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Tell her what happened.

If you dont tell her and she finds out about it later on, it'll be much worse.


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The American wrote: I would tell her, it would show that you don't hide things from her, and even though she would be mad that you did it, I think it would be good for the long run.  Besides it would be even worse if she somehow found out about it.

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And yes, the too sorry for apologies joke has already been played out without even being said yet.

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Hitman wrote: Don't tell her.

So far, I like your decision the best....

And to be as honest as possible, I'm not feeling quilty at all.  Maybe I'm cold hearted, or maybe I don't care for her as much as a thought, but me and the friend mentioned above both have long-term girlfriends, and both made the same mistake, and neither one of us are very guilty.  Maybe using the alcohol as an excuse is a conscience crutch I don't mind using...

I'm sure you could find some advice in the songs you listen to. Also, I bet god's pissed at you.

Hitman wrote: Heres To You wrote: Hitman wrote: Don't tell her. So far, I like your decision the best.... And to be as honest as possible, I'm not feeling quilty at all.  Maybe I'm cold hearted, or maybe I don't care for her as much as a thought, but me and the friend mentioned above both have long-term girlfriends, and both made the same mistake, and neither one of us are very guilty.  Maybe using the alcohol as an excuse is a conscience crutch I don't mind using... For all you know she may have made that same mistake.

Nah, call it naive, but I guess you would just have to know her.  She's probably the most trustworthy person I know, and she's still a virgin.  So If she wants to blow her V card on a guy shes not even dating instead of her boyfriend of many months, then she will, but I don't think its very likely. 

And she doesn't party at all, So I don't have to worry about that.

Cedric wrote: I'm sure you could find some advice in the songs you listen to. Also, I bet god's pissed at you.

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If it was just making out, I would say tell her, she might get mad for a week or so and then forget about and and your relationship is that much stronger, but sex, keep it quiet. And don't tell any of your friends, in case they let it slip in front of her.

Heres To You wrote: The American wrote: I would tell her, it would show that you don't hide things from her, and even though she would be mad that you did it, I think it would be good for the long run.  Besides it would be even worse if she somehow found out about it. True, but I do I blame alcohol, or just be straight and hope for the best?

dont blame the alchohol when you tell her, girls dont like exscuses, tell her you had a little to much to drink and your friend convinced you to play, and that the girl pick you, you didnt pick her, and that you didnt want to but for some retarted reason you did, and then you finish the story...