Oh wow, I’m staving off panic right now..
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Topic: Oh wow, I’m staving off panic right now..
Posted By: .Ryan
Subject: Oh wow, I’m staving off panic right now..
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:20pm
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So my girlfriend has been sick for like a week. I hadn't seen her for like 4 days, because her mom always knows what's best for both of us, until today when we got to hang out for a while becuase she ~thought~ she was better. Anyway, she got sick again and I had to go home. Well, that was fine 'cause we've both been sick before and I can deal with not seeing her and all, but about 20 minutes ago she called me and said that she went back to the hospital and her mom is making her take a pregnancy test because she "knows" we've done stuff and she thinks that might be why she's sick....AND THAT'S ALL I GOT. I'm 18 and she's 17, we've been together for around 2 and a half years, I'm in college, and we are definately not at a good spot to be having a kid. I know if she's pregnant it's our fault and I need to do what I need to do but I'm seriously freaking out. Just the fact that her mom "knows" we've done stuff could really screw us up majorly. I don't know what the results are or anything so it's just blind panic but it's bad....Cross your fingers or give advice or whatever, I just had to get that out....
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:22pm
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Eeeek. Good luck man seriously. Did you not wrap it up or something?
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Posted By: 636andy636.
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:28pm
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Get her a smoothie with a morning after pill in it, problem solved if she is pregnant ------------- [IMG]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v291/anthonymartinez/402cdjo-1.gif"> |
Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:30pm
| that sucks dude....well if shes 17 i assume that shes a senior in high school soon to be 18...when shes 18 her mom cant really do anything besides of disowning her so youll be able to see her at least....good luck though man |
Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:30pm
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If she's pregnant, by the time she's sick it's already too late. Morning after pill is a godsend though- my girl and I had to do that once after a rubber broke. Best of luck, Ryan- here's hoping she's jsut a bit sick and will get over it. ------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
Posted By: paintbusta
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:34pm
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shes been wit other men i know ------------- 
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Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:35pm
And the award for 'least reassuring post' goes to... ------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
GI JOES SON wrote:Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:37pm
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No, just turned 17, still screwed for a year. And if she is pregnant, I'm taking care of the kid. I don't like abortion and it's too late for a morning after pill.... God, I don't care if she is 17, she's not living in the home she lives in with my kid in/with her....I have no problem staying with her, we're basically engaged, but her family is absolutely wacked and they live in a craphole. And her dad smokes.....this could be so bad... ------------- |
Posted By: Smitty
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:48pm
| Good luck. That's why you wait until you're married man. Never risk it. I know I'll get flamed for this or something of the sort, but it's good advice. |
Posted By: High Voltage
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:54pm
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i was gonna make a jab at your political stance, but i'm not that big of an asshole. good luck, hope she's not pregnant for your sake. if she is, however, glad to hear you say you will be there to take care of the kid. ------------- 
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Posted By: cadet_sergeant
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 10:54pm
| just wait for the test to come back, dont freak out, she may or may not be. if she is then freak out if not take it as a learning experiance. |
Posted By: Sammy
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:07pm
I would advise to not go that way. A 17 and 18 year old living together, with a baby, without an education, trying to support each other will not work. |
Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:08pm
It's doable. I know a few people whoa re pulling it off. ------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:08pm
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I wish you the best .Ryan. I hope the test is negative. Just be strong. ------------- 
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:09pm
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Smitty: You're probably right. I'd say it probably easier said than done though. Not to mention hindsight is 20/20 HV: My politics are more mixed than you might think. Thanks for being cool though. CS: I'm tryin man. It's hard though. And I usually prefer that my learning experiences not completely alter my life.... Sammy: I don't care if we have to live with my grandparents for a while, I hate that she has to live like that. I wont allow my kid to. Everyone else: Thanks for the support, it actually means a lot. Man, I'm tired too. I actually think it's a defense mechanism I've developed, I get tired when I get stressed. But yeah, it sucks, I have to wait up for her call.... ------------- |
Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:16pm
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:20pm
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its good that your owning up to it man, a lot of people would just walk out or something, i commend you big time for that.....its also good that your looking out for your gf's and kids best interest |
Posted By: hwayhzrd
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:23pm
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Wow man, that's a scary situation. BTDT, but fortunately, the scare was a false alarm. Hope it works out to be nothing as serious as you fear. ------------- If I flee, kill me If I die, avenge me |
Posted By: cadet_sergeant
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:28pm
| Believe it or not Ryan i was named the father of my exgirlfriends baby. i was with her for almost 2 years, any ways i had left her and over spring break of 10th grade (about 5 month after i left her) i got a call from her telling me she was pregnant... freakin great. i told my mom, she freaked and almost killed me. any way July 10 2004 she was born (thats also my birthday) any way i went and saw her the next day in the hospital (i hadnt seen her since we broke up) any way the leagal crap started with blood testing, it was now end of winter/ begining for spring 2005, i had gone to parenting classes that the state forced me to go to, any way i was in D.C. last spring break and i got a call from my mom, results where back i wasnt the father (thank God) i havent had sex since (about 2 1/2 years). the other guy she claims it could be is some how dodging taking a test, not sure how. |
Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:36pm
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Wow man, hardcore...I'm pretty positive that, if she's pregnant, it's mine though. We spend like 99% of our time together and she is totally not the type to sleep around. She's almost scared of a lot of guys....I kinda think that would kill me as much as if I did all of the sudden have a kid too...
