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ammolord 
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 Topic: Forum....... Help me.........
Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:23pm |
...... I feel like your all family, so il come here for help.
Iv been dateing this chick (the one I made the thread about), and its all goin good. Tonight we start talking, and she tells me she was raped before she left for NY. Idk what to do guys. Iv known her forever, and this is the 3rd GF to tell me this. Now shes in NY alone, and the only way I can talk to her is on MSN. Her step mom in NY just lost her kid, and is now suicidal, so she dont think she can make it back to see me soon. On top of it all, she thinks she might be pregenant. I dont know what to do. Im broke apart and crying, she is too (webcam is a savior). What should I do? Iv known her long enough that I can honesly say that id help her if she does have a kid. But she refuses to go to the hospital in NY to get herself checked out (shes scared to tell her dad).
Help me, im too broke apart to think guys. RIght now I need you guy's help more than ever.
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nickman98
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Et Tu, Nickman?
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:44pm |
1 let her have kid
2 raise kid to be cold blooded assassin
3 ??????
4 profit
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SSOK
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:45pm |
Nickman, you're a tool.
I suggest she buy a pregnancy test. Does she know the person who raped her?
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merc
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:50pm |
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she wasent raped... you dident tap it so she got it from someone else... the rape line is crap cuz she thinks shes prego from cheating on you... have fun with that... (trying to look out)
if she really did get raped shes a dummy for not reporting it...but if thats the case sorry im comming off harsh and best of luck...
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nickman98
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:53pm |
 merc wrote:
she wasent raped... you dident tap it so she got it from someone else... the rape line is crap cuz she thinks shes prego from cheating on you... have fun with that... (trying to look out)
if she really did get raped shes a dummy for not reporting it...but if thats the case sorry im comming off harsh and best of luck... |
and im a tool for saying the same thing just shorter...
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oldsoldier
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 7:57pm |
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Son...Salute it and walk away. This is a sympathy set-up if I ever seen one. More fish in the sea, you are young she is a predator and has her eyes only on your wallet. Change phone number, change web address, and move on.
Ask her a few questions-
1. Police report on rape?
a. none, so the bet it did not happen
2. Blood test on fetus, DNA does not lie.
a. if she refuses....case closed.
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High Voltage
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:05pm |
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Stay away from the wounded animals.
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stratoaxe
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And my axe...
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:05pm |
merc wrote:
she wasent raped... you dident tap it so she got it from someone else... the rape line is crap cuz she thinks shes prego from cheating on you... have fun with that... (trying to look out)
if she really did get raped shes a dummy for not reporting it...but if thats the case sorry im comming off harsh and best of luck... |
This.
Sorry bro, skepticism will save you lots of time.
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ammolord
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:06pm |
nickman, if i said what i wanted to say to you, id get banned.
SSOK, thanks man. thats what i told her.
Merc, thanks for beaing brutaly honest.
Everyone else, thanks. idk what to do still.
Edited by ammolord - 12 November 2009 at 8:07pm
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Bolt3
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:11pm |
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How old are you?
This is the third time? What?
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Glassjaw
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:13pm |
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Pregnancy test. Police.
Pretty straight forward.
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The desire for polyester is just to powerful.
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TheSpookyKids87
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Heh-heh heh-heh - You said "post"
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:18pm |
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Yeah, because all rape victims report it to the police and find it so easily to do so...
But if I was in your situation I really don't know what I would do besides be there for a friend and maybe try to encourage (not overly encourage) her to report it.
Edited by TheSpookyKids87 - 12 November 2009 at 8:21pm
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SSOK
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:22pm |
Although if she flat out will not go for a pregnancy test, will not do anything, and simply does nothing but whine to you, OS hit the nail on the head.
If she goes for a pregnancy test, id believe her.
or she can lie about the test
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Eville
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:35pm |
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It would be interesting to know how many girls falsely claim rape. A girl I went to high school has probably "been raped" by at least half the state by now.
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SSOK
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:42pm |
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On a side note, I miss "le paintball"
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TinMan
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 8:46pm |
I'm sorry for your pain AL, but this looks like a classic poisoning of the wine scenario.
I think she doesn't have the parts to say it's over, or too hard in a long distance relationship,
so instead she's making herself into a mess you wouldn't want. Raped, pregnant, unable to
leave because someone else is suicidal..... That's enough for most guys to split.
Tell her your here for her if she needs you. My bet is she doesn't.
Good luck
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mbro
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 9:16pm |
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Walk away.
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Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos.
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Rofl_Mao
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 9:18pm |
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Ain't all of this a bit of a coincidence man? I mean really?
-Suicidal mother
-Raped (just before she left?)
-Pregnant (really?)
-Don't think she can make it back soon
That's a bit much to believe man, sorry, I feel for ya, but I'd move on. Respectively.
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__sneaky__
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 10:26pm |
Okay we can all be assholes I guess...
Ammolord, tell her to get a pregnancy test. If you seriously know this girl long enough and well enough to know that she is telling the truth, awesome, but also, don't let yourself get lost to the point of blindness. If the test is posative, she needs to talk to a doctor ASAP. Just try as best you can to keep your wits about you, and that goes for both of you. Easier said than done, I realize. But seriously, if she was raped, she needs to go to the cops.
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ammolord
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Posted: 12 November 2009 at 10:53pm |
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just got off the phone with her. she told her dad, and he is taking her to the doc tomarrow.so i guess she wasnt playing (she told him with me on speaker phone).
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