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Topic: OK, so my a group of friends and I...
Posted By: sporx
Subject: OK, so my a group of friends and I...
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 5:48am
... were talking. people are different and have different turn-ons and turn-offs. some people have fetishes and fetishes are actually psychological disorders commonly found in men. (they fantasize over one part of the body rather than the whole) some people's turn-ons are turn-offs for others. it's actually an interesting topic upon variation.
discuss and keep it clean.
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 6:14am
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i'm a fan of legs and butts (female behinds, in before a joke), in tight jeans or something...eyes, the face in general. i dont know this will make a whole lot of sense, but its not that i like feet, but i dont like ugly feet.
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Posted By: ShortyBP
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:07am
sporx wrote:
discuss and keep it clean. |
I should take bets as to how long that lasts...
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:29am
My friends and I were having a discussion much like that on Friday. They know the kinds of things I'm into, and many of them aren't forum appropriate, others I keep to myself now that I'm married, out of respect for my wife's modesty. Had you caught me before that I'd have confessed things that would turn some heads, and from what I have pierced you can take a few guesses.
I think people are hung up on far too many things. They freak out about simple stuff. Nudity, especially by "unattractive" or plain looking people, is cause for groans and exaggerated reactions of disgust. It's a naked person, oooooo, get over it. Public displays of affection don't bother me in the slightest. I can see some people prefering that couples don't in the park, but kissing? Big deal. I personally take no shame in being nude. Oh no, my junk is out! Everybody run. Hell, I went streaking for the forum. (Edit: Which more people should do. It's actually a lot of fun.)
A lot of fetishes are becoming more mainsteam, and that's a good thing I think. If people could stop judging others for it, that would be even better. It's as though it's ok to do those things so long as you don't get caught. If you are found out it's so often cause for humiliation. For me, who cares. Other people do the things I do too, and it has never bothered me that people know. All of my friends, girls and guys, are privy to what I like even if I'm not aware of what they like. For whatever reasons it just doesn't bother me. I try not to intrude on their sensibilities however. I don't get up in their faces about it. If they want to know, I'm frank about it.
I've always liked a tight stomach and a good neck, and my wife has an awesome neck. As I've gotten older I've found beauty in more and more types of the human body. Women I wouldn't have considered as a teenager have appeal to me now.
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Posted By: What to do?
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:45am
Eyes and sensual hair are big turn ons for me. I'm not sure why but it just does! 
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Posted By: xXK1CK1NVV1NGXx
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:56am
What to do? wrote:
Eyes and sensual hair are big turn ons for me. I'm not
sure why but it just does!  |
This and good but does it for me.
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Posted By: DeTrevni
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:20am
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I've always found, as Reif put it, a tight stomach very attractive. For example: 
Courtesey Da Hui's wallpaper.
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Posted By: TheSpookyKids87
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:37am
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I love glasses on a female.
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:43am
TheSpookyKids87 wrote:
I love glasses on a female. |
Actually that is pretty attractive.
Ingrid Michaelson
I don't know her music, but she's pretty.
And freckles. I like freckles.
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Posted By: JohnnyHopper
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:48am
What to do? wrote:
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Women have hair?
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Posted By: Kristofer
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:16am
they have to have very pretty eyes.
oh and stay in shape please.
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Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:17am
Turn Ons: Good body, Intelligence, nice size Boobs (not huge, but not small), good Butt, Eyes
Turn Offs: Flat, Huge fake implants, Gobs of makeup, Stupidity, Pretending to be stupid for attention, dressing to slutty, Fat,
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Posted By: sporx
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:25am
my boyfriend has that same wallpaper.
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Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:26am
I'm secretly a fan of the scene girl thing. Other than that, I consider myself an ass man, and chicks in glasses is pretty hot too.
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:29am
sporx wrote:
my boyfriend has that same wallpaper. |
I'm curious. Is that something you mind or does it not bother you? And is there a difference between having a celebrity picture and just a normal person's (someone he doesn't know) picture?
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Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:49am
Biggest turn on:
Scarlett Johansson
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Posted By: JohnnyCanuck
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:54am
#1 is eyes for sure, I can get lost looking into my wifes dark brown eyes. Neck/nape for sure, and the area from the waist to the hips, that sensual curve, especially when she lies on her side.
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Posted By: .357 Magnum
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 9:57am
Turn on : Nice butt, tight jeans etc.
Turn off : ultra fake boobars, yea. I can't stand those HUGE implants that just look so damn fake. And another turn off would be a cake face ( to much make-up)
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Posted By: Ticalxx421
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 10:39am
.357 Magnum wrote:
ultra fake boobars, yea. I can't stand those HUGE implants that just look so damn fake
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Yeah. There must be plenty of 16year old girls running around with implants where you live...