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Posted By: Clark Kent
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:39pm
| Sucks dude. Hope it works out. |
Posted By: pntbl freak
Date Posted: 07 April 2006 at 11:49pm
| Best of luck to you no matter what happens. |
Posted By: Dye Playa
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 12:45am
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damn.sorry to hear it. ------------- 
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 12:55am
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Yeah well, I might find out sometime tonight....Thanks a lot for the concern y'all, I'll let ya know how it turns out....
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Posted By: mjicmike
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:14am
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I hope everything turns out ok. If she is pregnant, it will be harder on both of you guys just trying to make it work. Hopefully you guys get some support from family if she is. Trying to raise a child these days are harder especially if you are young parents who are not established(good education/job). Good luck and hope that she is not pregnant. ------------- A5 Rfs Dwg triggr Ricochet R5 8"Lapco Bigsht/14"CP Classic Palmers Stab. Lapco uni-mount DOP bullet drop fwd PMI 88/4500 Woods Flatline/14"Lapco Bigsht CMI Thunder pig reg. Remote adj. stk |
Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:16am
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I think my night may have been worse than yours. -------------
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:29am
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:31am
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For real.
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Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:39am
It was. |
Posted By: Snipa69
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 2:52am
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I feel for you and hope everything works out, but I gotta say it; you shouldn't have to worry about this as much if you wrap it up and use birth control. I wont tell you not to have sex, cause if someone told me that i'd laugh in their face but be smart about it if your gonna do it when your not ready to support a family. ------------- http://imageshack.us - [IMG - http://img456.imageshack.us/img456/857/sig9ac6cs1mj.jpg - |
Posted By: procarbinefreak
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 3:49am
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abort abort!!!!! but for real... good luck... hope she isn't preggo. |
Posted By: Enos Shenk
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 5:05am
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I dunno, I hope it all works out for you, but really Ive never had much sympathy for unplanned pregnancy. Theres just so many ways of birth control theres no excuse not to use it. Dont be a silly, put a dilly on your willy. ------------- 
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Posted By: PBalla2242
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 9:36am
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so you're an unmotivated, broke, sickly guy with a potnetially unplanned parenthood? you need more than just a "good luck."
...honestly, i don't really know how you could accidently get a chick pregnant, it's just too easy to avoid it (unless you don't know what youre doing). sorry, I guess all i can say is be more careful and i hope you can support the kid (even though i doubt it'll end up bad). ------------- 
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Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 10:33am
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I hope everything turns out for the best. I have walked in those shoes before and I know the anticipation of the answer eats away at you. Everybody says use a condom, but condoms are not 100 percent safe.
Good luck. |
Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 10:50am
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I must be the only one who finds his irresponsibility slightly amusing.
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Posted By: CerebrlAssassin
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 10:54am
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I see lots of bashing, and this is easy to do when you place yourself on a soapbox. I suppose none of you have ginen in to thinking with the "wong head" in a moment of passion? You show me someone that says they are 100% careful all the time, everytime, and I will show you an outright hypocrite and a liar. Yes, he has gotten himself in this unenviable position, but it seems that the gravity of the situation has struck him, leaving little need for any of us to pile on. Give the man a break, because you just might need one someday as well. ------------- 
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Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 11:06am
No, you dont. -------------
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Posted By: SSOK
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 11:29am
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I really, Really hope for your sake that everyone is overreacting and she is just only sick. I know two of my friends were born like this, the one her parents are divorced and the other they live toghether and arnt too happy
But I know of some people who have been in your situitation and lived happily ever after with a kid out of this.
