the girlfriend smokes
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Topic: the girlfriend smokes
Posted By: Benjichang
Subject: the girlfriend smokes
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:27pm
My girlfriend smokes. I never thought it would bother me at first, but after 8 months, it's really starting to get to me. I'd really like her to quit, but I know the choice ultimately lies with her. I don't want to break up with her. I don't want to try to change her, but it's been bothering me to no end. We've really been moving into a serious relationship over the last few months, but every time I bring up smoking, she just gets pissed off. I tried telling her how I felt today, and she ended up walking away. I really don't know what to do. If this relationship is going to go anywhere, I can't be living with a smoker. Advice?
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:31pm
Stick it in a place she'll find it.
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:33pm
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My last gf smoked. I didnt know till after we started going out. We went out for lunch with some friends. One started smoking, then she started too, and I was like "wait...you smoke???"
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:33pm
choopie911 wrote:
My last gf smoked. I didnt know till after we started going out. We went out for lunch with some friends. One started smoking, then she started too, and I was like "wait...you smoke???" | How'd that go over?
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:36pm
What type of smoking? I just need to be clear because I can only provide expertise in one type of smoking.
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:36pm
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Meh, it was a doomed relationship in the first place. She really wanted to go out with me, I just thought she was attractive. Eventually I just went with "why the hell not" and asked her out. It was pretty weak on both accounts, so we just went back to hanging out like we used to. As cliche as it is, we truely get along better when we're just friends. I'm her prom date though, so w/e
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:37pm
Hitman wrote:
What type of smoking? I just need to be clear because I can only provide expertise in one type of smoking.
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Pole?
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:37pm
That's the one.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:38pm
Hitman wrote:
What type of smoking? I just need to be clear because I can only provide expertise in one type of smoking.
| Cigarettes. Occasional pot smoking doesn't bother me, since I smoke a bit here and there. (and so does my girlfriend) Smoking cigarettes on a daily basis is what I'm talking about. It's gross.
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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:40pm
You can't change people.
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 6:42pm
Yeah.. I wouldn't try. Cigarettes on occasion aren't bad but daily is over doing it in my books.
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Posted By: Snipa69
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:07pm
My last girlfriend did cocaine. I didn't know until we were dating as well. I broke up with her when she told me she wasn't gonna stop. It's not worth being in a relationship where one pesron gives and the other only takes.
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:31pm
Snipa69 wrote:
My last girlfriend did cocaine. I didn't know until we were dating as well. I broke up with her when she told me she wasn't gonna stop. It's not worth being in a relationship where one pesron gives and the other only takes. |
Aye, smart move.
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:33pm
ayo for yayo walkin round with yayo all in my nasal i musta been crazed yo.
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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:37pm
Benjichang wrote:
Occasional pot smoking doesn't bother me, since I smoke a bit here and there. | Not gonna start on pot.. dont wanna detract from the topic.. but:
If you smoke pot.. then why do you care if she smokes cigs?
Thats like a Cop saying dont do something, and they do something almost exactly the same...
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:40pm
Bugg wrote:
Benjichang wrote:
Occasional pot smoking doesn't bother
me, since I smoke a bit here and there. | Not gonna start on
pot.. dont wanna detract from the topic.. but:
If you smoke pot.. then why do you care if she smokes cigs?
Thats like a Cop saying dont do something, and they do something almost exactly the same... |
Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong
You're never going to see someone lighting up a joint every 20 minutes and craving more and more everyday.
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:52pm
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Joints aren't addictive, they give you a high, and they(IMO) are easier to get the smell off then cigarettes
I hate cigarette smell more then anything.
Cigarettes smell, and are more addictive then heroine(spelling?), they don't even give you a high either, until you're addicted so much you need one to "relax," which is all mental IMO.
Both are ridiculously expensive... more so weed then cig's.
But i would break up w/ her if she's not willing to at least talk about it, that's selfish, immature, and pretty much shows she cares all about herself and couldn't give a rats *** about you.
Now if she's willing to change, it'll take time, like maybe a cigarette less a day(donno how much she smokes). Nicarette helps a lot too.
Good luck man.
