Need some advice!
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Topic: Need some advice!
Posted By: ammolord
Subject: Need some advice!
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 5:54pm
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Ok, so there is this chick iv been talking to for a while now. Last night we start talking and she tells me that she's realy into me. SO, heres my delema. She told me that friday she's heading to NY for a few months to see her dad. The thing is, I wana ask her out, i have wanted to for a few weeks now, but the NY thing is killing me because:
1) I can ask her, she says yes, and then something can happen.
2) I can wait, but then i risk her finding a guy in NY.
Any help for the 17 year old? I honestly am stumped right now.
(Flame away, but i honestly need some help right now) ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
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Posted By: impulse!!
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 5:55pm
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Posted By: merc
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 6:00pm
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just get her alone and go in for a kiss...
git r dun before she leaves, that way she will come back wanting you but you can still ice fish... ------------- saving the world, one warship at a time. |
Posted By: jerseypaint
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 6:11pm
This. No use in waiting, but don't make it into a relationship. ------------- 
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merc wrote:Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 6:31pm
Yeah, this is what I was thinking. Only problem is that she is busy till she leaves, and shes already graduated, so i wont see her in school.
Ah, gotta love this kinda stuff. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: Yomillio
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 6:43pm
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skin hat. that way you'll always have her beautiful face with you. other than that, I'm not so sure. I would only hope that she's sorted enough to continue wanting to be with you while she's in NY if ya'll kept in contact. ------------- 
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Posted By: GI JOES SON
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 7:17pm
| go for it...depending on how long she's in ny maybe she'll wait for you til she gets back. anythings worth a shot |
Posted By: mbro
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 7:40pm
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I'm so glad I'm no longer a teenager. ------------- 
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Posted By: ParielIsBack
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 8:07pm
It's like they project awkwardness. Also, suggestions in this thread are full of win. Except the serious ones. ------------- BU Engineering 2012 |
Posted By: Eville
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 8:27pm
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This is what basements and tool sheds are for.
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Posted By: merc
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 9:02pm
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pick her up at midnight if you have to... they have some good energy drinks out now... ------------- saving the world, one warship at a time. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 9:20pm
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yeah, thanks for the help guys. i think ima try to get over there when she has a few min of downtime. i think ima just ask her, i think i can trust her enough. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: oldpbnoob
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 9:25pm
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I don't see the problem. Let her know that you dig her too and hopefully when she comes back, you guys can get together. Until then, relax, business as usual. If she finds someone in NY, it wasn't meant to be. Be young and have fun. Take it from an old married fart that took crap wayyy too seriously when he was younger. ------------- "When I grow up I want to marry a rich man and live in a condor next to the beach" -- My 7yr old daughter. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 9:54pm
Ha, yeah. Idk what ima do, but after reading this, it reminded me of what i normaly do. So im thinking this is what to do. Il go along with the normal plan and see where it takes me. Thanks man. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: oldpbnoob
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:08pm
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Trust me, I know it's tough to maintain. Make sure you keep in touch with her while she's gone, but no pressure. Don't call her every five minutes, give her room to breath and enjoy her time in NY. Show confidence, but let her know that you are thinking about her. Asking a girl to "go out" before she is leaving is like whizzing on her leg to mark your territory and can come across as insecure. Don't assume that just because she leaves, she will find someone else. If she is into you now, she will be into you when she comes back.
And I agree, if that doesn't work... skin hat. ------------- "When I grow up I want to marry a rich man and live in a condor next to the beach" -- My 7yr old daughter. |
Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:29pm
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propose to her!!! ------------- 
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Posted By: WGP guy2
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:31pm
| In before glass rose... |
Posted By: oldpbnoob
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:40pm
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1, cut a hole in a box... ------------- "When I grow up I want to marry a rich man and live in a condor next to the beach" -- My 7yr old daughter. |
Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:52pm
| 2, put your junk in that box |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 10:59pm
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3. make her open the box.
Anyway.........
but yeah, i think ima go with OBPN on this one. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: Tical3.0
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:07pm
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Hit it and quit it. You are 17... ------------- I ♣ hippies. |
Posted By: TinMan
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:09pm
I lol'd a lot.
But I agree with OPBN too.