Good luck, even though that dosent mean too much ------------- 
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Posted By: super_gman
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 12:32pm
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Wow, I really don't know what to say. I guess all I got is I hope she isn't really pregnant, that its just another wave of sickness. If she is however, I wish you both the best of luck, and it's good to know that you're man enough to stay with her and help with the baby. Most guys in your shoes would just take off running and never look back. ------------- Zerglet. |
Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:28pm
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Ok guys, I had to wait until today to find out. Turns out, she's not prego. I didn't really think she was, it was just that her mom thought she was and the hospital must have thought it was likely enough to do the test. Plus, I thought her mom "knew" we'd done stuff, and that alone would probably kill us. She's on the pill and we've only done it "unwrapped" a couple of times, I'm not that stupid, I think it was just the way the phone call went and the way I have a tendency to kinda freak when I don't have a good grip on a situation, and I had no control last night, I was just kinda sittin here waiting for a phone call. Appearently, she's just got some really nasty virus and she had a bad reaction to some of the meds they gave her. Sucks though, I gotta find something else to do today since her mom is keeping me away again. Anyway, thanks a lot for the support folks. Turned out alright. ps Cedrics prolly right, now that I know what's up. Share if ya want man. ------------- |
Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 2:11pm
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Bad trip. -------------
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 2:57pm
| thats good news man, glad to hear shes not pregnant |
Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 3:04pm
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Good to hear it. I bet it feels like a huge weight is now off your shoulders. Hope your gf gets better, too.
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 4:09pm
Oh. Yeah. You win. Brihard, yeah dude, I got to put the car down....feels good. Thanks dude. ------------- |
Posted By: Apu
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 4:54pm
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Bad Trip..off...nutmeg..
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 4:56pm
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Seriously?
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 4:59pm
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Nutmeg isn't fun by what I've heard/read.
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 5:00pm
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Just don't do it. Ever. -------------
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Posted By: CerebrlAssassin
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 5:11pm
There are none so blind as those who will not see, my friend. Some have been quite negative, despite your assertion. This youngling needed support and friendship, and while may provided this, some held out none. Such a problem is difficult enough without compounding it. .Ryan, I am glad to hear that your fears were unfounded. I am sure that you have learned a valuable lesson from this dilemna, one that many who dwell here are going to have to learn the hard way as they become men instead of boys. I wish you and your lady well in your future. -------------
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Posted By: PaintballkidEPS
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 6:50pm
| yeah i wouldn't think she would be pregnant cause i've been pretty sick this past week and im deffinately not pregnant, but the flu is going around and i couldn't walk the other day because i would get so dizzy and have such a bad headache |
Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:01pm
Who on earth ARE you...? -------------
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Posted By: .Ryan
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:06pm
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Hey seems like a good guy Skillet, even with the Mr. Miagginess. Leave him alone....
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Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:09pm
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:19pm
Good man. The world needs more people like you. ------------- 
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Posted By: Enos Shenk
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 8:10pm
That would be me, and Im not lying. -------------
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Posted By: hwayhzrd
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 8:43pm
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Dang, Enos, you should have your own religion!! Shenko Heavy Righteousness! You had to have been careless once in your life ... ! ------------- If I flee, kill me If I die, avenge me |
Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 9:16pm
HAHAHA! "Shenko Heavy Righteousness"/ I haven't ehard a line that good in ages.  ------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 11:06pm
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I was going to say something about your sig Ryan since I dont mind bush, but it made me chuckle so yea good job. Good to hear she aint pregnant. ------------- 
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Posted By: PlentifulBalls
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 11:09pm
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Heh, your lucky she isn't pregnant. I have no sympathy for teens who get pregnant. You made the choice to have sex, deal with it.
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Posted By: Mephistopheles
Date Posted: 08 April 2006 at 11:59pm
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Not pregnant? Well what are you waiting for? Get over there for a celebratory pop! One quick one for the good news.
Just make sure you do like saran and wrap it. ------------- http://www.tippmann.com/forum/wwf77a/forum_posts.asp?TID=166647&PN=1"> 
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Posted By: oreomann33
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 12:01am
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Don't be a fool, wrap your tool!
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Posted By: DeTrevni
Date Posted: 09 April 2006 at 12:12am
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giggidy giggidy goo! ------------- Evil Elvis: "Detrevni is definally like a hillbilly hippy from hell" 
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