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Posted By: .357 Magnum
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 10:42am
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I wasn't talking about teen-age girls dumbass.
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Posted By: Uncle Rudder
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 11:23am
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Boobs > butt.
Megan Fox is hot.
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Posted By: .357 Magnum
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 11:26am
Uncle Rudder wrote:
Boobs < butt.
Megan Fox is hot. |
Fixed 
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Posted By: Uncle Rudder
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 11:28am
.357 Magnum wrote:
Uncle Rudder wrote:
Boobs < butt.
Megan Fox is hot.
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Fixed 
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That's the same stuff I get from my room mates. I'm not seeing it though.
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Posted By: procarbinefreak
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 12:16pm
i'm definitely a butt man.
Although, recently, I've found that intelligence and those who know where they're going, or where they want to go in life is attractive.
of course, that's going beyond the physical characteristics.
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Posted By: jmac3
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 12:18pm
procarbinefreak wrote:
i'm definitely a butt man.
Although, recently, I've found that intelligence and those who know where they're going, or where they want to go in life is attractive.
of course, that's going beyond the physical characteristics.
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Agreed.
And Scene Girls as someone else mentioned..
EDIT: I often wonder why guys like to watch random hot girls walk around. Sure they maybe hot, but you're not getting it. At work someone is always like "Hey check this girl out!!" I'm like "Why?" If someone could enlighten me that would be great. No, I'm not gay.
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Posted By: Panda Man
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 12:36pm
don't know, when I first look at a girl, I look at their neck and shoulders I have no clue why, just that alot of times I belive if a girl has really "scrawny" shoulders they have a really bad self-esteem. 
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Posted By: Dye Playa
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 2:24pm
On's: Eyes, butt, smile, boobs (not huge a little more than handful is perfect), dimples
Off's: Red head, freckles, flat, deep voice
Those are obviously just the physical, there are too many for personality traits.
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Posted By: evillepaintball
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 2:30pm
in before "lolz 2girls1cup"
boobs=butt firecrotch (just a landing strip)
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Posted By: super_gman
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 2:31pm
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I like a girl with a nice smile; eyes are important too. As far as bodies go, I'm not really a fan of overly-skinny girls. I don't necessarily like fat women either, but a girl having a bit of meat on her bones is definitely not a bad thing.
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 4:31pm
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The idea of fetish as a 'disorder' is kind of funny, especially since the word doesn't just refer to concentrating on one body part...
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Posted By: bravecoward
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 4:33pm
Lip. Biting.
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Posted By: carl_the_sniper
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 4:44pm
Turn on: Fatties
Turn off: Fatties
It's a vicious cycle.
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 4:46pm
bravecoward wrote:
Lip. Biting.
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Other biting, however, can quickly turn simply painful.
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Posted By: Yomillio
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 4:57pm
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BARREL BREAK wrote:
bravecoward wrote:
Lip. Biting.
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Yeah. I don't know why, but its niiicccceeeeee.
As for turn ons in general, my girl has my number. I can't really like lay a finger on most of it, but seriously I can't see myself wanting to change anything about her - body, actions, or otherwise. I don't like overly skinny girls, because feeling like your supporting a stick really just doesn't do it for me. Hair, I really dont have any specifics. I like brunettes, and I dont care if its straight or curly. Preppyness isn't for me. Over clumsyness is a definite no-no.
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Posted By: Hysteria
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 5:23pm
Da Hui wrote:
Turn Ons: Good body, Intelligence, nice size Boobs (not huge, but not small), good Butt, Eyes
Turn Offs: Flat, Huge fake implants, Gobs of makeup, Stupidity, Pretending to be stupid for attention, dressing to slutty, Fat,
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Da Hui wrote:
Biggest turn on:
Scarlett Johansson
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Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 5:46pm
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Posted By: Predatorr
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 5:52pm
On's- In shape, sense of humor, relatively smart, sense of the world, boobs being proportional to the body, nice butt. tight stomach area, good eyes and smile. also, a laugh can make or break your appearance
Offs- Noticeable fat in several areas, bad face, too much makeup, love handles that hang over the too tight jeans, huge nips, thunder thighs, too muscular, miss know it alls, is that your real hair color?, so dumb they could be drooling
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Posted By: Cedric
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 6:06pm
Glasses.. ew.
Ass man all the way.

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Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 6:14pm
For some reason it seems like so many people on the internet claim to dislike skinny girls. I just can't see myself dating a girl that isn't in really good shape. I always take flack for it, as people like Whale(who was the culprit last time) think I'm shallow for it.
I don't see it that way though. I take good care of myself and stay in good shape, and like to see that in a significant other as well.
