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    Posted: 23 April 2005 at 9:24pm
Well, me and my girlfriend(Me being a junior, her being a sopohmore) of four months just broke up.  While we were dating, I brought the situation of Prom up, and told her that If she wanted to go, all she had to do was let me know and we would, and she said "OK" and never said anything else about it which meant she didn't want to go I assumed.

So a few days after I broke up with her, I started dating this girl named Lindsey who is the greatest girl ever, she'll do anything for you and so on......  We'll we started dating four days before Prom, and she was bringing her male-friend to the prom.  Well, she couldn't just ditch a guy four days before prom, and I couldn't get a tux and everything four days before prom anyway(and her mom said she couldn't just quit prom because they spent $300 on a dress).  Well, of course I was was worried, but she's so nice and innocent(you would jsut have to know her) but I just said that she could go, but please don't even pop-kiss him or anyone else, and don't go to any after-parties which she agreed to.  Also, she said she would call me every chance she got.......

Well, her dinner reservations were at 7:30 and she told me she would call me after they got done eating and during the prom as well.  Well, 11:20 just rolled around and I havn't heard a word, and this isn't like her.

I just called my best friend and his cell phone was working fine, so I know cell-phone cervice isn't a problem. 

I have talked to numerous friends who told me they would keep an eye out and watch her to see if she did anything, and I still havn't heard from any of them.

So here I am just sitting, playing guitar, and feeling depressed.  It's amazing how close you can become to somebody in 4 days (even though we've been friends for a while).  But prom ends at 12:00, so I'm staying up to at least she if she'll call......

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You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.
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Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


But weve been friends and talking about it forever.

Most people who have had a relationship where they really like/love someone can tell you they knew so after a few days.

Words cant really explain how great a girl she is, it's the best relationship I've ever been in, which is why I'm worried....
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Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.

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Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.
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Watch a tv show or something and take your mind off it.
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Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.


Shes having fun at her prom, and thats what she is supposed to be doing. not worrying about keeping your paranoia level down.

How do you know what it feels like if you were dating her for 8 months? You have been going out for 4 days. Just chill out until prom is over.

And why couldnt she go to any after parties? You could go with her.

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Originally posted by Hitman Hitman wrote:

Watch a tv show or something and take your mind off it.


Thats what I threw in the guitar comment for.....

I tried playing Halo for a while, but it's not as fun when all your friends are at prom.

On a side note- Has anyone noticed how Halo isn't just for geeks anymore?  My best friend (who is our starting Quarterback) plays Halo with me and another good friend almost every night.  Oh well........
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Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by Heres To You Heres To You wrote:

Originally posted by PlentifulBalls PlentifulBalls wrote:

Originally posted by ItsJustMe2 ItsJustMe2 wrote:

You've been going out with her for 4 days, relax and give her some room.


She probably didnt call you because you got all on her case. It has only been 4 days. Chill out.


Lets pretend we have been dating 8 months, cause that's what it feels like, both of us have said it.

I'm more interested in what I should do if she does call after to prom, or calls tomorrow or whatever else anyone can think up.  I've got another 30 minutes to burn to prom's over.


Shes having fun at her prom, and thats what she is supposed to be doing. not worrying about keeping your paranoia level down.

How do you know what it feels like if you were dating her for 8 months? You have been going out for 4 days. Just chill out until prom is over.

And why couldnt she go to any after parties? You could go with her.


True, but my parents aren't likely to let me leave the house at 12:00 when I havn't even gone to prom.

And I'm not saying you havnt, but when your with someone you really like it just feels like you've been with them for so long.

So, lets say I chill to prom's over.  That gives me a whole 15 minutes more chillin' till I gotta think of something to do.....
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Go to bed. Sounds to me you could use some sleep. Girls are tiring.

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Girls are tiring.


Probably the best statement I've seen on the forum in a long, long time.

But I'm so not going to bed, I'm definently waiting until proms over to see if she even calls.
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hey just cool down shell be fine if she does anything than she probably isnt the girl you really want. Heck my girlfriend is going to prom with another guy and shes constantly on me and asking if its alright to go to prom with this guy. dont worry everything will probably be fine


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uhh...., just wait a while

She'll call if she cares
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Thanks Ekeboo and Bugg.

Well I'm pretty sure she'll call, but if she says she forgot or something, I don't know what I'm going to say.....

I don't know wether I'm more mad, or depressed.

It may be a nasty mix of the two......
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just dont be to overpossesive girls dont like that at all if they want to be with some of their "girlfriends" let em and go have fun with some of the guys


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I know the feeling, but have yet ot have a g/f

drama is fun

well if she forgets, just play dumb "oh ok"

or go

"oh i think i'll forget yur b-day" in a playful tone of course

i may have not had a gf, but i know my way around girls
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Like I said.. drink plenty of alcohol.. time will go faster and you most likely wont even remember her not calling.

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if she doesnt, and says she sorry just tell her thats alright. If you freak out because she didnt call, you're a butthead.

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And I know what its like to have a g/f that you really like. Me and my g/f were best friends for a year before we decided to go out (of course we liked eachother the whole time.. just never said anything about it) and now we've been going out for 5 months and its awesome. But I know what its like to be in your position because she went to Homecoming with someone else because she had promised him she'd go with him a long time ago. I heard about how much fun she had and I was happy that she did, but I also heard that she was like obsessing over my freakin brother (she dont think hes even good looking now I guess.. she thinks hes a dork again.. it was a "one night thing") and I was TICKED. But it all worked out because I trusted her and held faith in her that she wouldnt do anything with anyone.. so it will be ok..

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