Clingy, no more!
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Topic: Clingy, no more!
Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Subject: Clingy, no more!
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 12:00am
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Well, 10 months in I realized that being 2000 miles away and in separate countries means that my relationship would never be the same. Anyways.... I manned up and dumped my gf and now i'm a free, single man of 18 years old and it feels FINE! I now do realize how clingy I was.... jeez! |
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Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 12:06am
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Now that you've admited it, its no fun! but sorry to hear that dude, all you can do is harden up n move on! ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: evillepaintball
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 12:25am
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Well done, sir. ------------- 
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Posted By: ParielIsBack
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 8:17am
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I must admit I'm kind of impressed. ------------- BU Engineering 2012 |
Posted By: scotchyscotch
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 11:15am
| Wait a minute, if she moved 2000 miles away then the relationship ended itself. You get 0 man points. |
Posted By: Mack
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 11:37am
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I know someone who would be perfect for Rofl. Her name is Sara. Sara N. Rapp. ------------- 
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Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 9:08pm
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Good job man. My girlfriend of four years broke up with me about two months back. The first month was really hard but lately life has been pretty good. I still love her, and probably will for a long time to come, but i've already accepted that we're over. Took me a while to stop hoping that she would come back to me. You're younger than i am man, you're making the right move. I regret moving on to college with a girlfriend, it really complicated my life at a time where i need to be all about myself. Man up, move on, get some new ladies in your life. ------------- 
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Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 9:40pm
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I'm in a sort of similar position. I've just broken up with my girlfriend of four years; we've been living together for fifteen months of that, and long term I just don't see her as what I want in my life- I've got my own direction that I'm strongly moving in, and she's content to just not do much of anything in life, and it's been slowly driving me up the wall. We've got the apartment for another month and a half, and then we go our separate ways. It sucks, but I feel like a huge load has been lifted off my shoulders- I've got nothing holding me back form whatever opportunities or wild-ass ideas I might want to chase now. ------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 10:28pm
No, I moved 2000 miles away when I moved from Florida to New Brunswick. She did things that I didn't agree with and she didn't care about what I felt. So after a while I realized that we want different things in life so I broke it off. Sure shes a little mad, but I need to make the right decisions for my own life so I can move on. I'm still thinking about her and being alone, but the antidepressant that I'm taking now I think is starting to kick in and I'm feeling better than I've felt for a long time because I no longer have an overhead above me, keeping me back from what I want to do with my own life. |
scotchyscotch wrote:Posted By: Skillet42565
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 10:39pm
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I have a perfect breakup song for you! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tev4R4g45Y ------------- 
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Posted By: tallen702
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 10:41pm
+100 e-peen if you get some bar floozie to come over and do it in the bed you used to share with your ex! 
Actually Bri, sounds very similar to the situation I was in with the girl I dated just before meeting my wife. She had no drive to do anything to help herself, she was content to just float through life. I realized this all too late though, and could have nabbed so much Russian hottie tail if I'd simply dumped her stupid ass a year earlier. ------------- <Removed overly wide sig. Tsk, you know better.> |
Posted By: brihard
Date Posted: 12 February 2011 at 10:52pm
"Used to"? We've got the apartment til end March.  One of those 'let's enjoy it while it lasts' things, where we've both suckered ourselves into thinking this is a quasi-mutual brekaup. (Me = bad person?)But then past then I'm sunk, because she owns the bed. It's a crappy bed anyway. My plan once I get real work and a salary is to find me a nice little studio apartment somewhere (or possibly get a condo), spend a bit too much on furniture, and maybe spend a couple years enjoying the single life I've had only ten months of since I was 17. Meanwhile, you've got a hot wife. Quit whining.
