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    Posted: 22 January 2011 at 1:35am
Had my 18th birthday today. 'Twas fun. Except for my family has been turned upside-down and gone to hell and I was diagnosed with depression on Tuesday. Other than that, I had some friends over and had a party and I tried to have some fun. Start the "happy" pills tomorrow. (honestly not looking for pity lol) I just try to ignore the bad things because I know my body can't handle it physically and I try to push on.


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I went through the happy pills stage a few times.

Just some advice...mood stabilizers cab turn you into a zombie, and Xanax can be too fun It certainly helped, but I'm glad I was able to get under control without longterm dependence on the stabilizers. Trust me, the less meds the better.

I hope things work well for you.
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The pills I got (Celexa) are pretty tame and I hear they are pretty effective, safe, and not addictive at all.
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Wont having a self esteem cure depression? Or try going ouside instead of sitting at the computer all day.


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Originally posted by God God wrote:

Wont having a self esteem cure depression? Or try going ouside instead of sitting at the computer all day.




Bad self esteem is a symptom of depression. I'm not stupid, if I could be happy I would. I am at school/work most of the time of my days anyways.
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I can't help this from sounding mean but, what hell can you be depressed about? 

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Just to vouch, when I went through my crazy period, I was in a serious relationship, worked my ass off at a distribution center all weekend, and had a healthy social life. I was never at a computer or on an X-Box...but it shut down my life. It can happen to anybody.
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Originally posted by Rofl_Mao Rofl_Mao wrote:

The pills I got (Celexa) are pretty tame and I hear they are pretty effective, safe, and not addictive at all.

I was on this some years ago when I was having major stress / panic attacks... it was at the point where I would start freaking out at least once a day, and I'd be checking routine things multiple times to make sure everything was okay (like making sure my belongings were where I left them, etc.).  It definitely helped stable me out, and I was at the point where I could tell for myself if I was able to lower the dosage and eventually found the point where I didn't need it anymore after about a year and a half (maybe less) if I remember correctly.

So anyways, the stuff works, and good luck with whatever you're dealing with.  It can be rough, but just try to remind yourself it ain't so bad, and always remember and appreciate the good things.
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Originally posted by Tical3.0 Tical3.0 wrote:

I can't help this from sounding mean but, what hell can you be depressed about? 

He's 18, it happens.

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Originally posted by mbro mbro wrote:

Originally posted by Tical3.0 Tical3.0 wrote:

I can't help this from sounding mean but, what hell can you be depressed about? 

He's 18, it happens.
 
This, im dealin with it right now. Im on the same stuff you are rofl, its good stuff.
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Originally posted by ammolord ammolord wrote:

Originally posted by mbro mbro wrote:

Originally posted by Tical3.0 Tical3.0 wrote:

I can't help this from sounding mean but, what hell can you be depressed about? 

He's 18, it happens.
 
This, im dealin with it right now. Im on the same stuff you are rofl, its good stuff.


That's good to hear... I took the first one today.
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Originally posted by Rofl_Mao Rofl_Mao wrote:

Originally posted by ammolord ammolord wrote:

Originally posted by mbro mbro wrote:

Originally posted by Tical3.0 Tical3.0 wrote:

I can't help this from sounding mean but, what hell can you be depressed about? 

He's 18, it happens.
 
This, im dealin with it right now. Im on the same stuff you are rofl, its good stuff.


That's good to hear... I took the first one today.
 
Yeah, you'll get used to it. wouldnt recomend aciedentaly taking more than it says though like i did once in a hurry.
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I never understood depression. I refuse to believe it really is something that requires medication. I mean unless you're nuts and want to commit suicide.
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Originally posted by jmac3 jmac3 wrote:

I never understood depression. I refuse to believe it really is something that requires medication.
So, if I wish really hard and try to be more proactive, my brain will magically stop producing insufficient levels of seratonin?
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Seems kind of strange to doubt a medically and scientifically documented disease, but hey, I guess that's your right.
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I get that people are skeptical of psychological diseases, but generally; unless you are a trained psychologist, it's generally best to keep your mouth shut. It doesn't seem like much, but saying something like "Grow up and get over it" to someone who has a legitimate case of depression or an anxiety disorder can make the problem so much worse than it already is.

Now, your average drama queen needs to hear something like that every now and then; people with depression however, really don't need and added cause to feel alienated.
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Originally posted by jmac3 jmac3 wrote:

I never understood depression. I refuse to believe it really is something that requires medication. I mean unless you're nuts and want to commit suicide.

I think most people take this attitude (along with skepticism about ADD/ADHD for that matter) because most everyone has seen times when they were depressed and, one way or another, worked themselves out of it. 

It's easy to assume "Oh, hey, I did it, everyone else is just being dramatic", and in many cases I bet the person being treated could have been helped without meds, but there's definitely room for people out there who have a legitimate chemical imbalance.
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Not doubting any diagnosis, but what does it say that 1/3 of the people that have posted in this thread have been diagnosed and medicated for depression?

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Originally posted by jmac3 jmac3 wrote:

I never understood depression. I refuse to believe it really is something that requires medication. I mean unless you're nuts and want to commit suicide.


I used to believe this.
Then things happened to someone close to me, and I not only changed my tune, but realize just how clueless I was. They tried to 'just deal with it' and it didn't work, and ended up pretty bad.

The idea that "Everyone can tough it out" is a pretty simple outlook.
Do I think that its over diagnosed and perhaps over medicated sometimes? Absolutely. But honest to God cases of depression are real, and they do require medical attention. 

What you (and others) don't seem to understand is that if a legitimate case is left unchecked, it can spiral into the level you're talking about.

Far too many people suffer because of this outlook you've got. Too many people are waiting too long to have real cases of depression looked into, and its causing some real problems. In fact, I'll be 100% honest with you, the case that I've been personally involved in, it was my very own "Eh, it'll wear off" attitude that made things worse.

Not everyone can be as "tough" as you. Remember that.
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I think Reb's absolutely right.  Two good friends of mine committed suicide in the last year, one of whom refused to seek treatment.  It wasn't that he lacked people who were willing to help him, or that people didn't try.  It was simply that he couldn't do it based solely on willpower.

Sometimes life really does suck.  Hasn't happened to me, but this guy was literally a pillar of my high school's community, and he couldn't do it.  I don't know if he would have made it with medicine, but he never tried.
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