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Posted By: Enos Shenk
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:02pm
First you need to find out if she actually wants to quit and is scared to go about it.
I quit cold turkey a few years ago, it wasnt near as bad as I expected. I waited until I caught the usual winter flu, and just dropped it cold turkey. I was already feeling crappy from being sick, so I didnt even notice withdrawl or anything. By the time the flu was gone, I was done with smoking.
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Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:06pm
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My girlfriend smokes. I smoke. But its only on occasion like 1 or 2 a week.
How much does your girlfriend smoke?
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:30pm
Enos Shenk wrote:
First you need to find out if she actually wants to quit and is scared to go about it.
I quit cold turkey a few years ago, it wasnt near as bad as I expected. I waited until I caught the usual winter flu, and just dropped it cold turkey. I was already feeling crappy from being sick, so I didnt even notice withdrawl or anything. By the time the flu was gone, I was done with smoking.
| She says she's going to quit once we're out of school, which won't be for 4 more years (6 year program). I have a hard time believing her. She says she does it for the stress, but life doesn't get any less stressful once you're out of school. It get's worse.
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Posted By: You Wont See Me
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:37pm
I could never date a chick that smoked.
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:37pm
Kill her.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:42pm
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
Kill her. | Hey now. What happened to nonviolence? 
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:43pm
Maim her.
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Posted By: choopie911
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:50pm
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put firecrackers in ALL of her cigaretts. Or anytime she lights a cig, splash the nearest liquid on hand to put it out.
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:57pm
I'm with TKD. Put her into a dirt nap
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Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:58pm
You Wont See Me wrote:
I could never date a chick that smoked.
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Posted By: Mephistopheles
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:08pm
My suggestion.
Start smoking.
You can share everything together then.
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:12pm
You need to provide her with something else to stick in her mouth and suck on to satisfy her oral fixation and hand to mouth habit.
Good luck thinking of what that can be.....
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:12pm
Bugg wrote:
Benjichang wrote:
Occasional pot smoking doesn't bother me, since I smoke a bit here and there. | Not gonna start on pot.. dont wanna detract from the topic.. but:
If you smoke pot.. then why do you care if she smokes cigs?
Thats like a Cop saying dont do something, and they do something almost exactly the same... |
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:14pm
Alright. I just got off the phone with her. (she called me) She just told me that she's not going to smoke around me anymore, except when she's been drinking and when she's studying for a big exam or something. I guess that's a step in the right direction. At least she's cutting back. I still wish she would quit straight up.
Hades wrote:
You need to provide her with something else to stick in her mouth and
suck on to satisfy her oral fixation and hand to mouth habit.
Good luck thinking of what that can be..... |
Don't worry about that. It gets taken care of.
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:20pm
Awesome, smoking while drinking, HUGE turn-on. Dude, thats not a step in the right direction at all. She's still gonna taste like cigarettes when you kiss her.
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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:23pm
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2 addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to live.
Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but addiction does exist.
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Posted By: Mephistopheles
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:26pm
Well so what. Damn non-smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're going to live forever.
Here's a press release from the AP. You ready non-smokers? Drum roll.....
Non-smoker die every day.
Sleep tight!
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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:31pm
Mephistopheles wrote:
Well so what. Damn non-smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're going to live forever.
Here's a press release from the AP. You ready non-smokers? Drum roll.....
Non-smoker die every day.
Sleep tight! | Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke.
Here's a press release from the AP. You ready smokers? Drum roll......
Smokers die sooner than non-smokers
Sleep tighter!
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Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:34pm
why does it bother you so much? As long as she brush's her teeth and
uses mouth wash I don't see a problem, all my last G/F's have been
smokers, it will bother you for a little while because "you" don't
smoke, but out of the blue, ask them for one. heh.. you sometimes get a
wierd reaction or handed one, and if you 'really' care for her, this
shouldn't get in the way to much, if it REALLY digs at you, then unless
she quits over night, this will start the cause of your Breakup... (the
start of arguments etc...) and if she 'really' cares for you any, she
will put atleast a little thought into it, or make an attempt to
quit... all I can say is... Deal with it man... If it's enough to
break up with her over it, then it really wasn't ment to last.