As far as actual "turn-ons" in the way that I think Sporx probably meant it originally; My ears are a weird/sensitive area, and so is an aggressive girl, or even maybe some "dirty" talk.
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Posted By: ANARCHY_SCOUT
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 6:55pm
usafpilot07 wrote:
For some reason it seems like so many people on the internet claim to dislike skinny girls. I just can't see myself dating a girl that isn't in really good shape. I always take flack for it, as people like Whale(who was the culprit last time) think I'm shallow for it.
I don't see it that way though. I take good care of myself and stay in good shape, and like to see that in a significant other as well.
As far as actual "turn-ons" in the way that I think Sporx probably meant it originally; My ears are a weird/sensitive area, and so is an aggressive girl, or even maybe some "dirty" talk.
| I can agree that being in shape is good thing, it's those A.) so in shape its nasty or B.) out of shape but extremely skinny that I find really disgusting. I like a girls with a bit of excess I'd rather see nice curves then some plank.
I like being choked I don't know why. Lip bitting is always good, if she gets into it all the better,I don't feel like exerting a lot of energy into something shes not into.
oh, and ass man all the way.
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Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:25pm
ANARCHY_SCOUT wrote:
I can agree that being in shape is good thing, it's those A.) so in shape its nasty or B.) out of shape but extremely skinny that I find really disgusting. I like a girls with a bit of excess I'd rather see nice curves then some plank.
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A girl can be in amazing shape and still have great curves. Great legs = a great ass, and are usually a product of staying in good shape(though not necessarily being an exercise freak). And breasts are more hereditary. But, just being skinny is definitely not enough, it's got to be "in shape skinny."
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Posted By: b_mid
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 7:30pm
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For me to be turned on by a girl she has to have a nice body, eyes, and a nice smile.
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Posted By: rednekk98
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:05pm
I have to be able to hold a conversation with them without having to stop to explain big words.
Turn ons: Butt, nicely shaped breasts, good bone structure in face, eyes, DSL, but I'll melt for a good set of legs wrapped around me.
Turn offs: Flab hanging over jeans, random ass hair missed while shaving, cellulite, bad teeth.
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Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:41pm
rednekk98 wrote:
I have to be able to hold a conversation with them without having to stop to explain big words.
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QFT.
Girls with brains, plans, and a future. Fortunately my GF fits the bill. 
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:49pm
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Ah yes, brains, without one of them, I don't care how good looking you are.
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Posted By: Kristofer
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 8:50pm
yes intelligent girls are a must. i cant stand being around ditsy people.
if a girl does not have the self respect to stay in shape then i am not interested in her. if she is that lazy to go outside and take a walk or anything exercise like then forget that. i cant stand that. especially when you start hearing, "i'm big boned" last i heard, all bones are like the same. minus osteoporosis and what not.
also, pretty eyes like i said before. if you cant look at her in the eyes, then damn you are screwed.
EDIT: And not unbelievably liberal. or even an idealist for that matter. more conservative values, and more of a realist.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 10:15pm
Turn-ons: Nice stomach, nice legs. If both of those are nice you can pretty much guarantee a decent body. And as long as the face is decent, I'm good.
Hispanic ethnicity is a huge plus... dunno why but a tan and dark hair turn me on. I've only gone for one girl who was a blonde.
But above all, if I can just hit it off with a girl right off the bat, that is huge.
Offs: girls who are dumb / act dumb. I like educated girls.
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Posted By: carl_the_sniper
Date Posted: 17 December 2007 at 11:16pm
Intelligence isin't a huge thing for me.
She doesn't have to be a geneous, just not stupid.
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Posted By: stratoaxe
Date Posted: 18 December 2007 at 2:18am
Dumb girls rock, what are yall talking about.
The first thing I look at on a girl are her eyes. Eyes are definately my turn on. Body wise, I can give and take as long as the legs are good. Boobs don't mean alot, though a girl with absolutely no boobs turns me off. No offense to girls who don't have them, but I can't help me. It literally drives me limp. Butts are whatever, I can deal with girls who don't have a butt, just not with girls who have buffalo behinds.
This is where I'll take the discussion into lock territory, but I think I can keep it clean. The ultimate turn on-a girl who shaves right. I can forgive alot for a clean shave, it literally drives me crazy.
Above anything else, I think it's all about how a girl takes care of herself. I girl will only respect you as much as she respects herself, and girls who don't do the normal maintenance (you know what I mean) are instant turn offs for me.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 18 December 2007 at 11:39am
stratoaxe wrote:
girl will only respect you as much as she respects herself,
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Ironic strato.
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Posted By: stratoaxe
Date Posted: 18 December 2007 at 4:57pm
Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 18 December 2007 at 5:00pm
Linus wrote:
Turn-ons: Nice stomach, nice legs. If both of those are nice you can pretty much guarantee a decent body. And as long as the face is decent, I'm good.
