Please Help

I need some help pretty quikly. i am a freshmen at my high school and am pretty popular, especially with the ladys.i wanted to know that if you guys think that a freshmen is old enough to have sex. i know about safe sex but is this old enough. my girlfriend said she wants to but i wasnt sure. i want to but i need your advise. i would ask my dad but he died when i was 6. please help.

HI

why do people ask this stuff on a paintball forum. To answer the question i think you should go AHEAD (if you know what i mean)

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Glassjaw wrote:

if you want real advice, take your own. if you feel you are ready than do it, if you want to take more time than take more time. from experience, friends of mine (who are 13, 14) have had sex and it ruins them. also someone i know, one of his friends was the first to have sex out of their "group". you know what happened to him? he is in jail now. just it is on how you feel about it, if you feel your ready to take the responsibility and consequences tahn do it. if your not, than dont.

cause you know having sex at a young age turns you into a criminal

Nobody ever suspects the fun police!

i never said that. i stated what has happened to people i know and friends of mine. also sex can ruin relationships.

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Glassjaw wrote:

sex can ruin relationships.

That's true, but only if you both aren't ready. If you rush it, then it can kill things. If you are both 100% sure, and mature about it, then no problem.

emo_punk wrote:

dude, you're 16 and a freshman...honestly most people don't have sex till they're a junior. but, if you fell like youre mature enough and won't get her pregnant or make everyone in her school think she's a slut and ruin her school carrer for the rest of her life, (cause that stuff really doe follow you) then go ahead...no pressure tho.

Emo, that isn't always the case. I had sex at 16, and I am fine, we both have no regrets at all, so it's fine. Sure, if you rush it, hook up at a party, do it on her parents car then never see each other again, then yes, reputations will get hurt. However, if you guys are serious about one another, and positivly sure you want to have sex, then go ahead, as long as you are sure you are ready. I would figure you would be smart about it and take all the right precautions and such.
If someone does think you guys are dumb for having sex, calmly explain to them that you two were both ready, and mature enough that you felt it was time, and that it doesn't change things. Make them feel like the childish ones for thinking that you two were just messing around, show them that you are adult enough to handle adult matters.

Questions?

how long have you two been together? Has she ever had sex before? I started screwing in 8th grade... but for some guys its like.....once you start the fun dont stop...litterally, and thats how you get in trouble. You get caught, the rubber breaks, std's....so if you do it then dont do it like every day. From my experience, use Lubricated....