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:34pm
Bugg wrote:
Mephistopheles wrote:
Well so what. Damn non-smokers have
this euphoric fixation that you're going to live forever.
Here's a press release from the AP. You ready non-smokers? Drum roll.....
Non-smoker die every day.
Sleep tight! | Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke.
Here's a press release from the AP. You ready smokers? Drum roll......
Smokers die sooner than non-smokers
Sleep tighter! |
Press realease for the AP
Non-smokers die in car accidents before smokers.
Smoke up!
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:37pm
Normally, I avoid ladies that smoke (since down here in Hell the smoking ladies are usually the ones that God just fried with a lightning bolt) but there is a lady in two of my night classes that I am pretty sure is a smoker, I am willing to overlook that fact since she is pretty darn cute. We'll see how things go.
If you cant stand it, you cant stand it. There are millions of ladies out there, dont think your forever stuck with this one.
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Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:40pm
you know who die sooner then Smokers, Drunk Drivers, Drug users,
Depressed people, people who have an STD, Hypachondriacs, and those 5
types of people basically cover 30% of American population.
Hell my Grandma was a Smoker for 60years, and she didn't get lung
cancer or die from a Smoke 'related' death, she died due to old
age(82). 
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:47pm
danieljk wrote:
Awesome, smoking while drinking, HUGE turn-on. Dude, thats not a step in the right direction at all. She's still gonna taste like cigarettes when you kiss her. | If she's smoking less, I'm happy.
To panda man: It bothers me because it's gross. Nearly all my friends smoke except me. I hate going anywhere out to eat with them and coming home reeking of cigarettes when I never smoked one. It's a stupid habit. It is detrimental to health, and there's no reason for it.
I hate the smoker mentality of : "Well, I'm gonna die someday, might as well smoke." It's just all over dumb.
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:50pm
well, I'm gonna die someday, might as well shoot up.
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:51pm
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Bugg wrote:
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2 addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to live.
Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but addiction does exist. |
Well I'll be damned.
Not only is Linus a political scientist , he is a health expert now too!
Tell me, where did you go to medschool at?
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Posted By: Bugg
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:01pm
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2 addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to live. Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but addiction does exist. |
Well I'll be damned.
Not only is Linus a political scientist , he is a health expert now too!
Tell me, where did you go to medschool at? | It's called DEA.gov
Go there.. you might learn soemthing from ACTUAL expert.. rather then your imagination.
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Posted By: Snipa69
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:02pm
Most people say 'Well it's only cutting off the bad years!' which is bull. It cuts out the middle years (the good ones) and just brings the bad years even sooner.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:02pm
Bugg wrote:
It's called DEA.gov
Go there.. you might learn soemthing from ACTUAL expert.. rather then your imagination.
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yeah because you're going to get an unbiased account from the Drug Enforcement Administration...
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Posted By: rednekk98
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:06pm
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See if you can get her to at least smoke outdoors and ban it totally in the car. That's the worst. My gf smokes occasionally, usually only when she drinks, I hate it, so she usually doesn't smoke.
I'm not big on dictating somebody else's behavior. I have made it know that I did not like the fact that she had done cocaine, but when I don't forbid her from doing it again, she doesn't understand why it upsets me when I leave her to make her own decisions then judge her on those, instead of just ordering her around like a "normal man" would. If I've learned anything about women from my gf, it's that you should forbid her from smoking and beat her when she doesn't comply, like a real man. If you prefer a more subtle approach, read Quitters Inc. by Stephen King.
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Posted By: Tae Kwon Do
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:08pm
Bugg wrote:
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2 addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to live. Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but addiction does exist. |
Well I'll be damned.
Not only is Linus a political scientist , he is a health expert now too!
Tell me, where did you go to medschool at?
| It's called DEA.gov
Go there.. you might learn soemthing from ACTUAL expert.. rather then your imagination. |
Go to any credible medical source.
Pot is not chemically addictive.
To take a cliche line from your own bag, "Come on and just try and argue me."
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:10pm
My girlfriend quit smoking for me....