Hispanic ethnicity is a huge plus... dunno why but a tan and dark hair turn me on. I've only gone for one girl who was a blonde.
But above all, if I can just hit it off with a girl right off the bat, that is huge.
Offs: girls who are dumb / act dumb. I like educated girls. |
There is a Turkish girl I know who I'm going to try and go for.
to dark hair and skin.
My last girlfriend was Brazilian. 
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Posted By: Mack
Date Posted: 18 December 2007 at 5:26pm
carl_the_sniper wrote:
Intelligence isin't a huge thing for me.
She doesn't have to be a geneous, just not stupid. |
Bold added for emphasis. 'Nuff said.
(Although I do agree with the statement.)
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Posted By: sporx
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 2:38am
-bump-
this thread was very interesting. i'm very impressed how you guys weren't really shallow and found real/normal girls to be the most attractive instead of the made-up porn stars.
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Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 2:43am
I'm a boob man. What can I say. Nonphysical attributes = intelligence. I find that a female that I can have a really good conversation can be hard to come by.
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Posted By: proteus316
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 2:52am
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Nonphysical attributes are great, but if there has to be a level of physical attraction. Intimacy is a must.
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Posted By: High Voltage
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 2:55am
Benjichang wrote:
I'm a boob man. What can I say. Nonphysical attributes = intelligence. I find that a female that I can have a really good conversation can be hard to come by. |
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 3:11am
proteus316 wrote:
Nonphysical attributes are great, but if there has to be a level of physical attraction. Intimacy is a must.
| Obviously. Physically, all I'm going to say is; There are a lot of different ways to be good looking. For example, how much in common do Natalie Portman and Scarlett Johannsen have in common? Not much, but I'd say they're equally attractive.
That said, an ex told me that I'm a butt man. I maintain that it's a practical matter.
EDIT: I just noticed the huge grammatical error in the title.
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Posted By: tallen702
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 10:29am
My turn ons? Stockings, Garters, and and some form of corset-like clothing.
Really the stockings and garters are all that are needed though. If your girl has a nice body and great legs, they just accentuate her legs and hips so much more... rrrrrowrrrr!
As for what I look for in a girl. Intelligence, a great smile, and a nice body (not perfect, not porn star, I like a b-cup when it comes down to it) as it shows she can take care of herself physically.
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Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 11:12am
tallen702 wrote:
My turn ons? Stockings, Garters, and and some form of corset-like clothing.
Really the stockings and garters are all that are needed though. If your girl has a nice body and great legs, they just accentuate her legs and hips so much more... rrrrrowrrrr!
As for what I look for in a girl. Intelligence, a great smile, and a nice body (not perfect, not porn star, I like a b-cup when it comes down to it) as it shows she can take care of herself physically. |
I would imagine no osteoporosis or menopause is a plus as well huh?
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 11:15am
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Tallen- Corsets = Awesome.
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 11:20am
I know a girl for whom corsets are casual wear.
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Posted By: tallen702
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 12:26pm
See the girl on the right? That's my GF, as far as I'm concerned, she's perfect. She's my number one turn on.
Oh, and in before "White chicks and gang signs lawlz"
It was a wedding, we were all drunk, if you notice, Erin is holding up the number '3' rather than a gang sign, and Jay is making the 'shocker' with his left hand.
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Posted By: BARREL BREAK
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 12:28pm
You lucked out, my friend, from what I can tell.
GJ
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 12:35pm
proteus316 wrote:
Nonphysical attributes are great, but if there has to be a level of physical attraction. Intimacy is a must.
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Exactly.
I don't go for hot girls, I prefer to go for cute... they are generally more down to earth.
I'd rather have a cute girl that is smart, fun, funny, then a hot girl that is an idiot.
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Posted By: Da Hui
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 12:39pm
If She doesn't turn you on, then your Genitalia must not be working.

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Posted By: Ticalxx421
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 12:52pm
I like big butts and I cannot lie. You other brothas can't deny.
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Posted By: Linus
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 1:26pm
Da Hui, I still prefer Jessica Alba or Adriana Lima.
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Posted By: Ticalxx421
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 1:38pm
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Posted By: sporx
Date Posted: 20 December 2007 at 2:30pm
for a guy - I prefer scruffy facial hair w/ g-tee and somewhat shaggy hair (huge turn-on!) i don't like skinny guys or big beefy guys. i actually like them slightly pudgy (but not fat) metro style clothing just oh.... i think i just described my bf. he's amazing. (along with turn-ons)
turn-offs - arrogance in a non funny way, know-it-alls and guys that constantly brag about partying, drinking, and druggin.
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