My Kid

Hey!

Since some of you probably saw in Tolgak's thread, my girlfriend is pregnant with my kid.

She's about 5 weeks along and is getting an abortion.

I just want to ask that you don't give me *stuff* about the whole abortion thing because trust me, I'm not real thrilled with the fact of knowing that my kid is soon to be dead.

I told her that I thought an abortion would be the way to go seeing that she needs to finish high school and I need to go through college and get a decent job.

Plus neither of us can afford a kid right now and it'd rip our families apart.

But I also told her that the ultimate decision was up to her and that I'd support her with whatever her decision may be.

And if that decision was to keep it, that I'd love the thing so much that he'd hate me for it and would continue loving her more and more.

But she has made her decision and we are going to abort the prenancy.

It's not easy, I'll tell you right now that it's a lot easier to say getting an abortion isn't a big deal until you actual have to deal with one.

This sucks to say the least.

I hope none of you have to deal with this in your lives.

FWI, I'm getting a tattoo in memory of him, I don't know exactly what it will be of yet but it will incorporate his name, Jackson Michael, and his DOD.

And BTW, I'm just referring to "him" even though the gender is unknown.

And once again...don't patronize me about the abortion.

If you want to do that, pull your head out of your ass first.

Thanks.

Well Flame away but i gona venture to say i DONT think your doing the right thing.

Now I  not gona bash ya and i admittendly dont have to deal with it BUT.  I just cant understand how Killing a Living Being in ANYWAY can be the right thing to do sorry  I CANT feel sorry for you and i dont give a RATS bottome what ya think of this post i SIMPLY stating my belife witch is the use of a Forum at witch You decided to post this information in.

Now things happen and people get themselfs in tight and bad situations BUT Killing a Living being is NEVER a good answer.  There are other routs to take.  Now i also know my post here is too have NO Impact on yours and your girlfriend choice BUT i would not feel right myself if i DID not express my opinions.

I do know MANY that delt with the same situation as you and your girl friend most notably is my MOTHER.  So please take this into consideration.  Thanx.