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Posted By: Darur
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:11pm
Bugg wrote:
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2 addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to live. Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but addiction does exist. |
Well I'll be damned.
Not only is Linus a political scientist , he is a health expert now too!
Tell me, where did you go to medschool at? | It's called DEA.gov
Go there.. you might learn soemthing from ACTUAL expert.. rather then your imagination. |
Acctually Bugg, I wouldnt really use the DEA as a source. I've had a change of attidude towards marijuana, I'd rather it be legalized then tobacco. Unfortunetly I dont have sources off the top of my head, but from what I've read from both sides studies suggest that it may acctually increase brain growth. Its also not physically addictive (though it can be phsycologically addicitive, but hell, so can eating cake). Also, I beleive the average user doesnt smoke 20 joints a day, so despite the greater amount of tar and other chemicals its a little safer. Plus, according to another site it was only banned because it was damaging tobacco sales and at the time the AMA was protesting its ban.
Still, the whole shrinking of the testicles doesnt appeal to me. I dont like drugs but marijuana is less evil in my book.
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:14pm
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drugs suck. i know this girl whos really nice, and she'd probably be a good mom, shes got excellent mothering skills (its like an instinct i guess, she doesnt have kids though, shes 17) and she got into drugs and stuff and its really messing her up. i dont even talk to her anymore, i just couldnt take it. i think its too bad that drug dealers and users get any slack at all in any kind of case of law (if they rat someone bigger out, mainly aimed for dealers)
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:16pm
Hey Darur, good call.
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Posted By: NiQ-Toto
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:21pm
So either break up with her, or deal with the smoking. You say you dont want her to smoke, but that you dont want to change her. Hypocrite much?
Myeah, if you guys break up and she still needs someone who doesnt care if she smokes, send her my way. I could use a hummer every now and then.
And i dont even taste the ciggarettes on girls that smoke, so pfft.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:23pm
Meh. Niq- What I meant by not wanting to change her was, I'd rather persuade her than threaten to break up with her or something dumb like that. We're not breaking up. I care about her enough to stay with her even if she smokes. It's just been getting to me lately.
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:26pm
Wasn't the reefer band because DuPont wanted to control the paper industry? Or atleast, thats part of the reason?
Saying pot is physcologically addictive doesn't mean anything. I'll bet the most addivtive thing on this planet is chewing gum. If you think about it, it's terrible for your health, more specifically teeth. Unless you only chew sugar free. Gum is pretty pointless, you chew it and spit it out.
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:29pm
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plus when you chew gum your sending messages to your stomach taht your eating something even though your not, bc you have the gum in your mouth. when this happens the stomach starts producing acid to break down what it thinks is going to be food, and when nothing goes into your stomach, the acid forms ulcers after a while. health clas rocks.
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Posted By: bravecoward
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:38pm
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Who the hell let Darur out?
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Posted By: Hitman
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:40pm
I got mentally addicted to pot last semester and failed math and just passed physics wtih a 52.
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Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 10:41pm
bravecoward wrote:
Who the hell let Darur out?
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:14pm
PlentifulBalls wrote:
Wasn't the reefer band because DuPont wanted to control the paper industry? Or atleast, thats part of the reason?
Saying pot is physcologically addictive doesn't mean anything. I'll bet the most addivtive thing on this planet is chewing gum. If you think about it, it's terrible for your health, more specifically teeth. Unless you only chew sugar free. Gum is pretty pointless, you chew it and spit it out.
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/me pops a piece in my mouth. Orbit's sugarfree though.
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Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:15pm
Bugg wrote:
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Cedric wrote:
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's
like comparing alcohol to water. | Kinda stupid to compare 2
addictive drugs to an addictive drug and something that's required to
live. Marijuana IS addictive. Now, it all depends on the person to how
much control you have over it, just like cigs and alcohol, but
addiction does exist. |
Well I'll be damned.
Not only is Linus a political scientist , he is a health expert now too!
Tell me, where did you go to medschool at? | It's called DEA.gov
Go there.. you might learn soemthing from ACTUAL expert.. rather then your imagination. |
Wow that's not a biased source.
