.
You just want him when he dies so you can show him what he deserves. |
Posted By: DBibeau855
Date Posted: 05 December 2005 at 4:45am
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Wow. Now you know, dont cheat on your woman, doing so will just screw you over. Now instead of one girl, soon enough, you will no girl. Sucks for you. Every guy needs to run around on a girl atleast once in his life to get it in his that cheating sucks, even for the cheater, i did this, now i dont have any thought like that in my head, at all.
I cant tell you weather or not to tell her, thats completely on you. ------------- http://www.last.fm/user/DBibeau855/?chartstyle=myspacecolors"> 
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 05 December 2005 at 9:57am
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Hm, I feel sorry for her. She is so damn clueless.
You, on the other hand, are pathetic. -------------
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Posted By: cadet_sergeant
Date Posted: 05 December 2005 at 10:19am
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my sugestion is to tell her. |