------------- "Abortion is not "choice" in America. It is forced and the democrats are behind it, with the goal of eugenics at its foundation." -FreeEnterprise, 21 April 2011. Yup, he actually said that. |
Posted By: Reb Cpl
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 8:31am
Doesn't the stark reality of this hit you like a truck the first time you realize it? Despite my unquestionable happiness in the situation I'm in, I plan to live vicariously through you now. ------------- ? |
Posted By: Mehs
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 6:11pm
I've been in a distance relationship for 3 years now. We are 1500 miles apart. Somehow we made it work all through college and now are moving in together at the end of May. You pansy  ------------- [IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/1538fbc.jpg"> Squeeze Box ☣ |
Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 6:18pm
New Brunswick eh? I'm in the area fairly often visiting a friend at Rutgers. ------------- |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 7:07pm
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Glassjaw and rofl meeting up.... hmmmm...... ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: evillepaintball
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 7:11pm
Given the new information, updated. *the floozie -------------
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Posted By: jerseypaint
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 7:44pm
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There are so many forumers in NJ, its actually shocking. Hell, SSOK goes to school right across the street from me. ------------- 
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Posted By: High Voltage
Date Posted: 13 February 2011 at 8:55pm
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Atta girl! ------------- 
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 1:01am
Lol, New Brunswick, Canada. Not New Jersey lol. Also: Valentines Day and single: SUCKS THE BIG ONE. |
Posted By: pb125
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 4:12am
No it doesn't. Man up. So you don't have someone you have to spend a crap ton of money on? Boo hoo. It's just a stupid Hallmark holiday anyhow. stop dwelling on your ex, and for the love of god do not contact her to wish her a happy valentines day. -------------
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Posted By: High Voltage
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 9:21am
I bet he already has. -------------
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Posted By: scotchyscotch
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 11:55am
| The fact you've made a thread about how proud you are to break off a relationship with some chick who lives 2000 miles away is kinda clingy. |
Posted By: ammolord
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 12:29pm
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Put her in your phone as "FOR THE LOVE OF CHRIST, DO NOT CALL!" for us rofl. ------------- PSN Tag: AmmoLord XBL: xXAmmoLordXx ~Minister of Tinkering With Things That Go "BOOM!"(AKA Minister of Munitions)~ |
Posted By: Ceesman762
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 12:34pm
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are you going to post naked picts of her?
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Posted By: Rofl_Mao
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 11:55pm
I did!
Nope, actually I went on a very long walk with another girl. Very nice looking at that! As for the nude pics... I should probably delete those lol. |
Posted By: evillepaintball
Date Posted: 14 February 2011 at 11:59pm
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They were a gift. Keep them. -------------
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Posted By: stratoaxe
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 12:36am
Fixed. |
Posted By: Koolit32
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 2:01am
| Disregard wenches, acquire currency. |
Posted By: underground
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 2:09am
It doesn't have to be about money as much as it is just having someone to care enough to spend the day with. I'm a very sad person right now because I don't. And it's not as much the physical connection I miss as much as just having someone to talk to about EVERY thing and ANY thing. I miss the companionship. I would give every material possession I have to not wake up and wonder why she isn't laying next to me. It is a pain I don't want anymore. ------------- I believe if life gives you lemons, you should find someone life gave vodka and have a party. |
Posted By: __sneaky__
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 2:34am
1. Skip to 0:10 2. Click Play. 3. Apply video to life. 4. ????? 5. Profit. ------------- "I AM a crossdresser." -Reb Cpl Forum Vice President RIP T&O Forum |
Posted By: stratoaxe
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 2:45am
This is called being single. Valentine's Day is just a reminder that you're not fulfilling your biological urge to reproduce. It doesn't justify or relieve the shame that is Valentine's Day. Useless holiday is useless, whether you're single or in a relationship. Also, learning to be single is more important that anything else you'll learn from relationships. By learning to be single and happy, the next girl won't control you or dominate your thoughts the way your ex does. When you feel the desperate need for someone that you feel, you can't help but be clingy and insecure. I've been there. I'm as happy as I've ever been single because A:) I don't feel reliant on someone to be happy B:) I can focus on college completely C:) I no longer panic about getting laid because I've matured beyond that point. /Dr. Strato |
Posted By: Glassjaw
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 5:00pm
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Posted By: scotchyscotch
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 5:15pm
| You don't need the pics as long as you saved a good "wank bank" while you were together. |
Posted By: SSOK
Date Posted: 15 February 2011 at 7:19pm
model98commando graduated NJIT last year lol ------------- 
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