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Posted By: blackdog144
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:15pm
drugs, and ciggaretts...im going to stay away from them forever...but a
beer here and there when im 21...thats alright i guess...but im staying
away from drugs period...
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:16pm
blackdog144 wrote:
drugs, and ciggaretts...im going to stay away from them forever...but a
beer here and there when im 21...thats alright i guess...but im staying
away from drugs period...
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Posted By: Snipa69
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:18pm
Alcohol repulses me. I can't stand to drink that stuff. I used to do it, but it's been over a year since I have. I don't know what i was thinking.
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Posted By: blackdog144
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:18pm
Benjichang wrote:
blackdog144 wrote:
drugs, and ciggaretts...im going to stay away from them forever...but a
beer here and there when im 21...thats alright i guess...but im staying
away from drugs period...
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i meant as not use them...of course...plus im 3 years away from collage
at the least...and im not around drugs at my school or anywhere around
here so...im good for now i guess...
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:21pm
Panda Man wrote:
bravecoward wrote:
Who let Darur out?
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Posted By: tecumseh
Date Posted: 06 April 2006 at 11:36pm
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Hades wrote:
Panda Man wrote:
bravecoward wrote:
Who let Darur out?
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Who, Who, Who, Whoh? |
who let darur out?
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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 12:30am
Never drank in my life, Never smoked, or done any drugs.
Never plan to, Maybe Wine... Someday.
Disgusting, Lowly habit, that just proves the weakness of the individual, and overall charactet of that person.
Go get a high from running... And stop blowing hot air.
As for your girlfriend, Just keep trying man, if she means enough to you, stick with it.
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 12:40am
*Stealth* wrote:
Go get a high from running... And stop blowing hot air.
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Running isn't fun at all.
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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 12:48am
Cedric wrote:
*Stealth* wrote:
Go get a high from running... And stop blowing hot air.
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Running isn't fun at all. |
it is, Under certian conditions.
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:24am
*Stealth* wrote:
Cedric wrote:
*Stealth* wrote:
Go get a high from running... And stop blowing hot air.
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Running isn't fun at all. |
it is, Under certian conditions. |
Under the condition you aren't running.
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Posted By: impulse!
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:28am
I smoked hookah today.
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Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 2:54am
Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 7:20am
Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:46am
Mehs wrote:
Nutmeg is where it's at.
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pfffft... Cat Nip is where its really at.
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Posted By: BearClaw
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:38am
I love smokeing and i KNOW it is ABSOULTLY not deprimental to my health in any way.
I smoked the tires on my old truck all the time and im fine     .
HEHEHEHE. Naw never did drugss never smoked and never been a
heavy
drinker AND NEVER WILL. And im past Highschool and College
LONG AGO dont try useing that crap as an excuse your just WEAK.
Hell some of my friends
through schooll dealt drugs and most of em smoked. And if you even
LOOKED at a cigerett any were NEAR my car youd be walkin home.
Personally i wont even take perscrition drugs or pain killers (that
**edited** only makes you weaker).
As for the girl smokein well to be honest their aint nothing we can say
to make it better, ITs a desition you gotta figure out. All i can
say is sometimes being a nice guy gets ya no were.
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Posted By: PAINTBALL1
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:40am
i get my high from intimate encounters with my girlfriend... better than any drug in the world. and she doesnt smoke. She did when we first started going together. Not daily but maybe a couple times a week, and i just let her know i how felt about and blah blah blah.. and she quit. So i dont know, just talk to her about it, you just have to weigh the situation and see whats more important her smoking or your relationship.
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Posted By: XenoSabre
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:18am
People who smoke smell like ass. There's no getting around it. after the second or third cigarette of the day, they reek. Now if you want to walk around and smell like ass then more power to you. All of my friends smoke, I'm the only one in the group that doesn't. They don't know they smell like ass. But I do. For this, I ridicule them daily.
As far as I'm concerned, people who smoke heavily fall into the same category as people who don't bathe. If they want to do it, whatever. but don't get pissed off because the rest of society makes fun of you.