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Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:26pm
yeah, looking back at the setup i am now too.
and yeah, OPBN hit it on the head. thats exactly what a good buddy of mine told me.
yeah, ya know, i dont have any feelings for the chick, at all  ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:28pm
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Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:30pm
meh, if it happens, it happens. not like ima push for it or anything (im not like that, mock me if you must). ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: Tical3.0
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:31pm
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dude, you are 17. You may have feelings gor this girl now but once you hit puberty everything changes. ------------- I ♣ hippies. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:33pm
yeah, i know. iv had my share of fun (homecoming night ftw). im just saying, its not all about it with me. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:33pm
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:34pm
| lol @ once you hit puberty. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:34pm
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^ cant even talk newbie. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:34pm
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like you have room to talk ROFL -------------
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:37pm
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hey I can say i've already hit puberty at least. and ammo what are you like 7 months older than me? ill b 17 in january. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:38pm
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As can i.
Oct , 1992. whats yours?
yeah, actualy, about 3-4 months. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: oldpbnoob
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:45pm
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I have underwear older than both of you. NB4 pics or shens. ------------- "When I grow up I want to marry a rich man and live in a condor next to the beach" -- My 7yr old daughter. |
Posted By: Tical3.0
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:45pm
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lol. ------------- I ♣ hippies. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 28 October 2009 at 11:57pm
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hahaha, im sure we are good OPBN. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: oldpbnoob
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 12:04am
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I'm just liquored up enough to put some Right Said Fred on and start making videos.... oh crap, my wifes still awake. ------------- "When I grow up I want to marry a rich man and live in a condor next to the beach" -- My 7yr old daughter. |
Posted By: __sneaky__
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 12:20am
Also, ROFL, arn't you like 16? Are you really laughing at the puberty joke if it applies to you as well sir?
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 12:27am
| /facepalm.jpg |
Posted By: DaveEllis
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 12:44am
| I'd just go for the HIAQI approach. 3 months is plenty of time to change. |
Posted By: Yomillio
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 6:14am
July '92. Get outta here. -------------
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Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 7:53am
Ah, so 3 forumers 3 months apart.................. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: ParielIsBack
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 9:01am
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You guys are just so young and precious. -_-
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Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 3:57pm
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Posted By: __sneaky__
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 4:15pm
| May ftw! |
Posted By: Benjichang
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 4:17pm
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Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 4:22pm
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Posted By: High Voltage
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 4:24pm
I was going to say mature. Old works though. ------------- 
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Posted By: reifidom
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 4:31pm
I can't say I have underwear that old, but I do have shoes (sandals actually) that are older than that by a couple of years. They fit nicely. ------------- 
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Posted By: scotchyscotch
Date Posted: 29 October 2009 at 5:40pm
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I have to side with the hit and quit option. For some reason as soon as you get a gf all the poon comes out to play and by then you'e stuck in a relationship that's going to split up anyway. Make sure you take full advantage of your youth and shag anything that moves and if it doesn't move then shag it until it does. |
Posted By: IrIsHGunNeR37
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 10:14pm
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1) I can ask her, she says yes, and then something can happen.
2) I can wait, but then i risk her finding a guy in NY.
Any help for the 17 year old? I honestly am stumped right now.
(Flame away, but i honestly need some help right now) [/QUOTE]
If she's really into you just ask her man..........stay in touch while she is in NY....not obsessivly though. That only leads to nothing good. Other than that just play it cool and like some of the other guys said go in for the kiss man. Its only a few months....plus even if she does meet some guy and then she comes back......the long distant crap never works anyways, but if she's that into you I wouldn't worry about that.
Don't rule other chcicks out either though, if your not tied down it dosen't hurt to have some fun either. ------------- "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear." -Ambrose Redmoon |
Posted By: usafpilot07
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 10:27pm
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I'd just like to take the time to say that "ima" bothers the living crap out of me. ------------- Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo |
Posted By: __sneaky__
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 10:38pm
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 11:14pm
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Guys calling other guys "baby" annoys the shiz outa me. |
Posted By: __sneaky__
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 11:17pm
| ^ Never heard any guys say that with any tone of seriousness. |
Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 30 October 2009 at 11:21pm
| Did I say that they had a tone of seriousness? Geez you jump to conclusions very fast. |
Posted By: slackerr26
Date Posted: 31 October 2009 at 12:09am
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Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 31 October 2009 at 6:07am
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Lol, ima go ahead an not change how i do what i do.
She gave me a suprise call today. Almost crapped when I heard her voice, I wasnt expecting to hear from her so soon. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: scotchyscotch
Date Posted: 31 October 2009 at 6:13am
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Posted By: merc
Date Posted: 31 October 2009 at 8:04am
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dude...
something an old man told me once that i have found true... if a chick will talk to you, she will... if you find yourself talking with this chick for hours at a time, and SHE TOLD YOU SHES INTO YOU. she wants you... make the chick happy and give her what she wants... if she goes out with you great, if she breaks your heart sucks... DONT miss out on the opportunity... ------------- saving the world, one warship at a time. |