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Posted By: rdcisneros3
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 12:51pm
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Using college as an excuse for drinking/smoking/doing drugs is an excuse for weakness and lack of personal willpower. I went through high school, 2 years of college and 4 years in the Marine Corps and never smoked a cigarette or tried any drugs. I drank socially, but never heavily. You get nothing from smoking or doing drugs except bad breath as Xeno noted above.
If you don't mind her breath smelling like something died in her throat then stay with her. I personally don't see how a non-smoker could possibly be with a smoker....unless she's Britney Spears.
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Posted By: Mephistopheles
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:00pm
Bugg wrote:
Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke |
What have you been smokin?
Smokers acknowledge and even joke about dying sooner. At least the smokers aren't going to be the ones in the adult diapers eating baby food sucking on the social security teet and downing 15 pounds of pills just so they can live another day. If you can consider that "living." I'm sure you would.
Sucks for you guys getting that second hand smoke cuz the stuff we're suckin up.... it's steak and eggs, baby!
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Posted By: Mephistopheles
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:08pm
*Stealth* wrote:
Go get a high from running... |
Like who, Jim Fixx?
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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:13pm
I love how three people joined the weakness bandwagon.
/score.
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Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:37pm
I say dump her, girls are a dime a dozen.
Cedric wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Benjichang wrote:
Occasional pot smoking doesn't bother me, since I smoke a bit here and there. | Not gonna start on pot.. dont wanna detract from the topic.. but:
If you smoke pot.. then why do you care if she smokes cigs?
Thats like a Cop saying dont do something, and they do something almost exactly the same... |
Marijuana and tobacco are two completely different substances. That's like comparing alcohol to water. | I drink alcohol like water
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:38pm
Aldous Huxley wrote:
Who lives longer: the man who takes heroin for two years and dies, or the man who lives on roast beef, water and potatoes till ninety-five? One passes his twenty-four months in eternity. All the years of the beef-eater are lived only in time.
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I always liked that quote.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:41pm
Cedric wrote:
Aldous Huxley wrote:
Who lives longer: the man who takes heroin for two years and dies, or the man who lives on roast beef, water and potatoes till ninety-five? One passes his twenty-four months in eternity. All the years of the beef-eater are lived only in time.
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I always liked that quote. | I've never heard it. It's interesting.
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 1:42pm
It's like, Hey, I'm gonna go out and get some heroin and live. But wait, I saw Requiem for a dream and trainspotting!
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 3:17pm
Mephistopheles wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke |
What have you been smokin? | Next time, try not to take my post out of context.
In my post I was doing the exact same set-up that the other guy was using to diss on non-smokers.
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 4:58pm
Linus wrote:
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
<FONT face=Arial size=2>Go to any credible medical source.Pot is not chemically addictive. To take a cliche line from your own bag, "Come on and just try and argue me."
| I never said it was chemically addictive... but it causes physical dependence in people. |
How is that not chemically addictive??
Either way, Marijuana isn't a proven addictive drug, people like the feeling of the high and they just say "I feel like getting high right now," but they don't HAVE to, they're not addicted, it's a personal choice that they could back out of any time they felt like.
I think smoking is just weak... especially at my age(15, high school). Kids my age are addicted to cigarettes, just b/c they wanted to act cool and mature, so when they get caught they can brag about it. If you be what everyone else is, you're just like them, which is lame in my opinion.... like emo's, they all want to be noticed, and all want to be different, but they all end up the same. They say how crappy their live's are while they sit on a couch in a huge home w/ every gaming system and their parents running out to get them girl pants and whatnot(for the guys)... having a divorced mom supporting two sons and having cancer 3 times, SUCKS, but i don't let it get me down and i'm always happy.
So if you smoke, i have no respect for you, you're weak, flat out. So I say dump your girlfriend man. Don't let her have power over you, b/c then you'll smell just as bad as she is b/c you're going to be hanging around her.
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 5:13pm
danieljk wrote:
Linus wrote:
Tae Kwon Do wrote:
<FONT face=Arial size=2>Go to any credible medical source.Pot is not chemically addictive. To take a cliche line from your own bag, "Come on and just try and argue me."
| I never said it was chemically addictive... but it causes physical dependence in people. |
How is that not chemically addictive??
Either way, Marijuana isn't a proven addictive drug, people like the feeling of the high and they just say "I feel like getting high right now," but they don't HAVE to, they're not addicted, it's a personal choice that they could back out of any time they felt like.
I think smoking is just weak... especially at my age(15, high school). Kids my age are addicted to cigarettes, just b/c they wanted to act cool and mature, so when they get caught they can brag about it. If you be what everyone else is, you're just like them, which is lame in my opinion.... like emo's, they all want to be noticed, and all want to be different, but they all end up the same. They say how crappy their live's are while they sit on a couch in a huge home w/ every gaming system and their parents running out to get them girl pants and whatnot(for the guys)... having a divorced mom supporting two sons and having cancer 3 times, SUCKS, but i don't let it get me down and i'm always happy.
So if you smoke, i have no respect for you, you're weak, flat out. So I say dump your girlfriend man. Don't let her have power over you, b/c then you'll smell just as bad as she is b/c you're going to be hanging around her. |
Yeah, don't listen to this kid.
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 7:23pm
who me?
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Posted By: You Wont See Me
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 7:30pm
Yes you
Couldnt be
Then who?
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 7:45pm
All my facts are fine, none of them are wrong in anyway.
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Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 7:54pm
You Wont See Me wrote:
Yes you
Couldnt be
Then who?
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CEDRIC hid the crack pipe in the cookie jar!
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-FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011.
Yup, he actually said that.
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Posted By: Sairen Blitz
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:00pm
Mephistopheles wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke |
What have you been smokin?
Smokers acknowledge and even joke about dying sooner. At least the smokers aren't going to be the ones in the adult diapers eating baby food sucking on the social security teet and downing 15 pounds of pills just so they can live another day. If you can consider that "living." I'm sure you would.
Sucks for you guys getting that second hand smoke cuz the stuff we're suckin up.... it's steak and eggs, baby! | alright, then what about the terrible smell, the hacking cough, standing outside in the cold while smoking because youre not alowwed inside, the cost and the list goes on.....the benefits are?
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Posted By: dmp4892.
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:41pm
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Sairen Blitz wrote:
Mephistopheles wrote:
Bugg wrote:
Well so what. Damn smokers have this euphoric fixation that you're not gonna die sooner if you smoke |
What have you been smokin?
Smokers acknowledge and even joke about dying sooner. At least the smokers aren't going to be the ones in the adult diapers eating baby food sucking on the social security teet and downing 15 pounds of pills just so they can live another day. If you can consider that "living." I'm sure you would.
Sucks for you guys getting that second hand smoke cuz the stuff we're suckin up.... it's steak and eggs, baby! | alright, then what about the terrible smell, the hacking cough, standing outside in the cold while smoking because youre not alowwed inside, the cost and the list goes on.....the benefits are? |
You look cool while doing it.
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Posted By: Smitty
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:55pm
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Smoking = Discusting in my opinion. Especially girls who smoke. It's just gross. No positive that comes out of it.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:22pm
Cedric wrote:
Yeah, don't listen to this kid. | I'm definately not. I can't tell which he hates more, smokers or emo kids... Probably the worst advice ever. I am in no way going to break up with her. I knew she smoked before we dated, it's my fault really.
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:56pm
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ive heard mixed things about weed, like i said before i dont really care either which way, i dont do it. i know someone who smokes everyday (i dont know if she really does or not) and she says its addictive, while someone else i know is a recreational user so to speak and says its not. who knows
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Posted By: danieljk
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:21am
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It's all about the amount of control each person has...
Sry about earlier, i had just lost in a game of bball, so i was mad.... I thoroughly apollo-jize for my inconvenient behavior.
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Posted By: Hades
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 6:08pm
For those people that saw smokers stink, how about getting a whiff of your breath every morning when you wake up.
I'd take a smoker anyday.
I find it ammusing that non-smokers some how think their "poop" dont stink.
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Posted By: *Stealth*
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 8:49pm
I think if you get cancer three times, You cant treate it any more?
Correct me if i'm wrong, I thought if it came back the first time you were pretty much screwed?
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